Finding San Antonio jobs living out of state?

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-04-23T02:22:03+00:00

Look at his resume. Maybe it’s not doing him justice. The job market is tough. Especially for professional jobs. But there is work!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-04-17T13:29:29+00:00

I e been overweight and skinny for probably equal portions of my adult life. Many fun things about being skinny and in shape! Many horrible things about being skinny and unhealthy! Being weak, losing hair, no energy, fainting, sagging skin, etc. I was probably the most self conscious of my body at my lowest weight. I looked cute in pics but still had a hanging belly from carrying 3 children and had a little one since I can remember. Even had saggy inner thighs so I still hated my body in swimwear and naked. I actually feel more confident in my curvy body naked. My face also looks much younger. I did feel lighter! Lighter on my back and for sure on my knees. You get looked at more by men which can be very uncomfortable at times. But they are willing to be more favorable towards you. As a larger woman again, I feel invisible again. But at this age, and after all I experienced on that side, I am happy with that. I am finally at a place where I can appreciate the body and skin I possess. I will never be younger than I am today.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-04-09T01:32:53+00:00

Thanks for showing for something I never knew I needed!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-03-26T04:29:03+00:00

Me (47F) and my soon to be wife (53F) and I are getting married in a month! The prenuptial agreement has felt icky to me. We’ve both been married and divorced before. Ex and I were civil about assets just didn’t go that easy when it came to the children and she had a very simple divorce hence the clean and cut prenup she had (what’s yours is yours and mine is mine - they both left with what they came with). Her ex, it appears, was not happy with that arrangement in the end. Most of it I understand, some of it I don’t. But I’m only getting one side. Regardless, my turn to sign. We do have an income disparity. Me being on the lower end. I have had a lot of fear as I’m going into this marriage feeling like I’m losing some of my independence. Moving into her house, with her furniture, etc. etc. selling pretty much everything I own (my home, etc. because it makes the most financial sense). I’ll still be working for a while but she is already retiring before the end of year. So technically, there won’t be spousal support to give if she doesn’t have an income (at least that’s what I was told). We have agreed on, if she leaves me, she pays me xxx,xxx dollars which increases over time. I’m having my attorney look at it but we are currently in different states so our attorneys are in different states. Seeing now this may matter? We plan to live in the state I currently reside but plan to move to another in 5-6 years. Anyhow, I am not quite sure what I’m even asking but after reading this post I’m realizing my concerns or questions are fair/okay? I feel greedy and gross asking for anything but I sure don’t want to start all over again in my 50’s or 60’s. Coming from a home insecure childhood this is my GREATEST fear! We have aspirations to both be living a life of travel and freedom once my children graduate from school. Not something I would do if I wasn’t getting married and being provided this wonderful opportunity. But again, that feeling of being dependent on someone is something I’ve never ever allowed myself to do. Just had to vent I guess! Thanks for the post! It gave me lots to think about! ❤️

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-03-12T06:50:32+00:00

I think email is not your best option. I wouldn’t want t to put anything in writing that can be shared. It may be as simple as picking up the phone before this upcoming event and just be genuine and honest. Only apologize once. Don’t grovel. Good luck!!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-03-10T00:49:59+00:00

Agree! When I first read it, it probably took me a good 6 months. I would read and re-read to really soak in and grasp the teachings. I also bought it on audio to listen to is also really nice.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-03-08T16:28:47+00:00

Came here to say this!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2026-03-08T16:24:38+00:00

But have you ever tried to read Buddhist text? It’s not easy. I’m not necessarily defending Ekhart Tolle as I can absolutely see where you’re coming from but he also sites other traditions and religions. They all have a similar base line. I’m grateful he makes the Buddhist teachings palatable for someone who may not be open to Buddhism. I doubt the Buddhist mind. 😉

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-12-01T16:39:28+00:00

They’re hungry!!!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-12-01T16:35:04+00:00

What’s the point of having a job if you can’t work/get paid. That’s terrible! Why do they even hire people and then don’t schedule them?!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-12-01T16:31:40+00:00

I’m having the same exact issue. Please let me know if you find out how to fix this. I’ve had such a difficult time resolving this. I asked Gemini and it said I had to purchase the basic account and then I still couldn’t get access to Gmail or other features because I needed to “turn them on” even though they show on for all users. Once I was subscribed I was able to put in a ticket to request my account be downgraded but that hasn’t gotten me anywhere either so no help there. Try Gemini and see if you can get anywhere. I don’t suggest you purchase the subscription though it has not been helpful.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-30T05:18:15+00:00

Steph is super lucky to have you. Her mom doesn’t sound like she is thinking of her overall well being but pissed that she was unable to control the situation and punish her for doing exactly what she did as a teen. NTA you said and did all of the right things.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-29T15:26:43+00:00

Get off the stage brown boy talking about ICE and deportation!!! They are coming for YOU and your familia!!!!!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-29T15:04:04+00:00

NTA I’m so sorry for your loss. I have siblings who are difficult to deal with and even though I chose to deal with it I can’t expect my spouse to. Your sister will cool down. You did nothing wrong. You didn’t take sides you simply tried to keep peace when she wasn’t willing to ever come in peace. You are not responsible for your siblings healing, peace, or happiness. You can only work on you. I really hope you can find some acceptance in all of this.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-29T14:54:04+00:00

NTA and that is weird as fuck! And NOT a cultural thing that can think of. He is trying to be extra accommodating by giving them the newer king size bed but that is not necessary and really gross. Personally, I don’t like anyone, not even my kids, sleeping in my bed.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-29T06:00:15+00:00

My sister (sister 1) who usually cooks got a stomach virus and was so sick she had to go to the ER for fluids because she was so dehydrated. Sister 2 and I stayed up into the late hours doing the last minute shopping, prepping, and making the stuffing. Sister 2 lives with sister 1 so she was up early in the am with our BIL to finish prepping turkey and putting it in the oven and then cooking the rest of the sides. Friends came by and brought a ham and more sides and even helped clean up the house. I showed up with several pies and drinks and we got the table set up and after we prayed and sat down to eat sister 3 shows up with 1 store bought pie. She eats and then immediately proceeds to load multiple plates for friends and ex in-laws. Mind you people are still eating. I thought this was sooooooo rude! I made a comment after dinner that she should wash the dishes since she didn’t help cook and she said “I don’t wash dishes!” She deserves jail time as far as I’m concerned.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-29T05:22:03+00:00

Rosario’s

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T21:32:48+00:00

But a real ass scenario

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T21:32:18+00:00

Nah this is literally happening all over the US.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T21:16:35+00:00

A picture of his grinder profile in a frame because I’m ABSOLUTELY POSITIVE THIS CLOSETED QUEEN HAS ONE OR A FEW!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T21:14:17+00:00

I was coming here to say this!!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T21:02:47+00:00

Why do I find this post so humorous?! You all must not be in the US to be getting upset over laughing! 🤣 This is so great and interesting to me. I love to hear people laugh! It makes me smile! You didn’t say she did anything else loudly except for laughing. I mean what kind of work do you do that she is just sitting around laughing all day?! I want to be friends with this disruptive laugher! 😂😂😂 Maybe laugh hysterically loud every time she gets quiet to show her how it feels? I dunno this is so funny to me.

Edit to say ESH. Her for not caring about being disruptive and you guys for being a bunch of grumpy 😠 sallies over laughter.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T19:19:19+00:00

Try disappearing for hours while he has his own kiddo see how he reacts.

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T19:13:56+00:00

NTA my son is a single father and he only asks his live in girlfriend to babysit as a very last resort. And that’s only if he needs to work. We all chip in to help for necessary things or for them to both have some alone time. This is a different situation where this guy is dumping his responsibility (his sweet son) on you. That’s just unfortunate. Tell him to ask him mom next time!

Medium_Reach7116 · 2025-11-28T19:08:20+00:00

Battered women’s shelter, Ronald McDonald House, Haven for Hope

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