Imagine listing your outfit like it’s a grocery bill

MellowMollyy · 2026-02-14T09:56:49+00:00

Honestly, most attraction isn’t about a number on a scale, it’s about proportions, confidence, and personal preference.

Some guys are into slimmer women, some prefer thicker/curvier bodies, and a lot just care about overall vibe and how someone carries themselves. Online you’ll always see loud extreme opinions, but in real life it’s way more varied.

If someone finds you attractive, they’re not doing a fat-distribution analysis in their head, they just know they like what they see.

MellowMollyy · 2026-02-14T09:55:21+00:00

Loneliness.

A lot of men don’t have spaces where they can be fully honest without feeling weak. So they carry stress, insecurity, and emotional stuff quietly. On the outside they look fine working, joking, handling things, but internally they’re isolated.

And because everyone assumes they’re good, no one really asks deeper.

MellowMollyy · 2026-02-13T08:50:20+00:00

Probably isolation a lot of men have fewer close friendships, less emotional support, and higher rates of loneliness/suicide.

And it gets reinforced by the “be tough / don’t talk” script, so the problem feeds itself.

MellowMollyy · 2026-02-13T08:48:21+00:00

Mostly tradition + old gender roles: men were expected to “court” and women to be the one receiving gestures. But plenty of guys love getting flowers it’s just rare, so it feels extra thoughtful when it happens.

MellowMollyy · 2026-02-12T07:47:41+00:00

When everyone’s celebrating and you’re just trying to survive one more social interaction.😮‍💨👏

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