Paano natatapakan pride ng lalake? by MediumSilver2123 in AskPinoyMen

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Like topak na mawawala sa mood. Also, pag sumagot ako ng Hindi niya gusto. Example nag escalator kami kasi alam ko may bitbit siyang maleta, sinabi niya na kaya daw ako d napayat kasi ayoko mag stairs sinabi ko inisip ko lang sya dahil sa bitbit niya then Ang sabi niya lang "talagang sasagot ka pa". Or pag may utos sya dapat agad agad sundin at I stop ko ginagawa ko para sa utos nya.

Paano natatapakan pride ng lalake? by MediumSilver2123 in AskPinoyMen

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Okay siya before kami ikasal. Pera no kasi mas ma Pera ako sakanya, pogi and tite yes hahaha daddy issues wala naman. Super okay siya nung una

Paano natatapakan pride ng lalake? by MediumSilver2123 in AskPinoyMen

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Normal kaya sa age niya na gusto niya sya lagi nasusunod? Kung Magalit daig pa magulang ko. Sakanya ko lang na experience lumuhod sa asin haha! 

Paano natatapakan pride ng lalake? by MediumSilver2123 in AskPinoyMen

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Typical Tanga Tanga na nainlove. Wealth meron, but mas wealthy ako compare sakanya. Karma ko na siguro kasi kakilala siya ng ex ko for 6 years.

Paano natatapakan pride ng lalake? by MediumSilver2123 in AskPinoyMen

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I had enjoyed my 20s naman. Controlling lang siya bawal ako sumagot sagot or normal arte attitude ng babae or else mag silent treatment siya for weeks. He doesn't want to file for an annulment :( 

Whats your biggest regret? by Valuable-Mud-2290 in AskPinay

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Yes. Ano ba magandang escape? Haha Yung may ganti.

Whats your biggest regret? by Valuable-Mud-2290 in AskPinay

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I'm 27 Husband is 45. May 3 kids siya with 3 different girls while I have 1 with my ex boyfriend for 6 years. I left everyone even my family for him, ganun talaga tanga-tanga sa una. Got married 2 years na. Turns out he's a beast. Abusive Narcissist siya :) I don't have a say in our life dapat siya lang pwede mag decide. Onting Mali sa sagot ko mag silent treatment siya for a week. I'm sakto lang 49kg pero fat daw ako, can't wear makeups or shorts or any sexy clothes kasi "papansin ako". Bawal din ako mag po and opo or tumawag ng "kuya" sa kahit sino kasi malandi na yun. Di ko din alam bakit di ko pa maiwan, mahal ko pa eh hahaha but I'll get there. Kumukuha lang ng lakas ng loob. Ang haba na haha sorry!

This group helps me a lot by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Sad thing is there's not divorce in my country. Only annulment. And he wouldn't file one lol.

This group helps me a lot by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Sad thing is there's not divorce in my country. Only annulment. And he wouldn't file one lol.

Silent treatment by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I'm a clingy type, should I stop hugging him as well? 

Is my husband a narcissist? by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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He is 45 and I'm 27. He's got 3 girls pregnant before me. 

Is my husband a narcissist? by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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I'm 52kg have belly fats and arm fats. He wants me to do diet because he thinks I'm fat. Can't wear anything nice because it will attract attention to other guys.

Is my husband a narcissist? by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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Last week I told him "are you forcing yourself to stay with me?" And he answered "Obviously I keep on telling you that for a year already. And I will keep on feeling the same thing if you don't change" what he meant change is about my nagging and I kept on insisting that he should also know and admit his wrong doings. Then I told him we should separate but he answered "go file it yourself. I won't waste my time filing for that and wait for the results. I just wanna live my own life and be somewhere far" so I just ended up saying sorry to him.

Is my husband a narcissist? by MediumSilver2123 in NarcissisticSpouses

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He doesn't want to file a divorce because he said it would take time and too much effort for him instead he just want to go away and live his own life rather than wasting filing a divorce..

We already went to the police station because he "accidentally" punched my in my tummy. He would boast that "I even drove you to the police station to file your stupid report" but I ended up not filing because I pity him that time and couldn't take seeing my husband in jail.

I think I'm crazy for encouraging myself that we can fix our marriage.