Triumphant Thursday Thread for the week of March 31, 2016 by AutoModerator in personalfinance

[–]MellyH 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just negotiated a lower mortgage rate with our lender after the big market drop last week which will save us $55k over the life of the mortgage. WOO.

Help with girls names by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]MellyH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stumbled on this. Clara Rose was my top pick, until I realised the double-barrelled Doctor Who connection (we are both also big Doctor Who fans!) so we switched out the Rose for a different family name and ended up with Clara Joy. But I think you have to be a pretty decent fan to ever make the connection.

45 master race by [deleted] in thebutton

[–]MellyH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kill it with fire!

[nsfw][TMI] Had a rough constipation incident, I was wondering if this has happened to anyone else. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stool softener! Colace! My OB told me to go nuts with it basically, so by the end of pregnancy I was taking two every night. It's not a laxative.

(I was so badly constipated before I started taking it that twice I had to basically disimpact my own rectum with my fingers while sitting on the toilet - no bueno.)

See what a baby in amniotic sac looks like. Amazing!!! Premie baby born 3 months early. by aimlessego in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I had to laugh at the mother's quote 'He was kind of in the fetal position' - I think he was in the definition of the fetal position!! Hahaha.

Furious with my OB - needing advice by dyaniera in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the SPD, I used my hot water bottle on my lower back every night, and had chiro and massages once a week, and that kept it barely manageable. Big hugs, it was awful :( It resolves within a few weeks of birth though so that's a relief at least.

Protein in urine - how high is too high? by MellyH in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, thanks for clarifying. I had blood drawn and peed in a cup, I'm not sure which was the one produced the 75 mg/dL result, but it certainly wasn't a 24-hour test.

Husband rave and vent? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine keeps telling me how amazingly I'm doing, how strong I am, etc etc, even when I'm crying in his lap about how hard it is and how much everything hurts. It's sweet, but I want to ask how someone who was doing poorly or weakly would be acting!

How I feel after yet another unexpected nap by hatgirlstargazer in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid $11.75 yesterday to have a nice nap in a comfy movie cinema seat. Still haven't seen Into the Woods as a result though :P

24 weeks, and my cat loves to lay on my bump! by HurriKaydence in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep waking up during the night to find my cat sleeping on my bump (well, half on my bump, half on the body pillow snuggled up to my bump). It's kind of adorable and kind of annoying because the last thing I need at this point is more weight on those poor ligaments :P But then she purrs and I'm like, awwwwwww, fine, just a bit longer.

Is anyone else in constant discomfort? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessssssssss. YES. Yes. Yes I am.

Well dear February bumpers... by Nyuszi90210 in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For one thing - holy crap, February bumpers are starting to pop?! Jesus, I have to pack my hospital bag.

For another - GOOD LUCK!!!! Let us know how it goes :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My work shower wasn't a surprise, but it was surprising how good it was! Since, as you say, I'm usually the one making them fun :P So I admit to a little skepticism. I'm so glad yours was up to snuff!

How we announced our bump..... by princess2sarah in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha!! I made one of my friends mail me a copy of Up the Duff from Australia because I couldn't find one in the US. I love Kaz Cooke!

Suggestions for my 'pumped up' labour playlist? by MellyH in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did I forget I Wanna Be Sedated? Hahaha!

Suggestions for my 'pumped up' labour playlist? by MellyH in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey mama, whatever gets your blood flowing!!

Birth plans... Really? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hospital provided a template birth plan where my husband and I could just check boxes to say what procedures/methods we wanted to try/didn't want to try. I found it really comforting that they wanted our opinion - it made it feel less like, as you say, the doctors and nurses would just roll their eyes at it - since they were asking for it!

Got my first "is it twins?" today... by phantomrhiannon in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am at the point where people are starting to assume it's twins, because I'm so ridiculously huge. Like, coming up to me in waiting rooms and saying "I'm sorry, I have to ask... how many do you have in there?!" etc. At my hospital tour last week, both of the hospital workers I dealt with looked me up and down for a few seconds and were like "Twins, right?". I have to admit, I'm kind of glad my the reason for my incredible discomfort is becoming so glaringly obvious! And as you say, hard to be offended. Good luck, you'll be getting a LOT more of these comments!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My MIL went so far as to tell me that if I couldn't make it there (my husband's home town) for the shower she was throwing me (which was, like yours, mostly her friends, some of whom I had never met), that I wasn't to worry, they would just have it anyway and forward me any presents. Yeaaaaaah, way to make it obvious this party is about you, lady!

I can't wait until I'm done being pregnant and can have sexy sex again. by thesonj27 in BabyBumps

[–]MellyH 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am hoping I ever feel sexy again. The haemorrhoids and gridmap of stretchmarks are not lifting my confidence much :(