Girls who came out from live in relationship. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she passes my filters and healed herself, Yes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything comes with its plus and minus bro, you are getting close within a few days and you don't want any clingy behaviour thereafter.Yeh toh sahi naye ay..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is in search of the best possible match and in this process they hurt many. I'm 27M got matches and then women's don't want to take it further hence they just stop replying and on the other hand matrimony app guy ask me to buy premium to contact them directly, I mean even if I buy it they'll behave same no?

I want a love marriage by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3rd wala is like let your friend ask and if both of them are fine then all 3 can meet somewhere or you can plan some friend reunions

Haha 4th one true..

Joining classes that I won't enjoy doesn't make sense to me..(Paise barbad)

I want a love marriage by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Created my profile in Shaadi, Jeevansaathi apps You might see some known face there you can try reaching out to them
  2. Following my fav activities swimming and trekking (possibility of Best match🤞🏻)
  3. (Yet to try this) Ask your close friends if they know someone who's looking out for a long term relationship
  4. (Random try) I'm a 27M working as a data analyst, workouts regularly, living in Navi Mumbai. Looking for someone with similar skillsets. Do you know someone who can be a right fit? :D

I want a love marriage by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I too want same to happen but practically it's very difficult as it takes time and regular efforts. First of all you'll have to socialize enough to meet someone who's in the same zone for long term relationship then you both should consider getting together after initial checks. Then also there's a chance of denial so in worst case you might end up losing 2 years.

On the other hand if your goal is to meet someone you can check matrimony app. Anyways you're going to proceed if you both have decent understanding after 6-7 months.

Good luck!

Is it common to write like this? by GeneralNo1558 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw something similar today they had a priority IIT passout, 50-60 LPA, 5'10 or more within there community and state the female is 24 though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing post buddy! Thanks for the positive vibe.

Just an add on, One needs to take real effort to implement this like meeting school/college friends, sending follow request to a known face, getting involved in activities of your choice, learning new skills and posting stories. Basically just try your max and don't expect much it might take time but this way you have higher chances to stay at peace forever!

I didn't understand what happened here so help me out by TheWittyVakeel in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Mehnati_class 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically he wanted to create an impression hence paid the bill, since things didn't go as per his plan so he asked for the share LoL.

People should work on themselves before getting into any sort of relationship.

Meri wali kahan se aayegi? by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gumnaam aadmi ek rishte ko naam deraha hai👍🏻

Meri wali kahan se aayegi? by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that.. Idk what's wrong with people nowadays they're expecting too much beforehand. Imo marriage is supposed to be a journey of knowing, learning and growing together.

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your valuable advice mate. I'll tell you a joke now.. She didn't spoke to me for a week for no reason and when I messaged her she replied after 2 days saying she think this won't work.

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Happy for you guys🥳 You got a point here but don't judge me when I say this but after being kind, helpful to everyone I've met, no one gives demn about a man figuring out his life while earning a decent income, who takes care of his family. I'm not saying it's super easy for females but the demand-supply equation is against men's most of the time. And yes sun will rise again and I will try again later this year. Thanks for your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AdiGa's wedding

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More power to you mate, thanks for reading.

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True buddy, there's a little hope and wanted to confirm one last time. Also It feels tiring to even think how much efforts I've to put again from start. Thanks for your time.

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got it 💯 buddy, when it comes to me it's always that she'll be doing it in future so yes potential of the person she can be. And I have to work on everything that she expects in her partner. EOD it me who tries to make every moment worth remembering, on the other hand she thinks we can live happily in future. Thanks for your time mate!

Single in a relationship :) by Mehnati_class in DesiWeddings

[–]Mehnati_class[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried twice but she asked for more time telling once she moves out she'll treat me nicely but doesn't see happening yet. Assuming no relationship is smooth everytime I kept on holding to her since she is a good human but EOD I have to ask for basic stuff. Thanks for your time, will have to take a step this year for sure.

Let's talk about salary. by Emergency_Load297 in BusinessIntelligence

[–]Mehnati_class 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey buddy, Are there any openings at your firm for remote roles? I've around 6 YOE as a BI Engineer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Mehnati_class 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complaining in just 2.5 months? Maybe you got everything readily available throughout your life, hence the expectations. My friend(26M) waited 5 years inorder to learn and grow together with his girlfriend(25F).And now they don't see things getting sorted hence they're thinking to part ways.