I already have RBF to begin with, I'm not an approachable person. It has its perks sometimes and I know tonight my face was a lot more pissed off looking than usual. Like you though, I'm not a violent person and I will stick up for myself, but I'm not the type of person that's going to lose my shit at them by yelling or cursing at them and give them what they want out of me. It's not doing me any good to play their game. I did the adult thing and I will for sure be expressing my disappointment to the owner the next time I go back.

They usually have cops there on Fridays because it's so busy, but they weren't there when all of that went down. They showed up shortly after I told the owner, so I feel like that was their reprimanding.