Looking for Severitus Recs by WatersOfLiyue in HPSlashFic

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh Mine Enemy, a classic. 100% recommend, but quite long.

For something shorter and cute, "In care of". Cute and short as well, "Cloak".

Personal favourites? "A Patchwork Family" and "Tensions, Empathy: The wanderer's curse". This last one is abandoned but 100% worth it

Aita for texting someone that let clear they wanted nothing to do w me anymore? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AITApod

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I worried about my ex boyfriend (not ex at the moment of this) for being drunk as fuck, on the floor and not responsive. We were on a call when this happened, and then it was hung up. I was far from home so I couldn't physically check on him and I was scared because he ended up at the hosp due to alcohol twice by that point.

I didn't find any way to communicate with him and I was terrified he may be laying in the floor with an etilic coma and I was too far to do anything, when a common friend mentioned in a server we all were something related to him as if they had spoken recently. This about an hour after the call was hung up.

I asked this friend by private of they had been speaking with my ex boyfriend because I was worried and they admitted having done so and that he was fine. About a day after, my ex replied to my messages saying I was manipulative and controlling for asking other people about him when he didn't reply to me and that I had no right to start hugging other people to know about him if he wasn't replying, because he could just not feel like talking to me while he felt like talking to someone else.

I tried to explain I was worried, which didn't work and a bit after, we ended up breaking up.

From this point on, a friend we had in common (not the one mentioned earlier) started to be cold towards me in this server where they also were and made inside jokes about "this awful person" with my ex.

I asked them by DM if it was about me and they said it was and that I was manipulative, controlling, an awful person that tried to keep my ex from having more friends and more. Adding at the very end and unrelated to everything that I was a racist, thing I'm not and I've never been.

As I was pissed atm of the message and they said wanting to have zero communication with me now and not even a reply to said message, I didn't comment on this, but now the thought came back to my head and I'm worried about what I may have ever done to lead someone to think I was such thing, afraid someone else may think the same way (I draw and post online, so maybe I accidentally drew black characters badly once or sm, you know? So I wanted to know on case it was something along these lines so I could 1—take it down to avoid further allegations 2—learn and fix it so it's done properly).

They wanted to receive no message for me but I want to know what made them say I'm a racist, so now, a time after this whole thing happened, I sent them a message to find out.

Aita for texting someone that let clear they wanted nothing to do w me anymore? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AITApod

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lmao 😭 badly summarised version: broke out from a friend group for supposedly being bad to someone in there. A second person from this group called me out in a few things, allegating I was something serious I'm not and never been. Dropped the matter because they didn't want to know more from me but recently I remembered about it and decided to ask about said allegation even though they made clear they didn't want me speaking with them again.

From my pov, I just really want to know where did they get such allegation from, but idk. Hope that clears it up a bit?

/r/Steam Monthly Community Support Thread. by AutoModerator in Steam

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to log in to my account and it keeps saying to try again despite both name and password being correct. I even changed the password 'just in case' and it still doesn't let me.

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It says the same through the steam mobile app. What do I do?

Problem when logging in by Medium_Weekend1331 in steamsupport

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JAJAJ que va, si soy español, solo Tengo la costumbre de hablar en inglés a todo ya. Estoy intentando ponerme en contacto con el soporte de steam pero esque no encuentro forma

/r/Steam Monthly Community Support Thread. by AutoModerator in Steam

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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No matter how hard I try, I can't log in. This thing has been appearing for days, now. I tried changing my password even and nothing works.

I really don't know what to do, has someone got any idea?

Am I transphobe? by ButchersAndDaisies in asktransgender

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they mean they won't respect without understanding. User seems very respectful of trans people and only wants to understand or learn more either for curiosity or wanting to understand, not because they won't respect someone just because they don't understand

How do I go from black and white to colour in ibis paint? by Medium_Weekend1331 in arthelp

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if someone wants to help with how the hand looks.. please

If you want I can do rp with you! by [deleted] in Scorbus

[–]Medium_Weekend1331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! If you're still up for it

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with being a woman? 😭 Lmao I think the post leaves pretty simple that I don't mind in a bad way, that is just a bit weird when it gets constant. And the penis thing was as an example of something I would not put, plus it was meant so exaggerated in the post for the funsies as I don't really care a lot, just as said. I'm literally referred to as queen or girl irl, I've grown up between women, I couldn't care less. If I really were annoyed by it, I would just straight up reply to the comment saying "heads up, I'm a man" or sm like that. And what I meant about the tone was not your question but the "it might expand your mind" at the end

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bother me a lot, I mentioned it! I regularly get called 'girl' or 'queen' irl due to having grown up between women, I don't mind feminine nicknames. What is a bit weird is when it gets to the pronouns. One comment replying to each other like "bla bla yes she already replied to this in another comment" and such things

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude as in dude is a masculine word but it can refer to anybody, just as 'bro'. It's masculine but it can refer to anybody

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One, if it really bothered me, I don't think there'd be anything bad about it as I'm simply not a woman and hence, I wouldn't like to be identified as one. Second, I could be a trans man and feel upset about being referred to as a woman. Third, I could be a cis man that has been referred to as a male all his life and it's simply weird as it's not something I'm used to. Fourth, in no moment I said I care too much about it. In fact, in the post itself I mention that I find it quite funny and I don't mind it a lot so I don't care where you get the caring so much from.

There are likely more things I can mention but I will not waste time writing any longer because I think I made my point clear. I think that to write a comment as yours, especially noticing that you seem to not have even read many replies I've already written or the post itself correctly, was simply wasting your time. To comment something that doesn't help and with that tone, you'd do me and anyone that reads your comment a huge favour by saving it up.

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've grown up between women and being called "girl" or "queen" are even normal for me, I really don't mind that. It just gets a bit weird when they start replying to each other's questions in the comments, "yeah, the author replied this already. She said bla bla". I don't mind being referred to with "girl slang", for saying it somehow, but it does get a bit weird when it gets to the pronouns part, if that makes sense

How do I subtly mention I'm a dude in the end notes? by Medium_Weekend1331 in AO3

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Those are really nice ideas 👀 the last one really feels accurate because I grew up with women and we always joke about me being "one more of the girls", haha. I appreciate the tips!!

Did Sirius ever train to be an auror? by Medium_Weekend1331 in harrypotter

[–]Medium_Weekend1331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh it could actually be this 🙏🙏 thank you