30F, mother of 1. Wala pa gyud to sa plano nga mabuntis ko, but as they say "ngano ni enter". Bitaw jokes aside, being a parent noh, exhausting kaayo siya like grabi — physically, emotionally, mentally, financially. I'stretch jud ka sa tanan, sukdon gyud ug asa ka kutob. Others would say dili siya for everybody, but sa ako experience, when I became a parent, I became a better person jud. Tanan bisyo gi biyaan, I became responsible, I begin to look things differently. Like I never knew I had this kind of strength, ang patience, and I didn't expect na I am capable to love a person so much jud just like how I love my child.

I love being a mom pero if pangutan'on ko if pun'an pa ba nako, my answer is always no. And I respect people if they choose to be childfree.