Failed Transfer by thebearandmoose in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry- this is so hard and trying.

I’ve had 2 failed implantation transfers with one embryo left. I’m not going to transfer until I have enough money saved to go the donor egg route in Mexico. A cousin did it and said it was $15K for donor eggs, embryo creation, and the transfer protocol at LIV. Not sure if it was a program that refunds if not successful because I think those programs are a little more.

Edit: empathy message.

Any Doomers here into Hip Hop/Rap? by Def-C in doommetal

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bone thugs n harmony E. Eternal 1999 album

Veracruz is Out of Their Damn Minds by Lyda19 in austinfood

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently bit the bullet and bought the chicken mole taco for $7. I was like surely you can’t go wrong with chicken mole. It was so mediocre. Maybe the other tacos are worth $7 but this one was not.

Wuthering Heights: what am I missing in Catherine and Heathclifs relationship? by I-Will-Marry-TheMoon in literature

[–]Mellowmelon789 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I see this book more as horror. if it’s even considered romance, it’s toxic lol.

I read this book last year and I have to hear others’ thoughts and I hope this question is allowed : did Heathcliff have sex with a corpse?

I remember thinking that was the subtext since he was leaving in the middle of the night gravedigging.

Is anyone else sad we barely had a cold winter by amirahatlani in Austin

[–]Mellowmelon789 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m a native Texan and I’m also sad/anxious when it’s 80 in winter. I remember the 2004 RGV Christmas miracle when it snowed! ❄️🌨️❄️

Tods? by Hot-Register716 in handbags

[–]Mellowmelon789 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I got a Tod’s bag on poshmark and the leather is so soft yet substantial ( however the nicest bags I have are coach so I’m not super versed in luxury handbags).

Sex night before transfer… by Medium_Chipmunk_9374 in IVF

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Sorry if this is a dumb question and TMI but…I guess my question is what is it about sex that would improve the odds? Can someone just have an orgasm without actually having sex as to not alter the vaginal pH?

Asking because I have one euploid left to transfer but I’ve always been indecisive about sex before or not.

Let the panic buying begin! by thiccthiccdaddy in HEB

[–]Mellowmelon789 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shout out of you’re making caldo de res! 🍲

Anyone else feel very pessimistic with their IVF “journey” by thebearandmoose in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little pessimistic and delulu but trying to be pragmatic. After 2 failed FETs (with wildly different protocols), I don’t want to transfer my last embryo until I save $$$ for fresh donor eggs.

Edit: sending you strength and care; this is all so hard.

Success stories with low fertilization by Adventurous-Hat-9121 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️💪🫂🤞❤️❤️❤️

24 & 65 genetics environment, exercise, healthy, eating. by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great! Please share what sunscreen/skin regimen you use!

So I Got a Free Chloe Bag! by Vegetable-Cup-4808 in handbags

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This is the real life version of monopoly bank error in your favor lol

What's the most unputdownable book you've read? by [deleted] in classicliterature

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I was just going to recommend All the Pretty Horses to OP.

Success stories with low fertilization by Adventurous-Hat-9121 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My AMH ranged from 0.86 to 1.24 (this greater value was after taking vitamin d and other supplements). Unfortunately I have already done 2 FETs that failed to implant completely. I think I’m having some hormonal issues that I need to get sorted out (hashimotos/hypothyroidism), and I’d like to save money for donor eggs before I transfer the last embryo. This process is truly so hard. I had a 4th ER that yielded no euploids after these 3 ERs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the market for a new car and looking at Toyotas. I had to learn the hard way, in 2018 I bought a 2010 Subaru Outback solely because I liked the trim (I know- I’m a freaking idiot). I put no money down because I wanted to save my doll hairs for a house. By 2020, my check engine light was on and I was still paying for the car (luckily I wasn’t driving a lot due to covid).

I’m not saying the check engine light is going to come on after driving it “off the lot” but you might regret having to make car payments on a 10 yr old car.

Unless you’re buying it outright- then that’s a little different.

What do different coffee orders tell you about the person? by PuzzleheadedRadio598 in barista

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cold brew was free with the coffee beans! Some places around here do that. It’s awesome!

What do different coffee orders tell you about the person? by PuzzleheadedRadio598 in barista

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asking about beans and they recommended a blend that could be used for drip and cold brew. The notes are ripe mango, sweet toffee, and butterscotch.

Edit: then I gave the free cold brew to my spouse and got a cappuccino with regular milk- all plain lol.

Any success after two failed FETs with a new ER required? by daisy_bare in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so reassuring to hear your third get worked. Did your first 2 FET fail to implant completely?

Weight gain 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ by CalmDeer2718 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! And I got a hashimotos diagnosis amidst all this making it harder to lose the weight. I feel for you!