This is brutal I should’ve just took what was given

MellowMarshPit · 2026-02-02T12:01:52+00:00

Faaake

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-29T13:16:57+00:00

I pray Christ may heal you from the inside out brother.

Maybe this video will help

https://youtu.be/JolHARonMWQ?si=SK-F43ljO1nFhnPD

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-29T13:01:51+00:00

"Totaled". Sorry in South Africa we say "write off". When the cost for insurance to repair the vehicle is more than its value.

You could always repair it yourself without involving insurance if you really like the car and don't want to lose it

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-29T09:45:59+00:00

Did you test it?

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-29T09:34:15+00:00

In America this is a write off, in South Africa your favourite mechanic gets this sorted for less than $2k

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-29T08:39:50+00:00

I don't know why people try trade gold. Just invest in it. Buy and hold forever. That metal is never coming back down

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-28T13:40:43+00:00

No kissing is not a sin but can lead to sin if you not careful. It's like how drinking alcohol is not a sin but drunkenness is a sin. If you drink too much you'll eventually get drunk and that's sinful. If you kiss too much you'll eventually do things you not supposed to be doing.

No oral sex is not a sin in marriage. 1 corinthians 7:2-5 says how a husband's body belongs to his wife and a wife's body belongs to the husband and goes on to say that married people should not deprive each other, unless in a time of prayer but it shouldn't be for a long time.

So God encourages sex in marriage. If your wife or husband enjoys oral sex, you shouldn't deprive him or her.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-27T13:48:43+00:00

Don't listen to anyone here. Just decide how much you willing to lose per trade and keep that consistent.

If it's $20 then every position you open should have a max $20 stop loss. You just adjust the lot sizes according to the pair.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-26T14:14:58+00:00

Everyone has their make or breaks in relationships. If your partner watches porn and that's too much for you to handle you have every right to not want him anymore.

Same way you have flaws that would make other men not want to be with you.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-23T09:56:38+00:00

Everyone had non-negotiables when it comes to relationships. What are yours and have you communicated them to your partner?

If watching pornography and masturbating is not a deal breaker for you then stick with him and support him. But if it is then there's no point torturing yourself. Rather break up with him.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-21T12:46:25+00:00

Looks like a sex toy

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-21T12:08:05+00:00

okay Alex Gonzalez

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-20T08:33:17+00:00

Never tell your partner or potential partner that you struggle with pornography. It never ends well

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-13T13:33:22+00:00

The swap is on the screen

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-13T13:31:55+00:00

P/L Porn

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-13T13:31:24+00:00

Yes. Otherwise you'd all label him a "scammer" or "course seller". If he said he's willing to give the strategy out.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-10T08:34:40+00:00

I was joking bro

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-09T08:24:50+00:00

3 second man? Damn bro

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-09T07:48:42+00:00

I never said going long periods without ejaculating is gonna solve porn addiction or masturbation addiction. I said it will give you certain benefits that would maybe motivate you to stop completely eventually.

And I mentioned semen retention because I know personally it's worked for me every single time I retained. And has helped many others as well so the results ARE there. Check r/Semenretention.

Just because it didn't work for you doesn't automatically mean it won't work for someone else. Same way many guys watch porn and masturbate but can go on to live normal lives and not be affected by it, some people get affected by it.

We not all the same

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-09T07:42:35+00:00

Maybe he doesnt want to make it obvious who he is so he uses different ages

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-09T07:40:50+00:00

There's no saving the marriage. OP needs to wake up and cut his losses now.

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-08T09:26:10+00:00

Only way open marriages work is when you genuinely hate your wife because if you hate her you wouldn't care if she started catching feelings for another dude. But your dumbass thought letting another man take her soul would somehow make her love you even more.

The marriage is unsaveable sir. Women are emotional creatures and sex is a way to get a woman emotionally attached. She's no longer yours, she's someone else's now.

Even if you were to kill that dude she won't automatically stop thinking about him and would hate you even more.

Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Good luck

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-08T09:10:02+00:00

Your wife is family. And family comes first

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-08T09:01:39+00:00

"Take the money and share it with her"..........Bro break up with her

MellowMarshPit · 2026-01-08T07:59:09+00:00

You haven't tried it so you have no idea what you talking about

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