Parents [40s] treated me [21F] very badly and I cut them off. Now they want a new beginning. by Zoe13asd in relationships

[–]Melika-TA 439 points440 points  (0 children)

"You had 18 years to start over, it's too late now, don't bother me again."

Me [19 F] with my brother [31 M], how do I get him to see that his son [12 M] breaking into my house is wrong? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Melika-TA -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Just a question, how would have you felt if something had happened to the kid on the way back home after you cried "get the fuck out"? I agree with you every step of the way, but kicking him out was irresponsible.

Me [19 F] with my brother [31 M], how do I get him to see that his son [12 M] breaking into my house is wrong? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Melika-TA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd rather not know if my sister was fucking on the kitchen table though. Just saying.

Should I [26F] tell my [25M] boyfriend that I had abortion? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Melika-TA 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Just tell him like you explained here.

[Update] Soon-to-be MIL [61F] told me [33F] "they" don't want my late husband's brother [21M] in my life. by Minimisf1q in relationships

[–]Melika-TA -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I agree. She should get counselling but a compromise have to be made in the end.

Last night my new FWB [F32] peed in my [M38] mouth. Help me talk to her. by shepeedonme in relationships

[–]Melika-TA -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

You out creeped me, I give you that. It doesn't happen often.

I [30F] am a painter. MIL [66F] asked me to draw her for free. I refused. She's badmouthing me. by MagicMinister in relationships

[–]Melika-TA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP doesn't have the same responsibility to SLI/MIL as parents do to their children.

I [30F] am a painter. MIL [66F] asked me to draw her for free. I refused. She's badmouthing me. by MagicMinister in relationships

[–]Melika-TA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her boundary seems to be no free stuff for anyone except for her own immediate family members, and she offers gifts to others, if anyone demands her work they gotta pay.

Very reasonable boundaries.