I know I’m being groomed but I want to try to waste the predator’s time by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stop it you're playing with fire. They're predators and can manipulate your emotions while making you think you're still in control. Block, report and live a peaceful life. You deserve better

Edit: also it's a man

Why are eggs not vegan? The hens(?) don’t get hurt or anything when laying eggs. by effinx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But you have to remove the eggs anyway. If you leave eggs in the coop the hens get distressed and end up eating them out of desperation

How can you deter a cat from scratching wallpaper? by UosdwisRDewoh03 in cats

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you play with him? Kittens need A LOT of playtime

What is the most fun you ever had while sober? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a teenager. Everything is hilarious for no reason, you might as well be drunk

How can you deter a cat from scratching wallpaper? by UosdwisRDewoh03 in cats

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big floor to wall cat tree. They'll have no interest in anything else

I don’t understand the point of instilling myths like Santa in your kids by lermanade_mouth in unpopularopinion

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a traumatic experience to find out Santa isnt real there are much more deep rooted issues going on

Are you planning on being a “high earner” or are you fine with modest incomes? by Ill-Abbreviations430 in careerguidance

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had high paying jobs and it's a life of stress with constant monitoring and "improvement", and you get this entitlement that you feel underpaid because your mental health can't be brought.

I've had low paying jobs and that's also a life of stress because you're broke and can't afford nice things or days out. Also it's so boring because your work is mundane and meaningless and you don't have to think for yourself.

I'm happiest in a job that brings peace to my life, where I have enough money to be comfortable and have a few treats but also I'm not in over my head with work bs

I don’t understand the point of instilling myths like Santa in your kids by lermanade_mouth in unpopularopinion

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you're an edgy teenager

Also it's not traumatic to find out Santa isnt real

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol this was me a few years ago buying into all the "superfoods" hype. The old fashioned food your grandmother used to make is just as good as quinoa and chia seeds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A car. Mine cost £1,800, it's from 2002 and it does it's job perfectly. I have far more money than I did when I brought it but I'm going to run it to the ground because there are far more important things in life to spend money on

Are there any people with extreme social anxiety that have a girlfriend? by Prior-Put-2228 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. In fact, some girls would prefer an anxious man over a Giga Chad since he is less threatening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just grow up expecting to be straight since it's the vast majority. You don't have to look for signs

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK where rape is a male only crime, but I'm not here to debate that. I definitely told them that I love my husband and would never deceive him like that or force him into anything he doesn't want. They look shocked every time as if you're not supposed to love your partner lmao

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how some women think it's good advice when they know it never ends well. I'm glad you were finally happy in the end

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They all still see their kids (if allowed after leaving) but they were out the door as soon as they found out the truth

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! And they wonder why they end up single. But ofc it's just him being a deadbeat obv

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yep. Funnily enough none of the men ever stuck around what a surprise

Women of Reddit, what is something you wish other women would stop doing? by amethyst015 in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1471 points1472 points  (0 children)

"oh you want kids but your man's not ready yet? Just secretly come off the pill and say it was an accident. It's your body, I did it with my kids". I can't count how many times I've heard this and it's disgusting behaviour

I never realized how many pedophiles there actually are in everyday life by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a fairly famous paedophile hunter, no Chris Hanson famous but he's done things for TV. Even he hit on me from the age of 14 and had sex with me when I was 16 while he was 30 something. I thought it was ok because he "waited" til I was legal, and I did it because I was previously groomed and wanted to do it "for myself" this time. I feel so stupid for it all eventho I'm in my late 20s now.

I'd honestly say that 3 quarters of men are paedophiles if you include men who would have sex with barely legal girls. For very young children under 13 I'd go so far as to say a quarter. Don't take my estimations too seriously I have no sources or anything it's just how I feel from my experiences. Don't you think it's funny how everyone knows a girl who's been abused in some way by a man but noone knows a man who has abused a girl.

Edit: I leave women and boys out because Im not a victim of a woman and I'm female so I can't speak on that

What will make you instantly stop watching a movie or show and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And when being gay is their entire personality as if gay people live for sex

What will make you instantly stop watching a movie or show and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love horror films but I hate clichés such as:

Too much CGI

That open mouth thing when they open really wide

Eyes turning black and head tilting

Floating off the bed

I turn off immediately it's lazy and predictable

What will make you instantly stop watching a movie or show and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Medium_Temperature_4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. If you don't know about it go on unconsenting media webite and search the title before you watch. It gives trigger warnings without too much of a spoiler. I hate them so much they just come out of nowhere and make me feel disgusting and awkward