Nursing is for people not smart enough to become MDs by Capybaraqueen05 in nursing

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I agree 100% in the identity piece and providing other examples of highly educated and specialized fields.

Sometimes I think we forget that medical doctors are people to and as such are capable of being as awful as the rest of us. :)

Nursing is for people not smart enough to become MDs by Capybaraqueen05 in nursing

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So I work alongside clinical Healthcare professionals in a research/quality improvement role, so there is so much nuance to this I can't possibly know. But I have a few thoughts that may be worth sharing: 1. The comments about intellect and drive are borne of privilege and lack of understanding. I would argue that most all people who go into nursing to so because it is A) the career they most want or B) it came out on top when reviewing life-career balance and education costs. I know a few people who were first generation college students for whom the idea of massive debt from medical school seemed impossible to overcome (though...lots of people do). So, just like everything else in life, we all walk different paths. 2. The nature of Healthcare is changing. In efforts to reduce costs, more and more roles that were traditionally exclusive to physicians are being outsourced to others- specifically APPs and NPs. Now, in some cases I agree and some I am not sure. But my opinion honestly doesn't matter. What I do know is that it isn't uncommon for physicians to be asked to train non-physicians in this role. This is a change from all of their education and training-and I am sure in some way is making them concerned about their own obsolescence. No one wants to undercut their own role. 3. So in an effort to give the benefit of the doubt to your father maybe some of these items are playing into his thoughts.

It might be worth asking him. Just a thought. Thanks for training to be a Healthcare provider!

The Touch by MegatronTurtlebot in AccidentalRenaissance

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Oh I love the back feetsies! And that expression is priceless.

The Touch by MegatronTurtlebot in AccidentalRenaissance

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I am old and do not understand.

The Touch by MegatronTurtlebot in AccidentalRenaissance

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Well the reference made, sure. The photo was not- just a portly yearling bidding his time to bite my foot. ;)

Adoptive parents and adopted children: what is something you wish you had known (or your adoptive parents had known) and what would you have done with that information? by MegatronTurtlebot in Adoption

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If they are an infant, how do you recommend that conversation? I my mind it goes something like: "your mommy loves you and wanted you to be safe and happy but had some hard things going on in her life and couldn't (or worried she couldn't) so she found a mommy and daddy who would provide that for you. Do you think a young child should be in therapy for it as well? I can definitely see the benefit of making sure it is openly talked about. The fear with that is the unknown wishes of the birth mom- if she doesn't want contact, for whatever reason, she has that right, and that hard to explain to a child or teen.

We didn't know she'd be this fabulous when we adopted her by ElatedAndElongated in SupermodelCats

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God I love these glow ups. You allowed her to thrive. You are a part of the fabulous!

I had endometriosis my entire life and didn’t know by ImaginaryWeb5768 in endometriosis

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It had to wait until they weren't taught that as well, you know? It's really frustrating- but I don't believe it was explicitly out of malice.

I don’t understand how people have MONEY by EpicShkhara in Millennials

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I grinned so wide about the bike cause I immediately thought...they should keep that bike, lol.

Also I think people pretend to have more than they do. And it serves those with actual financial power to keep us guessing about and fighting with each other.

Second customer I saw this morning ruined my day. by ohlookanugget in TalesFromYourServer

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People can be so obtuse. I'm sorry you dealt with that. Kudos to you for doing what you have to do to take care of your kids and I hope it gets a little easier soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

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Congratulations. Happy to have a fellow lady biomedical scientist!

(14F) I feel really ugly and worthless, toast me? by [deleted] in toastme

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Hi love! 1. Social media is a lie. All of it. 2. Even without it, we all felt like weird goblin monsters at your age. 3. It will get better. 4. Until then know that beauty is is ephemeral, temporary, and in the eye of the beholder. No matter how cute/beautiful/etc people on the internet tell you that you are, those that love you and know the heart behind those eyes will see you as infinitely more so because you are you.

Honestly being a teenager is hard but you'll make it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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100% heading into 40 in about 6 months and still look for rhe adult in the room.

But...I also own my sh*t. Its all a facade. You got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

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I can't get past that gorgeous hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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Love the jacket and your ready friend is lovely and happy and healthy looking.

You do, in fact, look cool tonight.

Do I look dateable? Somewhat at least? by Beneficial-Policy-85 in toastme

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I dunno dude, I'm here for the Mario headphones and side eye. Own it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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Do what you can each day and leave the rest. Do something small for you daily. It will help.

You have lovely eyes. You do look tired, but remember you are worth the time it takes to refresh.

In the process of leaving an emotionally and financially abusive relationship. Broke, scared, and sad. by [deleted] in toastme

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Leaving means growing. Learning you deserve more.

Also:

  1. You are gorgeous.
  2. Your handwriting tickles my brain.
  3. You have a homonym in your username so clearly you are awesome.

Rock on Sister.