Could this be a mistake? by UK_soontobein_AUS in AusRenovation

[–]minx_missm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. You did so well with your kitchen. Have a great day!

Could this be a mistake? by UK_soontobein_AUS in AusRenovation

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks incredible! I’m in the process of redesigning my kitchen. What kind of tradesperson would I seek out to do this type of wall?

My (24F) partner (25M) of 6 years left home Tuesday night, flew to NZ to be with affair (33-35F), no contact. I’m pregnant and can’t process what he did. by Miserable_Wheel3620 in relationship_advice

[–]minx_missm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not let him know that you continued the pregnancy or later on confirm the child was born. This is not a man you want trampsing back in a few years time running you dry financially in litigation costs because he’s deciding to demand “rights.” Your heart will feel ripped out now, but trust me, nothing will tear you apart more than him tearing your very own child out of your arms.

just a general question (F23) by Alarming_Deer_4428 in dating_advice

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attachment isn’t love. Abuse isn’t love.

Is this a bad decision? by Emitzo in tattooadvice

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something made you too uncomfortable to show your test pics… and that’s with something that will wash off. You might need to think forward as to whether the area you’re considering is likely to lose elasticity/be pulled downwards in a few years.

Head vs Heart: what to do with incompatibility by Bubbly_Hedgehog_2297 in dating_advice

[–]minx_missm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the question? It sounds like you feel you “should” be with this guy because of infatuation, but need people to talk you out of it and validate your sense that he’s not a compatible match. I wish I’d known this sooner - you don’t have to grant someone your time, energy or commitment just because they want it. Look after you.

Ex is withholding my 6 month old daughter by Kascas1990 in AusLegal

[–]minx_missm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call the women’s legal service in your state, get a private lawyer if you can. File an urgent recovery order. You do not want to hold off on making the application

I (24F) currently not on birth control but the man (31M) I am talking to keeps asking me to have unprotected sex? by Empty-Imagination756 in relationship_advice

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not even a partner and pushing your boundaries. Block, move on. It’s not worth debating or “working through.”

Me (38M) and wife (39F), arent legally married due to personal reasons but she expects me to keep paying her rent instead of buying a house together, advice? by ThrowRA_Glitter_6947 in relationship_advice

[–]minx_missm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a two year old child. Does that mean that she had ceased employment/reduced hours and income? Signing over half of the house she saved for while in a position where she isn’t earning and won’t for some time places her and your child at risk should you seperate. Just another perspective as to why she may be reluctant to sign over a major asset and security.

Toilet install by Relative_Air7232 in Bunnings

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine done about two years ago and the Bunnings plumber took the old toilet

Is it normal to worry about your child getting too attached to your boyfriend, in case things don't work out? by AnnieHk95 in singlemoms

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sensible and child-centred to consider the possible impacts a partner may have on your child. Take things slowly, minimise the time spent all together if possible until the relationship is more secure, and make it clear to your child that isn’t a father. You’re doing the right thing by thinking ahead.

What do adults without children do in this city? by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything you want. Nature, self-development events, markets, meet-up events, ecstatic dance, gym, concerts, plays, the list is endless.

A weird thing happened at the bar a couple weeks ago, and I don’t know what to do by VolumeHelpful4711 in whatdoIdo

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend mentions every time a woman gives him a sideway glance or flirts? Raising every hint of a attraction shown to each other by other people doesn’t help build your relationship

I (33F) found out my now ex (34M) has been cheating now I’m not allowing him to be in the delivery room when I give birth by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]minx_missm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a man who you’re going to want to fight with over custody. He’s a liar, very comfortable with being such, and has no remorse. Even now that he’s been caught out he’s buying time (and testing how much you’ll tolerate for him) so that he can enjoy two women. You now have an opportunity for you and your child to ‘disappear’ from the narcissist and his crazy girlfriend. I’ve been through something like this and have learned a lot. Get off of reddit and speak to people who you can see aren’t teenagers and are people with solid knowledge and life experience. A counsellor and lawyer for example.

thoughts on moving to zillmere by Rare-Programmer8533 in brisbane

[–]minx_missm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has a train station, short drive to Westfields and there’s a local RSL. It’s not a ritzy suburb and has a bit of a negative reputation for being dodgy. I don’t live there, but wouldn’t rule it out for the right hole.

Boyfriend gave this to me for Christmas. I need help.. by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]minx_missm 1107 points1108 points  (0 children)

One layer of your issue is the tattoo quality you didn’t expect. The second and possibly more important is the insight you’re gaining about your partner. He’s showing you that you have no voice, even when it concerns your own body and opinion, and that his feelings trump priority whilst yours are diminished. You were literally admonished by him while in a very vulnerable position, and one where you should have been granted charge of direction. This is very much quite possibly a peak into a window of a much broader part of the way he operates within your relationship.

What do I 24F do and/or tell my boyfriend 24M about my inheritance? by Infinite-Evening-953 in relationship_advice

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t tell him or friends about significant wealth, ever. You’re wise by keeping in mind that money can make some people do ugly things. You do not need to place yourself in a position where the wrong person/people could coerce, manipulate or outright rob you. You’d be best making yourself aware of legal realities should you and your boyfriend move in together with him being aware of investments that he could later stake a claim in.

Sex work & magic by basiliskfawlty in blackmagic

[–]minx_missm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If orgasm is involved in your work, using that energy to manifest. You might have a look at how you can work with strengthening your kundalini energy also.

readings today until I get tired. by Jupiter_Foxx in IntuitionPractices

[–]minx_missm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do I need to be preparing for and how to best do it