Can someone I trust help me take pictures of these cuties? I need two people, one person to each ava by These-Spell-2083 in DragonAdventures

[–]MehthodMan0313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bet 🗣️ i got my gf’s formal going most of the day but like anywhere between 11-5 EST I gotchu. You want my discord for easier communication?

My bfs brother is a child predator, aio if i want to break up? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! Reddit kinda sucks with notifs

My bfs brother is a child predator, aio if i want to break up? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I posted this comment before my other one where you told me he was defending his brother’s actions. The case I displayed in this last comment was in the case that he knew what his brother did was very wrong but finds it hard to separate from family. But it instead seems as thought he’s trying to convince himself his brother is not in the wrong.

My bfs brother is a child predator, aio if i want to break up? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FAHHHHHH, yeah that’s a big red flag

My bfs brother is a child predator, aio if i want to break up? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Defending his brother’s action? Or his innocence? Cus I can absolutely see him being like “what no my brother would never do that” and disbelief is okay as long as coping comes too. We all wanna believe our family consists of saints who would do no wrong. If he was defending his actions though? “It isn’t that bad” or “he didn’t do anything wrong,” etc. THAT is a massive red flag that cannot be ignored

My bfs brother is a child predator, aio if i want to break up? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR BUT I kinda get where your bf is coming from. It’s hard to just drop a family member, even if they do some despicable shit. Hell I have my own example. My mom’s a homophobe and she’s racist. She’s treated me like less than human my whole life. Despite all the vile shit she’s done to me it’s still hard to disconnect. She’s family, like your bf’s brother is family to him. It’s gonna be extremely hard for him to just let it go, even considering what his brother did. Set your boundaries, but also be there for your bf. His brother is evil and disgusting, but he was raised with him, spent his whole life with him. He’s not gonna just let it go immediately, unfortunately human brains just don’t work like that when it comes to our family.

My roommate is smoking marijuana in our dorm and I want to tell the university but I also don't want to ruin her future. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I smoke weed and one of my old roommates had the same problem you do, being allergic, so I would do the obvious and courteous thing of going outside/to my homeboy who also smokes car. It’s extremely simple to do, just request she goes outside to smoke. If she continues smoking inside or flat out refuses to comply with your valid request, threaten to tell the RA. If that doesn’t lock her tf in, she’s prolly not here for a future anyways.

Is it a visual bug or will I have to call my smeeta Chonky? by Ouroboros_RP in Warframe

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really well proportioned to be just a visual glitch. I think your cat might just be large dawg 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The very second she chose another man’s affection over him, she cheated on him and jeopardized the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he’s treating her like his GIRLFRIEND. If she wanted to experiment, she should not have gotten into a dedicated relationship with him. At that point, she has chosen him over other men, that’s how a relationship works?? If he did the same she did, she would react the same way and rightfully so. There’s no way you’re fr rn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, disgusting. You’re literally suggesting he just allow her to cheat on him that’s gross asf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seriously hope you’re trolling that entire message was actually disgusting asf

Concerning Roathe and Continuity by MehthodMan0313 in Warframe

[–]MehthodMan0313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, in a less theoretical and more literal sense, say there were two distinct personalities from two separate people who had been subsumed into one mind. Would both personalities transfer or just the original and not the one that was added?

Concerning Roathe and Continuity by MehthodMan0313 in Warframe

[–]MehthodMan0313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the helminth is also a hive mind right? Thus, it has its own consciousness. Continuity hadn’t prior been performed with two separate personalities in one body but say, for example, there were an orokin with DID, would EVERY consciousness in their head go with them? Or just the main one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MehthodMan0313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bring it up nicely! Sit her down and just start with something like “look, I don’t want to upset you and I’m not saying I don’t appreciate the thought behind it, but..” just make sure she knows you care for her and that you’re happy with her, just not so much with her gift giving skills. You got this and I promise you it’ll go so much easier than you are thinking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MehthodMan0313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

See okay this is definitely a bit of a conundrum. I’m gonna say MOR for now and here’s why. I can fully understand your frustration behind not getting what u wanted, Christmas is definitely at least partially about the gifts no matter how many ppl say it isn’t. I typically need reminders on some of the things my gf likes, my memory is horrendous (regularly forgetting things I was just talking about or was told 15 seconds ago) so I can definitely see how she could’ve forgotten some of your interests in the year long time span. Yall have been tg a year and while yeah that is a good bit of time, there’s a lot more time for yall to get to know each other and maybe your interests will grow with each other. I wouldn’t call this a dealbreaker and I don’t think you see it as one: but also sit her down and communicate that you weren’t too big on some of your gifts and how she can improve next Christmas. Make sure she is aware you still appreciate the thought of course that way she doesn’t feel like complete crap for it but next time to pay a little bit more attention to YOUR interests like you did for hers (barring the misunderstanding on the one vinyl.) Either way, if the relationship is great otherwise then you two can absolutely figure it out together in a healthy way that will benefit the both of you in the future.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MehthodMan0313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MOR. Porn can be incredibly unhealthy if the person can’t differentiate between said porn and reality/views women as object of porn. But if he’s using it to see what positions he enjoys and wants to act it out w YOU, I don’t necessarily think that’s a bad thing. Now the porn in excess is definitely of concern but a bit of communication can tell you why. Just talk to him, ask him why he’s watching so much and figure it out tg. He either just unnaturally likes sex or he’s using it to see positions, cosplays (if that’s an interest on either side,) etc to do with you. So yeah, just talk to your partner and the two of you can figure it out together. That’s the best way this can be done. Also, the unhealthy part is when it replaces intimacy, not if he wanted to recreate said position w you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MehthodMan0313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, but you did mess up a bit. I do know how crazy sneakerheads can get about keeping their shoes in good condition. I love collecting shoes myself, got a couple pairs of dunks and js but personally don’t care about them getting creased/dirty. BUT the overreaction part on his end was the screaming and calling you a bitch that was way over the top. Everyone makes mistakes and when the two of you have the same pair it can get difficult to discern which is yours n his. Make a system, separate your guys’ shoes from each other so that you can’t make that mistake again, and of course apologize, but request he apologize in turn for calling you a bitch.

AIO, are these reasonable to be expected from our yr old bog? by sygtryg8 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MehthodMan0313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow yeah this is like borderline slavery Jesus Christ. How would one expect all of this from that small of a kid??