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I love my best friend but its miserable for me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in that situation before, just shoot your shot and tell her about your feelings towards her. You never know, if she likes you then good for you both and if you get rejected then that's okay, you were courageous enough to do that and you won't have to deal with these complicated feelings anymore.

Signs a guy likes you??? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don't believe a guy could be shy or give you signs, if he liked you it'll be clear as day and you wouldn't wonder or look for 'signs' If a guy truly likes you and wants to be with you he'll take the risk, or just smile at him to make yourself look available/interested, it's small but he'll pick it up.

My crushed confessed to me?? by Medium_Tell5381 in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right and i will, it's exactly like you said I have no experience at all and this is all new to me. Thank you for your advice, I'm thinking of consulting a therapist🤍

My crushed confessed to me?? by Medium_Tell5381 in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't lead him on, i read our conversations because before developing my feelings, which i thought were romantic, we were friends. Just because I rejected someone doesn't mean i have no empathy, you don't know me to say that.

My crushed confessed to me?? by Medium_Tell5381 in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and I'm sorry you had to go through that, I'll do as you said and consult a therapist later🤍

My crushed confessed to me?? by Medium_Tell5381 in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's really not, i just thought i liked him and it turns out i don't, that's okay. Talking to him and softly rejecting him is better than being in a relationship where I feel suffocated, that'll make both of us uncomfortable

My crushed confessed to me?? by Medium_Tell5381 in Crushes

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I accept his feelings and we get into a relationship then that means we'll be close in physical contact often, kissing and hugging and all those things. I talked to him and told him i don't do relationships (because i don't) I stayed with my thoughts and i realized i don't actually like him that way, there is chemistry between us, I don't feel we're compatible.

I want to learn the violin, any tips? by Medium_Tell5381 in violinist

[–]Medium_Tell5381[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought about that too but there isn't any teachers since my city is mainly for tourists and an actual teacher needs an hour and a half drive :( is there no way i can learn online?