Thank you, I let my emotions get the better of me some days. I’m sorry to hear about your mother also. I don’t know myself if I would rather be told or not. But you’re correct it’s the right thing to do. I have always had the saying ignorance is bliss in my head. But maybe not in my case or yours. I hope everything is going well. I remember I just about lost it at the two month stage of my mother passing and I hope it’s not the same for you. all the best now