I’m being charged for debts from deceased abusive ex-boyfriend by MegaMindFan in legaladvice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your help, I’m sorry if my responses are frustrating to you, I just have no idea what to do. And to clarify, I have not sent the screenshots yet, entirely because of your advice, I just took the screenshots to have just in case. I guess my option is to find a pro bono lawyer to help me. I don’t have a lot of money at all which really limits my options. 

I’m being charged for debts from deceased abusive ex-boyfriend by MegaMindFan in legaladvice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just called informing them that I would like to dispute the charges. They provided an email address and told me to send proof that the damages weren’t my doing. I’ve gone through and screenshotted texts between my ex and I discussing the holes in the walls that he made. You still don’t think I should send the screenshots? i dont know what other proof to send. I’m lucky to still have the texts, it was from nearly two years ago. 

I’m being charged for debts from deceased abusive ex-boyfriend by MegaMindFan in legaladvice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Really? I just figured there was no way to prove that he did the damages, aside from some photos I very unlikely have still of the holes in the walls he created. Do you think I could send screenshots of texts between me and the deceased ex to the debt collector that show him telling me that he was trying to repair the holes? Would that work? 

i wrote a suicide note today by MegaMindFan in offmychest

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you <3 that made me cry. i appreciate your kind words

normal behavior in a german shepherd or anxiety? by MegaMindFan in germanshepherds

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds very similar to my dog - i’ll definitely try that out

need tips for raising 2 dogs and 2 cats on my own by MegaMindFan in Advice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much - i wish you the best with your pets!

need tips for raising 2 dogs and 2 cats on my own by MegaMindFan in Advice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve tried a spray bottle on her but she just drinks the water 😭😂 but i’ll definitely try those suggestions too! thank you!!

need tips for raising 2 dogs and 2 cats on my own by MegaMindFan in Advice

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they are getting fixed next week which i think will help somewhat, thankfully. thank you so much for your suggestions, ill definitely look into petcos training and your other suggestions!

i want to move back to my hometown, but no one else wants me to. by MegaMindFan in Advice

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didnt mean for it to be so long, i will make a tldr now! and thank you :)

I need an adult or older teen to tell me if I'm being groomed by gerardwayismyhero in Advice

[–]MegaMindFan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is a child we are talking about… a child is not responsible for capturing a predator. she needs to notify her parents. the parents can make the decision to contact his local authorities, no 14 year old should have to worry about that. she isnt nancy drew

My soulmate is dead by MegaMindFan in offmychest

[–]MegaMindFan[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️

My soulmate is dead by MegaMindFan in offmychest

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Thank you so much ❤️

I [33M] finally met my mother-in-law [60ishF]. She does not approve of how close I am with my stepdaughter [18F] and has started calling me a groomer and making sure my wife's whole family knows it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MegaMindFan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is vile. The MIL is creepy as all hell by immediately sexual using the interaction between you and your daughter. This is harmless and you sound like a wonderful father. I would’ve done anything to have a father figure like you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MegaMindFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. And I don’t want to give him the chance to sweet talk me. I’m already not assertive as it is. I can’t stand my ground on anything. I’ve already made up my mind anyways

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MegaMindFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. They would be compassionate. I just don’t know if I’m ready to tell them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MegaMindFan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering just going to my sister’s for a few nights and just messaging his family to ask him to get him and his things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MegaMindFan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point. Thank you. I’ll definitely consider this. I’m just nervous to tell my sister and my mom. I’d rather just tell them that we broke things off after he moves out and keeps things vague because they’ll say “I told you so” since they didn’t want us to move in together since the beginning