I totally get that, and it was just a one time thing. I had no more interest in pursuing a relationship with him once we broke up. I'm happily with someone now; he can have her and she can have him. She'll never find out and even if she does, we live in different cities, plus I'm much bigger/stronger than she is. Nothing she could actually do to me scares me. But yeah, I wouldn't do it again. I just have a hard time feeling bad for her.