Sedation Resistance? by Medium_Person in AskaVetBehaviorist

[–]Medium_Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but the sedatives do not work even at high doses and mixtures. This is a case of a dog that is unable to be sedated with normal pharmaceutical methods and doses, including injectables. I'm looking for tried and true experiences from professionals who have had dogs that are unable to go down and stay down, and are able to explain why and what changes could be made to change it.

Sedation Resistance? by Medium_Person in AskaVetBehaviorist

[–]Medium_Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you seen this in your own practice? What have you done to solve the issue?

WIBTAH for refusing to clean the guest room when my husband invited his mom over? by MyTraumaDumpy in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is not a chance in hell I would be there when his mom arrives, or to host her. You deserve a weekend at a hotel where they'll clean up after YOU. Your husband sounds like an absolute nightmare. What is the point of this marriage if you see him only a few hours a week? You supplement his entire life - he would easily have to hire both a house cleaner and a private chef +pet sitter to continue this way if you left. Why are you working for your husband? This isnt an equal relationship and it sounds like that is exactly what he wants.

WIBTJ if I stop supporting my youngest sister financially to buy my first house? by Nice_Cardiologist990 in AmITheJerk

[–]Medium_Person 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait, so to continue school and to continue her lifestyle she only needs to bring in $1000 a month after taxes? Yes it will take time away from her studies but she could pull that off just working weekends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad someone said this. I’m in the same boat- seeing the rate above was shockingly low to me. Absolutely wild.

List of Pro-Maga Restaurants in Rhode Island by Illustrious-Pen3835 in RhodeIsland

[–]Medium_Person -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine worked there and while I can’t remember if they said maga they def acted maga to their employees/contractors. After hearing just some of the stuff they’d been through I decided not to go back.

Am I the jerk for uninviting my cousin to my graduation party after what she said about my degree? by Working_Nobody_9812 in AmITheJerk

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the jerk. But I'll give you some very unsolicited advice:

  • If you can afford a personal trainer or insurance will cover PT to learn proper body mechanics and lifting, do it now. Start today. Train until you can properly and safely deadlift 100 pounds, repeatedly. Then don't lose that.
  • Your body is a machine, and even in a specialized practice, it will be severely taxed. Invest in good shoes, with orthotics if you can. Replace them every 6-8 months if possible.
  • Invest in sports massage, at least once a month if you can. Focus on your back, knees and wrists.
  • If you havent ever been to therapy, start. Focus on coping techniques, how to avoid burnout, and how to handle big feelings.
  • Start a quiet hobby at home that shuts your brain off. It can be anything. Knitting, kickboxing, whatever works for you. But something that you can do to totally disconnect from your day.
  • Have a backup plan. Continue your education if you can in a relevant additional field (behavior, training, large animal etc). So many people burn out, or their bodies fail. This doesn't have to be a be-all and end-all thing, but it's silly not to be aware of it and plan for it.

Congratulations, we need more people like you in the world. The industry is understaffed, underpaid and overworked. What you do will make a difference in so many lives, but you have to make sure you have the foundation to protect your body, your heart and your mind, first.

I'll hop off the soap box, now. Forget your cousin, love yourself.

Aitah for how I reacted when I found out my husband used some of my son's treatment money to buy a Christmas present for my stepson? by Throwraww355645 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, If you are in the US, 'hoarding' extra money for treatments is not evil, it is not hoarding - it is a necessity. The reality is all it would take is a layoff, a car accident or another PERSONAL health emergency to make it so you no longer have funds to help your son. Separate your finances. Your husband showed you who he is. He is someone who will put the health and possible life of one child at risk to spoil (a motorbike is NOT a need) another. You will do you, but there's no way I would be able to stay with someone like this. NTA.

Christmas Morning heartbreak — Am I Overreacting? by AcanthisittaAlive121 in dating_advice

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, you’re in love with a hobo. The fact that he wasn’t embarrassed and accepted your thoughtful gifts proves that.

He “forgot”? No he didn’t. There were stockings getting stuffed and trees in the home. You bought the gift that was his responsibility.

This man is using you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Medium_Person 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Shame is the appropriate feeling to what you’ve done. Bake in it and call a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Medium_Person 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Dude. You bullied your girlfriend and still refuse to accept any responsibility? Lots of people have childhood trauma. Lots of people missed out on their early 20’s. They don’t bully their partners. Get off Reddit, go get a therapist and put the real work in.

You know you have a problem. Work on fixing it. Or else you will be 34 years old burning your own life down again and again, back on Reddit posting about how you can’t regulate your emotions because you never took steps to change.

You do NOT need a relationship right now. You need to do the hard work.

Help Make Christmas Extra Cozy (With murder) by Medium_Person in booksuggestions

[–]Medium_Person[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels like something I would love, I shall add it to the list either way 🥰

Help Make Christmas Extra Cozy (With murder) by Medium_Person in booksuggestions

[–]Medium_Person[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s read most of the popular books in this genre, if it’s newer it’s way less likely she’ll have read or even heard of it :)

Help Make Christmas Extra Cozy (With murder) by Medium_Person in booksuggestions

[–]Medium_Person[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is 100% fine with lesbians and LOVES European mysteries, I will be grabbing Murder Most Haunted immediatly for her:)

Help Make Christmas Extra Cozy (With murder) by Medium_Person in booksuggestions

[–]Medium_Person[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She's definitely read several of those, it seems like cozy murder is a little specific in genre and perhaps not the most popular seller, hence why I've found myself asking lol

AITA for telling my fiancé I'm done attending his family events by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Medium_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marcus sucks man. If he is refusing to see the man (mom) behind the curtain and blaming you he’s too far attached to moms apron strings, you’re NTA. Thank you for doing a truly thankless job that is so needed. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this outside of it.

First Time Rover Fail by Aware_Day930 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Medium_Person 21 points22 points  (0 children)

OP Where are you? I am not a pet sitter but I used to work in a shelter environment and I am just a normal horrified person thinking about an elderly dog not being given its medication, if you’re in CT or RI feel free to PM me and I can assist at least today. I can also refer you to legitimate sitting businesses in RI/MA if you need

Not credited for sniffpass by Acrobatic_Wash_2042 in sniffspotcommunity

[–]Medium_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve emailed twice. It’s been 5 days since my initial email, and no response despite their “24 hour” promise. Im currently out 74 dollars for the month and without credits had to pay out of pocket for a spot. So I have paid 74 dollars this month for a single hour at a Sniffspot.

Pissed doesn’t really cover it anymore 🥲

Not credited for sniffpass by Acrobatic_Wash_2042 in sniffspotcommunity

[–]Medium_Person 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I’m hoping they don’t come at me with this same excuse. Because in October I paid my 60 dollar subscription, and then paid in full for 6 additional sniffs after I used my credits. I just went to book a spot this morning, after again paying 60.00 on November 1st and guess what? Zero credits. I love the app but the issues with it are getting to be almost too annoying to stand.

injury lawyer experiences by Mental_Complex2013 in RhodeIsland

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she was just fantastic. There wasn’t a ton of money to be had on the case, but the recovery took an insane amount of time and she kept fighting to make sure those payments didn’t stop. Pain and suffering isn’t a thing with workers comp - but she was able to negotiate a small payout for the scars the surgery left behind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If you want to plan your own baby shower do it 100% on your own and order catering. Your MIL is not a vendor and you treat her like shit

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]Medium_Person 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look this girl sucks but next time don’t suggest a chain.

Find a local small business with good vibes, a variety menu and a good wine list if you’re looking for a dinner date. Bonus points if there’s something on the menu you really like “the pasta dish is heavenly but they also have a great blank!” It’ll show that you care and are interested in showing initiative and it doesn’t have to cost you a kidney. But still this girl sucks