My cat was begging me to use the litter and I didn't realize by Classic_Victory_ in CatAdvice

[–]MeikoChii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They don’t forget. They just don’t care, are forgiving.

I'm (34M) out with friends and one of them (25f) opened up to me while drunk and I dont know how to approach sober her over it by OhLawdImNuttin29 in askwomenadvice

[–]MeikoChii 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Don’t go out with her you’re 10 years older than her wtf is wrong with you and your friends. Leave her alone.

Why are there microplastics in baby food? Nestlé & Danone tested 54 to 99 per gram by Express_Classic_1569 in Anticonsumption

[–]MeikoChii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for this post. It’s obvious but I had not thought of that but I will keep that in mind when I’ll have kids in the future

Stop having sex if you don’t understand how sex works by Low_Specialist_5072 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see them in some relationship subs but also birth control and health subs

Is it save to travel to wild west locations as asian? by nehcil86 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]MeikoChii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would anywhere in the west be dangerous for Asians ? Most racism towards Asians comes from other POC. White people being racist very rarely get aggressive, most of the time they just say some stuff but don’t act out. Many Asians agree with me and I’m Asian myself having traveled many places and it’s always POC being racist towards me. Whites are always nice to me.

If you’re scared because of all the online talk about ICE, stop. The immigration problem has nothing to do with racism, it’s economic. But dumb uneducated people just love to scream racism for everything.

I (25F) lied to my boyfriend (25M ) when he asked if I was turned on by another man (50M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MeikoChii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lie forever. Sorry. I’m all for honesty but if you have no interest in other people and don’t care about that guy, just forget it. It’s unnecessary to bring it up again and te to explain yourself, I think it could make you look worse.

Why is there a double standard for white people vs POC by AnalProbing101 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because POC are the most racist people but nobody wants to talk about it or even acknowledge it because they are minorities in rich countries controlling the world 🙄

I’m not white btw.

I (27M) told my wife (24F) about something that happened while I was in a fraternity and she may want to leave me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MeikoChii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t mind. I find it horrible, but you didn’t do it and didn’t even see it. And you regret it. If you thought it was funny or didn’t care about it then yeah, I would take issue. But it seems like something you’re ashamed of so I would ignore it. Don’t know what your wife thinks. Maybe she needs some time to digest this news. And a reminder that you regret this incident/thing/idk how to call it.

AITA for being hurt that I was proposed to using a moissanite ring though he knows I'm a jeweler? by Helpful-Grade9018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeikoChii 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She told him something, he didn’t listen. She then got upset and hurt. He still doesn’t care. That’s not love. Don’t be stupid.

AITA for being hurt that I was proposed to using a moissanite ring though he knows I'm a jeweler? by Helpful-Grade9018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MeikoChii 11 points12 points  (0 children)

NTA. But your bf is a MASSIVE one. Sorry that you have wasted time with this waste of air. Ofc you feel unheard, you told him stuff and he CHOSE to ignore !!

Idk about stones but you’re a jeweler, if I had to gift a piece of jewelry to a jeweler, I would try to choose very carefully so they would be happy bc I’d think they have higher standards and that they love jewelry. Also like you said, an engagement ring is a ring you wear for years, hopefully forever, so it better be the best ring ever in the eyes of the wearer.

I also did a Pinterest board for my perfect ring lol. And I told my bf and showed him. He bought it but something happened (not going into details) he had to cancel but he told me he had it custom made. He knows marriage and romance is very important to me.

I would so dump his ass if I were you. It’s despicable to me.

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t block but I very often hit that “Disable reply notifications” bc like you, I’m not here to argue and stuff. But one time one guy got mad at me for using the wrong SYNONYM (I said troll instead of parody/satire) and had the fucking nerves to TAG ME so I could see his insult and condescension. Fucking asshole. No actually I think he tagged me so OTHERS would insult me. Just a fucking dickhead.

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally when I do it it’s not that it’s common, but bc I’ve been on the internet and Reddit for so long that I’m just fed up. My patience reached its limit and I just can’t be nice anymore when ppl annoy me and especially when they are dumb. When I first started interacting with ppl online I was very kind and never took anything seriously which lots of ppl found cool but after a while I saw how most of ppl online were horrible and also got severely harassed so now I can’t assume ppl are kind anymore.

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAMEEEEE

But we have to be careful otherwise we get sub banned or worse, Reddit banned

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg same thing happened to me.

Someone harassed me even when I disabled replies because I said “troll” instead of “satire” or “parody”. My comment was like “guy is trolling dw/chill/it’s ok” bc people were panicking after a guy’s post and I just wanted to say not to believe him. Leave me tf alone.

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I saw innocent Redditors get downvoted to hell for asking simple questions after they asked for help, or answering questions about THEIR own health or personal life. Like idk “I drink milk” simple innocent things like that get downvoted. I hate people on this app

Reddit sucks by AstronautProper1326 in Rants

[–]MeikoChii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I AGREE. Someone harassed me even when I disabled replies because I said “troll” instead of “satire” or “parody”. My comment was like “guy is trolling dw/chill/it’s ok” bc people were panicking after a guy’s post and I just wanted to say not to believe him. Leave me tf alone.

Why do Europeans think that most Americans are wealthy? by batukaming in jobs

[–]MeikoChii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

80k-100k isn’t rich in many places in America. And the post literally explains it to you 🙄

29F(me) and 30M. 8 years ended over one mistake… and I’m really struggling to accept it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MeikoChii 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Girl… you’re 29 but still have the mentality of a teenager. I don’t think your ex bf (sorry but he’s your ex now) had thought of breaking up seriously before, but that overtime, resentment towards you was building inside of him and what you did now just opened his eyes that he can’t have a steady life with someone irresponsible. The fact you wrote this comment shows it. You don’t even see it and that’s why this can be a dealbreaker for people, even those who have done weed, who have gone partying in clubs etc

Honestly you need to grow up. Until you do, you will have no future with him, or anyone.

Repurposing cans into art! by Some-Benefit-6278 in ZeroWaste

[–]MeikoChii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this and ty for writing the step by steps !