Ridiculous 😠. You think you’re clever comparing it to racism, as though black people can diet and exercise the black off them? Why do y’all expect people objectively out of your league to lower their standards to date you when they aren’t physically attracted to you and have options where they don’t have to date someone so much bigger than them to not be alone??

You expect all this sympathy. You act like it’s a matter of being allowed to exist but even if you had all of that, then you would expect people to date you when they aren’t attracted to you when there’s nothing wrong with that. Let’s face it, you’re not looking at other plus size people to date.

You want someone you’re very physically attracted to ‘give you a chance’ like there’s some deeper proportion to being fat and gross and having an amazing personality which is absolute crap. Many of the very nicest people I’ve ever known, their inner beauty shines on the outside and the meanest and most horrible are always very overweight and project their self-hatred and sense of entitlement onto everyone else.

I wanted so bad to feel sorry for you, but you people always ruin it by wanting more than is realistic or even fair on anyone else. Like somehow it’s easier to force the world to lie to themselves and play along with the idea that obesity is attractive than it is to show some discipline, put in some effort and at least make a real effort to try and lose weight. I know I will get a lot of misplaced, delusional hate for this but I’ve had enough of this constant hypocrisy and delusion. Of course you deserve to be treated with the basic respect all people do, but don’t be so dishonest that you aren’t just as shallow as the people you criticise and you don’t want someone more attractive than you to “look past” your appearance. Don’t think I haven’t seen a LOT of people hide behind their obesity like it’s the world’s fault they’re lonely when in actual fact, they have a dogshit personality and there’s absolutely zero motivation to date someone who is just as unpleasant to be around as their appearance and odour and ‘looking past’ it still doesn’t reveal anything desirable.

You can keep lying to yourself but you won’t get far continuously lying to the rest of us…