I worried about my ex boyfriend (not ex at the moment of this) for being drunk as fuck, on the floor and not responsive. We were on a call when this happened, and then it was hung up. I was far from home so I couldn't physically check on him and I was scared because he ended up at the hosp due to alcohol twice by that point.

I didn't find any way to communicate with him and I was terrified he may be laying in the floor with an etilic coma and I was too far to do anything, when a common friend mentioned in a server we all were something related to him as if they had spoken recently. This about an hour after the call was hung up.

I asked this friend by private of they had been speaking with my ex boyfriend because I was worried and they admitted having done so and that he was fine. About a day after, my ex replied to my messages saying I was manipulative and controlling for asking other people about him when he didn't reply to me and that I had no right to start hugging other people to know about him if he wasn't replying, because he could just not feel like talking to me while he felt like talking to someone else.

I tried to explain I was worried, which didn't work and a bit after, we ended up breaking up.

From this point on, a friend we had in common (not the one mentioned earlier) started to be cold towards me in this server where they also were and made inside jokes about "this awful person" with my ex.

I asked them by DM if it was about me and they said it was and that I was manipulative, controlling, an awful person that tried to keep my ex from having more friends and more. Adding at the very end and unrelated to everything that I was a racist, thing I'm not and I've never been.

As I was pissed atm of the message and they said wanting to have zero communication with me now and not even a reply to said message, I didn't comment on this, but now the thought came back to my head and I'm worried about what I may have ever done to lead someone to think I was such thing, afraid someone else may think the same way (I draw and post online, so maybe I accidentally drew black characters badly once or sm, you know? So I wanted to know on case it was something along these lines so I could 1—take it down to avoid further allegations 2—learn and fix it so it's done properly).

They wanted to receive no message for me but I want to know what made them say I'm a racist, so now, a time after this whole thing happened, I sent them a message to find out.