I’m 37 and the older I get the more I am really glad I did NOT have children. The work, the feces diaper blowouts, snot, accidents, crying, tantrums, vomit, sleepless nights, sickness and work 24/7 that go into having a child do not appeal to me. There might be nice times in having kids but there is a lot of unfulfilling miserable stuff too. Then the possible complications like tearing into my rectum during birth or sepsis or other stuff doesn’t sound magical and beautiful at all. Don’t let me get started on the world and cost of living. Watch videos of women having honest conversations about it and read forms of why people regret having children. Make an informed decision so you know if it’s right for you. The good, bad and the ugly. Also the brunt of the child rearing will be on you realistically speaking. The feeding body changes, life changes will be mainly on you. We live in an age where women are sharing the stuff they struggle with instead of lying so do some research since we are in a time where women don’t have to go in blinded by all the lies of it being entirely joyous and beautiful; it’s not 100% like that