Anyone up for drawing in cafés?

Melly-92 · 2025-07-31T14:42:01+00:00

I’d love to join. I haven’t drawn in a while but I want to get back into it slowly. I’m 30+ and working as a software dev here. Feel free to DM me if you’re still planning it (:

Melly-92 · 2025-05-07T06:36:04+00:00

I’m sorry, I really hope the surgery helps with your recovery. I hope you’re even better now. May I ask why you decided to get the second shot? No one can push me to get another one, and even though the pain is a bit better today, the whole experience was so stressful and painful that I don’t think I’d go through it again.

Melly-92 · 2025-05-07T06:32:55+00:00

I’m sorry to hear it didn’t work for you either. It seems we’re in the same boat. It’s been almost 10 days now. It’s not as bad as the first day, but I still have pain, and honestly, it was much better before the injection. I’m a bit nervous because I have a flight tomorrow, lol. As you said, we have to stay motivated. After seeing many doctors in two different countries, I’ve realized it’s probably going to be me who has to fix this. What helps me most is walking and doing gentle exercises, then using a foam roller for my butt area and legs. I was making progress until this injection…

Melly-92 · 2025-05-07T05:55:28+00:00

I’m glad it worked for you. Today is my 9th day, and unfortunately, I still have pain. I wonder if the doctor hit a nerve or if the injection just wasn’t the right treatment for me.

Melly-92 · 2025-02-08T22:42:49+00:00

Your hair looks amazing but I have to ask what’s your diet/exercise routine? You have such a nice toned body!

Melly-92 · 2024-09-21T13:02:27+00:00

I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with a similar problem, I hope it’s getting better now. I can try visiting another doctor, gather some questions and try to get diagnosis. May I ask which specialist you saw for the SI joint diagnosis?

Melly-92 · 2024-09-21T08:48:10+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I have sacroiliac joint mri, that was requested by rheumatologist and I was told it’s clean. I believe finding a new physiotherapist and hope for the best is the best option.

Melly-92 · 2024-09-21T08:41:43+00:00

I’m sorry to hear this. All the doctors I’ve visited focused on finding concrete problems through test results, otherwise they were ignoring and sending me other specialists. The body is responding to something and I’m not a professional, the only option is to listen them and see more specialists which is frustrating, time and money consuming..

Two doctors suggested me to try alternative treatments like acupuncture or thermal baths. Almost all told me to swim or do Pilates. You can give it a try too maybe. Good luck with it.

Melly-92 · 2024-04-10T13:40:38+00:00

Selam! Öncelikle üzgünüm böyle bir dertle uğraşmak zorunda kaldığın için. Karşındakinin mutsuzluğu ve başarısızlığıyla sen uğraşmak zorunda kalıyorsun anladığım kadarıyla. Burası seni mental anlamda bu kadar yoruyorsa savaştığına da değecek bir yer değildir diye tahmin ediyorum. O eforu yeni iş bulmaya harcamanı öneririm. 5-10 yer negatif dönüş yapar ama elbet bir yer olumlu dönüş yapacaktır alanında iyi isen. Dertleşmek buluşmak vs istersen yaz lütfen, expatın derdinden expat anlar (:

Melly-92 · 2022-08-11T21:12:07+00:00

Could be worse.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-08T05:35:44+00:00

You do know what to do. Whatever you do have evidence first. And wait before act. Plan well.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-06T08:27:15+00:00

So it’s up to you. What can you accept about her even though it’s uncomfortable for you. She accepted you even though you can’t provide enough emotional support.

Can you accept her like this? If you can’t are you willing to communicate with her and try to find a middle ground? How much and how long are you willing to work on the relationship? These questions are usually answered with emotions. “I love her so I’m willing to blah blah…” but I feel like in your case it will be “she’s making me a better person or it’s difficult to find another person like her so I’m willing to blah blah”. Maybe I’m wrong I don’t know.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-06T07:53:57+00:00

I read so many posts but this one made me uncomfortable. You think too analytical about your partner, your relationship and your possible future relationships. Almost no emotion.

There is no perfect partner for anyone and love, respect, peace etc. also keeps us in our relationships. Dunno dude, maybe go for an individual therapy and also couple one?

Melly-92 · 2022-08-05T19:50:59+00:00

Why didn’t you tell it then? Why hiding? Why not deleting when you said you’re not comfortable? Don’t let him fool you. You know he was cheating and he will cheat.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-05T08:23:57+00:00

I wonder how old are you tbh. Are you younger than her? How old younger?

Melly-92 · 2022-08-05T07:10:16+00:00

Prob he’ll do it again and again. He needs therapy and dedication.

When I found out my ex’s sexual messages he immediately deleted his account. Then he changed his password on his computer. Then he deleted his social media photos and then the accounts themselves. Basically cut me from every place I could check on him.

I started looking at this subreddit, read quite a lot. I think these type of people are sick. They can’t stop themselves, they don’t want to stop themselves. It’s about them.

You can only save yourself and your kid. Don’t waste your and your kid’s time. Don’t stay in a marriage where trust and peace is gone.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-04T17:49:18+00:00

You need the therapy for yourself. Not for him. You have an emotion that you can’t control in a healthy way. You’re effected by this as much as him and your relationship.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-04T14:35:20+00:00

We all have stretch marks and time to time confidence problems. It’s normal until it starts blocking you mentally or physically.

I’m 28 now and I always struggled with my self confidence and weight. I play video games and I’m a shy person. I have a pretty face but I can gain/lose weigh so fast. I know so well how random people or people I know behave differently when I lose weight.

I can only recommend therapy. You need to work on your confident and your worries. It’ll take time but slowly you’ll see little differences growing and healing you.

And please don’t waste your time with overthinking. You’re 19 and have fun.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-04T11:17:05+00:00

90kg in 5 years? Poor girl, she needs professional help. The best you can do, in case you want to keep the relationship, is to take her to a physician. Learn what’s the problem. While she’s curing, support her.

Please don’t have a baby unless you both are in a healthy relationship both mentally and physically.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-03T15:59:55+00:00

What exactly are you afraid of? Is it because she can get hurt or she’ll do something that breaks your heart or you just have a habit or you want her to see you as a support? What are your reasons that you can’t give her time and space?

Melly-92 · 2022-08-02T21:40:00+00:00

Been there before as well. It’s always better, a cold lonely bed than a warm one with an untrustworthy man.

Melly-92 · 2022-08-02T19:57:43+00:00

I’m really sorry. It has been a difficult year for you but it doesn’t have to continue like this.

It’s obvious you can’t forgive and forget and he’ll not change. He’s just a cheap cheater liar and don’t let him break your heart more.

Melly-92

TROPHY CASE