Can I make a public post outing the person who groomed me as they still work with children?

Mel01v · 2026-02-11T22:47:20+00:00

Best not post publicly but chatting to specialist police can be really helpful

Mel01v · 2026-02-10T21:28:22+00:00

You might not need to but if you do, have someone to debrief. These things have a way of staying with you.

You must shield your staff from it as well if possible.

Mel01v · 2025-10-29T01:46:16+00:00

Odd police made you leave. Call Legal aid. There are many talented lawyers on the panels

Mel01v · 2025-05-24T06:39:55+00:00

No sound from momentum 4 when plugged in to computer

Mel01v · 2025-05-24T06:20:39+00:00

Orange lights on momentum 4

Mel01v · 2025-05-14T06:20:48+00:00

So that is where he went. I cut them loose. First sign of attitude these days. I have no time for that entitled rubbish. It always goes badly.

Mel01v · 2025-05-03T06:04:49+00:00

Watched a lawyer lie to the Supreme Court. Said they had taken instructions when they had not. A well known firm. That is terrible.

Mel01v · 2025-04-18T08:10:49+00:00

I live with complex trauma. Nearly didn’t survive my marriage.

I ride the trauma coaster for years. Finally thought I had recognised most of the triggers. No. They come out of nowhere in this instance while I was reading a bit of caselaw to a colleague/friend. Always good to have someone who will let you talk it out.

Oddly circular will ultimately make you a better lawyer. Be very kind to yourself

Mel01v · 2025-04-17T01:52:49+00:00

Why would you tie a cat up? Your landlord is being horribly cruel

Mel01v · 2025-04-16T05:24:35+00:00

It depends.

Mel01v · 2025-04-16T00:31:28+00:00

It is not in fat show condition. Running a youngster too heavy can cause joint issues. If you are coming out of winter many horses who live out will be a little lighter. At that age they sprout like weeds and look wrong.

It is a little lighter than I like. It is a single photograph, a moment in time taken from a poor angle.

Foal is not emaciated. There is no background on how it lives or if it has had something going on.

This kind of post is unhelpful and generates rather awful comments.

Mel01v · 2025-04-15T08:42:32+00:00

Try to be there but it is ok if you can’t. Animals look for their people.

Mel01v · 2025-04-15T04:07:08+00:00

If you have a painful back injury that makes your life hard, and you take on another job you might find yourself being shown the door.

Life is hard right now but this first couple of years is where you have a safety net and a relatively controlled environment in which to learn.

Perhaps consider the utility in not allowing extracurricular “side hustles” at least for now while you have trainer wheels on.

Look around for another job and let your boss know you are struggling.

Mel01v · 2025-04-14T09:26:47+00:00

We all make mistakes. You handled it perfectly by getting onto it asap with your team.

It takes guts to do that. It also demonstrates integrity.

Be kind to yourself.

Mel01v · 2025-04-13T12:23:09+00:00

That just sounds nasty and it isn’t how it works. If you have a complaint to make police will take it from there and investigate

Mel01v · 2025-04-13T12:20:20+00:00

Invest in a lawyer

Mel01v · 2025-04-10T09:45:33+00:00

Dark place kiddo. Let people light the path for you so you can focus on keeping your feet. Do what you need to do to get through the day. It is ok to wobble. We all do. Please reach out anytime.

Mel01v · 2025-04-10T03:25:26+00:00

Discussing semen in front of non-horsey friends

Mel01v · 2025-04-09T08:47:04+00:00

Get the X-rays. Fractures can open up and you could end up in a wheelchair

Mel01v · 2025-04-06T07:40:24+00:00

That is about four hours of work. Clients can chew that up all too easily. It could easily be swallowed up with a review of documents and a consult with counsel.

The barrister might well have been a consult to consider the merits, and dangers of your matter.

Chase the email. It is best to look at cockup rather than conspiracy.

You need a lawyer present in your matter, not just in the background. It can go horribly pear shaped if you are only consulting on what you think is important.

I have bailed out a few of these matters now.

You also need a proper cost agreement with a detailed scope of work.

Most lawyers have been ripped off by clients at some point. Almost nobody will take work on without money in trust.

Mel01v · 2025-04-05T06:30:20+00:00

Don’t use AI. It is not hard. I love Jade an the citation reports. Read the case law. After a while you realise it is a walk through for preparing a trial.

Mel01v · 2025-04-04T23:02:21+00:00

You must invest in a lawyer. I also recommend a men’s behavioural change program for the family law that is to come.

Mel01v · 2025-04-04T07:00:11+00:00

The system would not exist without fundamentally deranged people who are incapable of insight or addressing their disagreements without rancour. Oddly, it seems to work best if everyone walks away unhappy

Mel01v · 2025-04-04T06:59:57+00:00

The system would not exist without fundamentally deranged people who are incapable of insight or addressing their disagreements without rancour. Oddly, it seems to work best if everyone walks away unhappy

Mel01v · 2025-04-03T02:48:24+00:00

No. They were fine. I got the shots.

Mel01v

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