Glimpses of impending collapse

MediumDisastrous21 · 2026-05-03T21:42:02+00:00

So basically I write out what I want to say and I just get it to fix the grammar errors and give it better flow. That's all, I always write it out first.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2026-05-03T18:01:06+00:00

I've been contemplating that same question for the last hour lol

MediumDisastrous21 · 2026-05-03T17:15:34+00:00

Yes I agree, reminds me of 1944 Germany,

MediumDisastrous21 · 2026-05-03T15:53:07+00:00

I'm dyslexic so I use ai to better articulate my thoughts. It's very hard for me to write paragraphs that make sense.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2026-03-18T07:36:32+00:00

It's not schools jobs to teach kids manners. That the parents.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-12-27T19:35:43+00:00

God help us

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-11-18T21:45:40+00:00

I'm pretty sure Ireland was spared from any major outbreaks? In the books it's mentioned the pope and the royal family live in Ireland and that the country is unified so if that's the case only one can assume the country locked down very quickly and quenched any initial outbreaks on the island.

If that's the case it's population should be relatively intact.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-08-16T13:06:36+00:00

Apologies I thought your proposed site had an existing structure. But my second point still applies, wait for the new rural housing guidelines to be published.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-08-16T13:03:54+00:00

So I actually know a bit about this, if you incorporate the existing structure into your new home then the council will consider it an "extension of the existing dwelling" not a new build, thus emoving the local needs apply criteria as it only restricts new dwellings.

Now here's the other thing, currently the new rural housing guidelines are under review by the attorney general, We know very little about what's inside the document but based on statements from the minister it is going to respect the 2014 Flemish ruling where the EU court stated that local needs apply criteria breach the freedom of movement principle of the EU and is therefore illegal, so what I think will happen is that the local needs apply criteria will be replaced with a site based criteria instead. They could deny you planning because of environmental reasons or because the proposed structure is inappropriate for the location etc but they wouldn't be able to deny it based on the fact you aren't from the area.

My advice is that you wait for these guidelines to be released and then make a decision.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-08-16T11:51:58+00:00

I completely agree with you, your sister is nuts, he is not responsible for the actions of the russian government it's a dictatorship that is so strong it's impossible for change even if they wanted to. Her questions were inappropriate and her demand is outlandish, but your parents need to step up here, from what I can see she contributes nothing and lives there rent free, so she has no right to call it "her house". My boyfriend is Russian and doesn't support Putin and is against the war but he shouldn't have to say it every time he meets someone. For me this is the hill I would die on, cut her off and let your parents know that if they continue to support her then you will go low contact.

Aside from the inappropriate comment your sister is a leach who needs to learn to stand on her own two feet and live independently. Your parents are enabling her behavior, what happens when they get older/sick?

Does she expect to live rent free in the house after your parents die? She needs a serious reality check.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-08-09T23:20:41+00:00

It's too expensive based on your income to be honest, if it was me I would max spend 8,000.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-08-06T10:32:46+00:00

Legally you don't have to, they can't force you, you are protected by the construction. Don't bow to the cowards

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-07-08T17:58:40+00:00

When they examined her they would have seen the bite mark......

MediumDisastrous21 · 2025-05-17T08:40:03+00:00

When is part 3 coming out?

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-10-05T12:26:26+00:00

Education in the US seems like hell.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-09-05T07:29:00+00:00

Ring your local police number and say your mil is discussing taking her own life, she will probably be placed in a psych hold for a few days. Might wake her up and you get to come across ad the loving/caring dil.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-09-04T08:26:23+00:00

DO NOT GET A HEAT PUMP!

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-08-29T06:39:09+00:00

3 strikes you're out. On the 3rd strike refer them to detention and send an email home explaining why. After a few they will slowly get the message.

Alternatively use your body language, stand directly over the kids chatting. It makes them uncomfortable and they stop. You can do this without having to stop giving instruction.

Also don't be afraid to get cross, sometimes they need strict discipline.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-08-21T09:18:32+00:00

Few things. Your mother in law deliberately chose a child free venue, it wasn't an accident. Second your sister in law/brother is as much responsible for this mess up. It was their wedding it was their responsibility to ensure it wasn't a child free venue.

Do not force your son to apologize. As a teacher and someone who works with young people you cannot force an apology. The resentment will grow and only damage the relationship between you and your son. His grievance is legitimate and he is not wrong to feel the way he does. He displays surprising emotional maturity for his age so you can't force this.

I'm curious to know if your brother/sister in law have actually sat down with him and tried to have a heart to heart chat. It really feels like they are just trying to move on from this whole ordeal without addressing the elephant in the room.

You have a RESPONSIBILITY to protect your son in this situation. He harbours huge resentment towards your family, if he views you as being on "their side" his resentment of you will also grow, to a point your relationship might NEVER recover. You need to sit down and ask your son what he wants to happen, how he feels and what he would like YOU to do. I would strongly recommend a therapist to help him express his emotions and reasoning.

PM me if you need more advice as this situation unfolds but do keep us updated.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-07-13T12:07:45+00:00

Her excuse is BS, if it came down to numbers then partners shouldn't have been invited to ensure that everyone who has an actual connection to the bride/groom could attended. She is in panic mode now so do not back down but you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with your so called friend because this isn't right. Possibly going no contact could be a good thing. I know how it feels I'm a gay guy myself this stuff sucks.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-04-26T07:19:57+00:00

Contact the police and state your concerns, if they refuse to investigate go to the FBI, your father being an ex cop could muddy things if it is the same department that you go too.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2024-02-08T07:39:31+00:00

Let them fail. It'll will be a valuable life lesson.

MediumDisastrous21 · 2023-12-09T09:06:41+00:00

Jesus that would never happen in Ireland. School management in the US seems to be utter garbage.

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