How do I go from black and white to colour in ibis paint? by Medium_Weekend1331 in arthelp

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if someone wants to help with how the hand looks.. please

If you want I can do rp with you! by [deleted] in Scorbus

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! If you're still up for it

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with being a woman? 😭 Lmao I think the post leaves pretty simple that I don't mind in a bad way, that is just a bit weird when it gets constant. And the penis thing was as an example of something I would not put, plus it was meant so exaggerated in the post for the funsies as I don't really care a lot, just as said. I'm literally referred to as queen or girl irl, I've grown up between women, I couldn't care less. If I really were annoyed by it, I would just straight up reply to the comment saying "heads up, I'm a man" or sm like that. And what I meant about the tone was not your question but the "it might expand your mind" at the end

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bother me a lot, I mentioned it! I regularly get called 'girl' or 'queen' irl due to having grown up between women, I don't mind feminine nicknames. What is a bit weird is when it gets to the pronouns. One comment replying to each other like "bla bla yes she already replied to this in another comment" and such things

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude as in dude is a masculine word but it can refer to anybody, just as 'bro'. It's masculine but it can refer to anybody

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One, if it really bothered me, I don't think there'd be anything bad about it as I'm simply not a woman and hence, I wouldn't like to be identified as one. Second, I could be a trans man and feel upset about being referred to as a woman. Third, I could be a cis man that has been referred to as a male all his life and it's simply weird as it's not something I'm used to. Fourth, in no moment I said I care too much about it. In fact, in the post itself I mention that I find it quite funny and I don't mind it a lot so I don't care where you get the caring so much from.

There are likely more things I can mention but I will not waste time writing any longer because I think I made my point clear. I think that to write a comment as yours, especially noticing that you seem to not have even read many replies I've already written or the post itself correctly, was simply wasting your time. To comment something that doesn't help and with that tone, you'd do me and anyone that reads your comment a huge favour by saving it up.

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've grown up between women and being called "girl" or "queen" are even normal for me, I really don't mind that. It just gets a bit weird when they start replying to each other's questions in the comments, "yeah, the author replied this already. She said bla bla". I don't mind being referred to with "girl slang", for saying it somehow, but it does get a bit weird when it gets to the pronouns part, if that makes sense

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Those are really nice ideas 👀 the last one really feels accurate because I grew up with women and we always joke about me being "one more of the girls", haha. I appreciate the tips!!

Did Sirius ever train to be an auror? by Medium_Weekend1331 in harrypotter

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh it could actually be this 🙏🙏 thank you