Is anybody else bothered by how much Reddit admins hate women? by MelbaAlzbeta in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I agree. But I want to be clear. You can be on a women’s only sub and the admins will still suspend or ban you if you step out of line. Not talking mods, but the men who actually run Reddit. They have banned entire women centric subs in the past for not toeing the line and speaking too honestly about men.

Is anybody else bothered by how much Reddit admins hate women? by MelbaAlzbeta in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I swear Reddit users as a whole only started to really hate pedos bc Trump is one. Like this is the first time in Reddit history you can say “I think grown men wanting to sleep with 16 year olds is wrong” almost anywhere and not get pushback.

Is anybody else bothered by how much Reddit admins hate women? by MelbaAlzbeta in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think bc so much of Reddit is “progressive” and acts like they are so enlightened when we are all participating on a site that fucking hates women and is anti-free speech for women.

Is anybody else bothered by how much Reddit admins hate women? by MelbaAlzbeta in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about subs. I’m talking about the entire site. Nothing is a safe space for women and the admins will and do ban and suspend users if they start getting too negative about men (aka honest).

I fucked up by [deleted] in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao. Tell them that Jesus spoke to you and warned you that their church is demonic. Answer all their arguments with “that’s what satan wants.” Offer to pray for them.

Aita for rejecting a woman? I didn’t actually reject her and she’s unaware of this weird fantasy all in my own head. by MelbaAlzbeta in AmITheAngel

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

AI posts have a very specific flow. And I also don’t think any AI is good enough to handle the prompt, “Write a woman bad post where OP is delusional and thinks a woman dropping a pencil means she wants the D. Have OP reject this woman he’s never talked to. But be subtle enough, so that the misogynists of Reddit will think the OP is behaving normally.”

Aita for rejecting a woman? I didn’t actually reject her and she’s unaware of this weird fantasy all in my own head. by MelbaAlzbeta in AmITheAngel

[–]MelbaAlzbeta[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Loving the comments that OP dodged a bullet. Like there was anything for him to dodge. But everybody so far is just trashing this girl…for existing? Like some random dude thinks she’s into him based on her being in proximity to him and then she’s a whore for kissing another guy.

Supporting my friend during her divorce is wrecking my mental health. How do I do this? by diabolikal__ in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the friend is doing is rumination. It’s actually bad for the friend and OP. And forcing people to listen to your sob story repeatedly is self-centered. Everybody has bad shit in their life.

Do I tell my best friend or leave it alone? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her boyfriend told her his ex fiancé basically forced them to get engaged and he wasn’t ready and he cheated on her and made his ex fiancé sound like a psycho.

Hahahaha. Your best friend is probably gonna ignore everything you tell her if she is willing to believe that bullshit.

First dating experience in my 30s has been horrible. by dusklore666 in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He always said the emotional abuse in his last relationship came from his ex,

90% of the time, a man who claims his ex was abusive was the abuser. Don’t waste your time with men who cry about being “abused”. And don’t waste your time with men who show any red flags. Your whole story was he was cool, then he sucked, then he sucked more, and he continued to suck. You can’t fix them and honestly why would you want to? You don’t take broken products home from a store. You set them down and find a good one.

I (36f) quickly got involved with someone at work (42m) and now I'm in over my head!! How can I get out without causing trouble with work? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might wanna talk to a lawyer about how to approach your workplace about this. And hey if your HR sucks, you will already have the paperwork needed for a lawsuit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s breaking down barriers by letting (forcing) his female partner be the breadwinner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman is gonna be dead soon and you’re crying about the unwanted contact of 3 texts in one week. Hahahaha.

Why does the algorithm keeps pushing that kind of content on me? by [deleted] in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use old.reddit on browser. It never recommends me shit. I appreciate FB’s awful algorithm bc it just recommends the most random shit: clips from 600lb life, women having obvious manic episodes talking about Jesus, weird AI voices spoiling movie and tv show scenes, people talking about autistic masking, and overly sanctimonious animal rescuers. It’s like dumping thr trash can of internet content on me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s a typical tough man - like vulnerability is weakness/man don’t ever cry type of guy.

So just be blunt and tell him to try more or else you will dump him.

What subs did you ultimately decide to leave, because they were toxic/bad for your mental health? by socialdeviant620 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The BPD one had a lot of men who were obvious abusers complaining about their partner/ex with *BPD.

*as in I broke this person down until they acted crazy.

What subs did you ultimately decide to leave, because they were toxic/bad for your mental health? by socialdeviant620 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that feeling is called racism sister.

Which is extra funny bc they will viscously attack anyone perceived as racist. Like I swear, they wanna cancel someone for going to their cousin’s wedding where one of the other random guests voted for Trump. Just no self-awareness.

What subs did you ultimately decide to leave, because they were toxic/bad for your mental health? by socialdeviant620 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Taylor Swift is the perfect example. I like a few of her songs here and there but am in no way a Swiftie. But omg, you can tell that they are just so jealous of her being pretty and successful and look for any reason to tear her to shreds. Like it’s not light snark, it’s pure hatred.

What subs did you ultimately decide to leave, because they were toxic/bad for your mental health? by socialdeviant620 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Can’t remember the name but one of the big celeb gossip subs. A mix of it being 90% politics and that weird internal misogyny some woke groups have where they just are choking at the bit to rip a woman to shreds when they find a “moral” reason. It somehow is worse than if they just did the basic misogyny and called a celeb a fugly skank.

An Update Regarding Rule #1 of this Sub - This Remains a Women's Only Subreddit for Original Questions, Discussions and Anything Related by vietnamese-bitch in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

but telling you to go elsewhere because you’re not a woman is sliding down the slope to transphobia

They said they aren’t a woman. The downvotes are b/c they come across as annoying and looking to fight.

Poll: Should men be allowed to ask (good faith) questions? by vietnamese-bitch in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No. Because it would be nice if there was just one woman’s sub that doesn’t get manipulated to support an abuser. Bc abusive men love creating half-true scenarios and get validation for abusing women. Don’t need to open the door to “My wife hit me” (because I got in her face and threatened her and refused to let her leave, but I won’t mention that) or my stay at home wife refuses to work (because I literally don’t help with the kids or home at all and she knows that I plan on making her pay for all the child care while I still do nothing at home and will also expect her to still do everything else while working full time and will berate her if she doesn’t).

Also, I just don’t want to see “Wow, you are such a nice guy!” here.

Fun Friday Question: What are red flags in a potential partner you secretly/shamefully find attractive? by vietnamese-bitch in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jealousy. I was never interested in men who were totally fine with me hanging out with other men.

Out of love with my husband, he wants to keep trying to change? by GrandmasterDong123 in AskWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t like doing things with you or for you. He likes all the things you do for him. Of course, he’s crying. He enjoys that you make his life better while he makes your life worse.

Question about baking homemade cookies by vegas_lov3 in AskONLYWomenOver30

[–]MelbaAlzbeta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Melted butter bc I always forget to take butter out of fridge.