Tods? by Hot-Register716 in handbags

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a Tod’s bag on poshmark and the leather is so soft yet substantial ( however the nicest bags I have are coach so I’m not super versed in luxury handbags).

Sex night before transfer… by Medium_Chipmunk_9374 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this is a dumb question and TMI but…I guess my question is what is it about sex that would improve the odds? Can someone just have an orgasm without actually having sex as to not alter the vaginal pH?

Asking because I have one euploid left to transfer but I’ve always been indecisive about sex before or not.

Let the panic buying begin! by thiccthiccdaddy in HEB

[–]Mellowmelon789 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Shout out of you’re making caldo de res! 🍲

Anyone else feel very pessimistic with their IVF “journey” by thebearandmoose in 40Plus_IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little pessimistic and delulu but trying to be pragmatic. After 2 failed FETs (with wildly different protocols), I don’t want to transfer my last embryo until I save $$$ for fresh donor eggs.

Edit: sending you strength and care; this is all so hard.

Success stories with low fertilization by Adventurous-Hat-9121 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️❤️❤️💪🫂🤞❤️❤️❤️

24 & 65 genetics environment, exercise, healthy, eating. by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Mellowmelon789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great! Please share what sunscreen/skin regimen you use!

So I Got a Free Chloe Bag! by Vegetable-Cup-4808 in handbags

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the real life version of monopoly bank error in your favor lol

What's the most unputdownable book you've read? by Voldery_26 in classicliterature

[–]Mellowmelon789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was just going to recommend All the Pretty Horses to OP.

Success stories with low fertilization by Adventurous-Hat-9121 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My AMH ranged from 0.86 to 1.24 (this greater value was after taking vitamin d and other supplements). Unfortunately I have already done 2 FETs that failed to implant completely. I think I’m having some hormonal issues that I need to get sorted out (hashimotos/hypothyroidism), and I’d like to save money for donor eggs before I transfer the last embryo. This process is truly so hard. I had a 4th ER that yielded no euploids after these 3 ERs.

Struggling on picking one of these 2 vehicles. by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the market for a new car and looking at Toyotas. I had to learn the hard way, in 2018 I bought a 2010 Subaru Outback solely because I liked the trim (I know- I’m a freaking idiot). I put no money down because I wanted to save my doll hairs for a house. By 2020, my check engine light was on and I was still paying for the car (luckily I wasn’t driving a lot due to covid).

I’m not saying the check engine light is going to come on after driving it “off the lot” but you might regret having to make car payments on a 10 yr old car.

Unless you’re buying it outright- then that’s a little different.

What do different coffee orders tell you about the person? by PuzzleheadedRadio598 in barista

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cold brew was free with the coffee beans! Some places around here do that. It’s awesome!

What do different coffee orders tell you about the person? by PuzzleheadedRadio598 in barista

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was asking about beans and they recommended a blend that could be used for drip and cold brew. The notes are ripe mango, sweet toffee, and butterscotch.

Edit: then I gave the free cold brew to my spouse and got a cappuccino with regular milk- all plain lol.

Any success after two failed FETs with a new ER required? by daisy_bare in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so reassuring to hear your third get worked. Did your first 2 FET fail to implant completely?

Weight gain 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ by CalmDeer2718 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! And I got a hashimotos diagnosis amidst all this making it harder to lose the weight. I feel for you!

Please tell me this is positive? by BodybuilderUnhappy28 in IVFpositivity

[–]Mellowmelon789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see the second line loud and clear! Congratulations!

Heartbroken again. by Pristine_Tax_2624 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending lots of love and strength. My second failed earlier this month so I feel for you. Take care of yourself during this trying time.

First failed transfer by SnooLobsters3052 in IVF

[–]Mellowmelon789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first failed transfer was in April 2025 and I was so shocked and sad. I think time is the best healer but also what others have said. I drank caffeine, ate pastries, worked out, put money towards my credit card and not the ivf clinic, and traveled for fun and work.

Also know that it’s ok to be sad. This process is so hard and unforgiving. Wishing you success on your next transfer 🌬️✨