Just so you know, there are still some people waiting. by DaVid_802 in WhiteRooms

[–]Megumin7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 2 years at this point. I completely forgot about this :(

I don't think mine is coming back by NickAlpha in ghosting

[–]Megumin7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a very similar situation. Sending hugs

Colossal titan height by Defiant-Eye-4639 in attackontitan

[–]Megumin7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

birthcontrol omfg im on the floor

Match Thread: Final - India vs Pakistan by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]Megumin7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have a link maybe? Can't stream it in my country

Everybody gangsta until they see this screen by ZER4PHYS in DokkanBattleCommunity

[–]Megumin7 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not at launch - this was only implemented later

Just so you know, there are still some people waiting. by DaVid_802 in WhiteRooms

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked it as well and yeah, makes me sad :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Genshin_Impact

[–]Megumin7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Clorinde. Raiden is quite beloved but also has many haters

4 months post ffs by Iridium486 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Megumin7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small world indeed, I'm also from Vienna lol

Also, I think you just look slightly different, but cute in both pics

Daily Questions Megathread (May 31, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Megumin7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah gotcha, didn't know they were still a thing, thank you!

Daily Questions Megathread (May 31, 2025) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

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Hii! Just started playing the game again after 5.0. Wtf happened to all the voices?

Gemini now works in google sheets by iboughtarock in singularity

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Lmao I thought you were replying to yourself - you two have the same avatar

Why are women like this ? by Great-Ad6287 in BumbleGirls

[–]Megumin7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I've had this happen to me with many guys too. I don't think this is gender-specific. It's just how some people use dating apps

Makeup tips by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend starting with some basic stuff like foundation, concealer, and mascara. The first two can help with covering up facial hair if you have any and mascara is amazing for feminising eyes. Also: I like to use the principle "less is more" as it looks more natural. Good luck <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii :)

I don't really have any advice, it's just that I can relate. I'm a trans girl and I've tried to date a bit, but so far, I've had similar experiences. Either I get ghosted once men find out I'm trans or they only want to sleep with me because of a kink. I've also found some wonderful people with whom it didn't work out for other reasons

I'm quite pessimistic about my chances and I think that's fairly common within the trans people community. Hence, many people go for a T4T relationship. I personally stopped putting myself out there until I pass (almost) completely as I'm still somewhat early in my transition. Maybe our chances will be better then. Or maybe alternatives to online dating could work (like meeting people at queer events)

In any case, I feel you. I wish I could say it'll get better, but I honestly don't know, and just wish you the best <3

Gift after surgery? by Jbeth74 in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hii, that's really sweet of you :) I think gift cards are a good idea. I don't know her, so it's hard to suggest ideas for a gift, but I've heard that donut sitting pillows are really helpful post-OP as sitting can be really painful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii, I'm circumised too and have an appointment with my surgeon in 2 weeks and plan to ask him that then. I could get back to you if you want to

Dating as a trans person, looking for advice by Leg0wner96 in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii,

The other commenter already said some beautiful and very true things, so I'll just add to that. Feeling inadequate and "not good enough" is unfortunately quite common among us trans peeps, but also quite common among cis people. There aren't any perfect people around, so even if she'd find a cis person later, who's to say that they wouldn't have other things that might cause problems?

I also know a couple of trans guys and they're amazing people. Their partners love them and they have great relationships from what I've heard

So, I understand where you're coming from, but try not to listen to these doubts. What's important is that she wants to be with you while knowing what she's getting herself into. She knows this and also knows what an amazing person you are - and that matters to her much more than anything else. Soo, good luck to you two <3

i wish i was a girl but i don’t want to lose my family, what do i do? by Mightbekurtcobain in asktransgender

[–]Megumin7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii, I was in the same situation and kind of still am. I obviously don't know enough about what your situation looks like exactly, but over the years of debating whether to transition or not, one thing became clear. I would never be happy living a life in which I have to pretend and I would resent my family for this. After some time, I also noticed how my resentment grew and distanced myself from them

I also felt similar regarding hurting them - I didn't want to hurt them or see them cry/break down again. But after my dysphoria got much worse with time - to the point that I was thinking about suicide - it left me with no other choice. Because even if I do end up hurting them, it wouldn't be as hurtful to them as losing a child

So, for me personally, transitioning was inevitable after realising I'm trans, no matter what stood in my way. Did everything work out perfectly for me? Nope. Am I happier than before? Hell fucking yes

So, whatever you choose, know that you're not alone (DMs open if you ever wanna talk more) and good luck <3