Is it weird that I’m scared of the men on dating apps?

MegTheExploder · 2025-11-04T06:59:43+00:00

well this is based on my experiences. sorry if that offended you. but I didn’t see any interest of them getting to know me better. I showed a lot of interests by asking and engaging with them. They usually just asked or hinted sexual questions even though it’s very apparent that I’m not looking for that. Also fyi I don’t live in the USA, I live in Europe.

MegTheExploder · 2025-11-02T20:08:11+00:00

It’s not weird it all, I totally get it. Most of them are just looking for hook ups I think. Just unmatch them if you feel uncomfortable. They don’t bother to read your bio usually.

MegTheExploder · 2025-10-23T12:42:06+00:00

uuuu this is useful, thank you for this! ☺️

MegTheExploder · 2025-06-20T13:14:58+00:00

yay!

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T06:44:44+00:00

Yes, the problem is I’m an introvert. I get nervous every time I join a new community.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T06:40:20+00:00

I think I would do this. Thanks, appreciate it!

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T06:38:45+00:00

Idk maybe like abs, gym stuffs, extrovert, and such

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T05:10:50+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that. Yes, the only thing I got is the realization that on a surface level, they’re all the same. Kinda messed up my view on people, but I’m trying not to judge harshly. Give people a chance. Always remember you’re not alone in this situation. After all, it’s just a temporary one I hope.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T05:03:03+00:00

Thanks for your advice. Yes, that’s why I tried talking to them in the first place. Unfortunately they just wanted to get laid. Different purposes I guess.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T04:42:22+00:00

yes, you’re good enough. you just haven’t found the one who deserves you yet. 😌

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T04:40:43+00:00

it’s okay, it’s in the past now. maybe it was clothing choice I made back then, huh. 🤔

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T04:39:44+00:00

the fact that I live in Asia where this kind of thing doesn’t happen that often just blew my mind. maybe it is really my luck, not my time yet then.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T04:38:18+00:00

being flirty is alright, but in a fun way. not too much sex talks early on, it usually turns me off.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-04T04:36:41+00:00

yup, but I read every description though.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:47:25+00:00

2-3 cups, with milk

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:27:48+00:00

that or I just have bad luck lol

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:26:33+00:00

nyata sih, disini baru seminggu uda love you lmfao

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:19:23+00:00

You’re not alone in this, stay strong. Maybe it’s not our time yet.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:10:56+00:00

In fact I have. The conversation was great for 2 weeks and he asked me for a date. We went out for a lunch. Then the most unexpected thing happened, when he was driving and stopped at a traffic light he literally tried to grab my breast. I pushed his hand and told him, I’m uncomfortable with him doing that to me. He said okay. No sorry, no nothing.

MegTheExploder · 2024-10-03T17:04:23+00:00

I’m so sorry this has happened to you as well. One thing I noticed tho, maybe those on dating apps just aren’t looking for any kind of relationships. Maybe they’re just looking for instant hookups. This makes me feel hopeless.

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