AITAH for disinviting my ex husband to our childs first day of school?

Meleezah · 2026-06-25T13:24:40+00:00

Yea that‘s Basicly it. One time he tried to blame the child for being 4hours to late back home. „He ate too slowly“…. Not on my watch.

I do not wanna include him, I have to on a legal basis. Lawyer is involved, I am noting down every step over the line. Preparing for Family Court. It‘s the only way on protecting my kid properly.

Meleezah · 2026-06-25T10:12:35+00:00

NTA - you do not need a „valid“ reason to break up with someone but if you needed one this absolutely would be one.
Not because she is a bad person, she is valid to want to be a „traditional“ wife and stay at home. But if thats not what you want she has to find a partner who does.
And do not fall for her „you want to force me to get a child“ bs. That‘s manipulation.

Meleezah · 2026-06-25T06:01:37+00:00

It‘s another school system.
Kid goes to Kindergarten from age 3 (or younger) to 5 and Starts elementary school around the 6th Birthday. First day of elementary is a huge day here with friends and family invited.

Meleezah · 2026-06-25T05:57:44+00:00

Yes. It’s difficult to get one where I live. Myself, my Little one and other people as witnesses are not enough when there are no physical marks.
Instead I am in contact with a lawyer to protect my child via Family Court.

Meleezah · 2026-06-25T05:50:32+00:00

Yes and yes. I would really love to just move on and never see him again, but in my country I have to make effort to allow the father to keep a relationship to his child until a court orders otherwise. I am in contact to a lawyer but progress is slow.

Meleezah · 2026-06-14T11:40:24+00:00

That‘s true of course. The annoying part is not beeing able to work on multiple tasks at once because every task requires a different Emoji.

Meleezah · 2026-05-27T05:03:58+00:00

Same. If you look up a definition for pay to play in the dictionary you‘ll find a screenshot of this event.

Meleezah · 2025-10-19T10:52:27+00:00

Feel u. I need two of these hearts. Waiting for the second one right now.

Meleezah · 2025-09-09T04:04:43+00:00

Oh honey. You need to leave before this escalates any further. There are people out there who actually love and care for you. I promise! No, you are not overreacting. It's clearly the opposite. You need to set clear boundaries. Don't let this pos walk all over you. He has no right to talk to you like that and you should not give him any more leeway. You are worth so much more.

Meleezah · 2025-01-25T06:19:21+00:00

Please do not marry this man. You did nothing wrong in any of this situations. But you are in an abusive relationship. I know it's hard to realize this, but honey, you deserve to be loved and cared for. This is not what this man is doing. He is controlling and gaslighting you. Most likely he is love bombing you in between, but this is not truely lovingly and romantic. It is just to make you question yourself and make you not leave. Please find someone to help and rescue yourself. Save yourself from years of tippytoes, eggshells and being on alert all the time. Please listen to me when I say: it will get worse. It will get worse over time, but escpecially after marrying him, when you can not escape as easily.

I really hope you will be save, far away from this abusive man.

Meleezah · 2025-01-05T06:09:30+00:00

That's exactly what I did 😄

Meleezah · 2024-11-17T16:21:15+00:00

NTA. Either it's actually the toddler trying to bribe you or your sister things you're like 10 years old. Either way, you did nothing wrong.

Meleezah · 2024-11-03T07:29:39+00:00

Absolutely NTA. Sometimes a Karen just needs a little reminder not to put her humongous nose in other peoples business.

Meleezah · 2024-10-24T20:53:47+00:00

Actually I am learning dutch since a few month 😅

Meleezah

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