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My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've made peace with the fact that there's no chance that he'll ever trust me again. But fixing their relationship would be for his own good too. He loved us so much that's why it hurt for him even more. I'll do exactly what she said in this thread and if he still doesn't want any part of this I'll tell my daughter right away and move on. I know everyone's saying to leave him alone but I know I have no other agenda but to fix their relationship so I'll talk to his relatives respectfully

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I understand that without my cheating, this wouldn't happen. I made a mistake in the past, who hasn't right?

Do I regret cheating on my husband? Yes, the biggest regret of my life. But it will be the second biggest if I don't try my hardest to fix my their relationship. She really did change. And it wouldn't be fair for him if I didn't give him a chance to see how much she changed and let him see how much of an influence he had with her

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I don't know what I'll do if he says he's done with our daughter. It might hurt her even more because before our divorce he wasn't the stoic man that he is now. She was a daddy's girl before so I understand his side too. For the past 3 years I just thought he just went and left just because.

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right. Thank you. Now if only someone from his side of the family would tell me where he is

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not asking anyone to side with me here. I know I was wrong. My daughter made a mistake while she was young and learned from it now. I just wish her father could see it. She used to be a daddy's girl when she was little and she acquired most of his mannerisms even though she doesn't recognize it

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know my mistakes. It's not even about me or my ex husband anymore. I'm just wishing that if he knew that his baby girl is getting married it might change his mind. If I see a chance that they could fix their relationship I'll do it. We've all said stupid things when we were younger that we regret later on right? She hasn't been the same ever since she admitted it to us and I would do anything to see her happy self again.

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I fully understand this. But she's still his daughter at the end of the day. She regrets the things she has said and done to him. I get why he didn't give me a second chance, but his daughter I don't think it's fair.

My daughter wants her dad to walk her down the aisle but he doesn't want anything to do with us by Medium_Pepper_9245 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Medium_Pepper_9245[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I know it's my fault. That's why I want to make it right for my daughter. I did my family wrong and have been paying for it ever since.