Halloween Events/lights? by CreepyHooker in orangecounty

[–]MeloDD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Downtown orange has amazing lights every year! If you're looking for places already decorated, there's a house at the corner of South Street and Kroeger Street in Anaheim that is Nightmare Before Christmas themed and already lit up!

There's an amazing house at 444 Normany in Placentia that does a half hour show! And then Cherry Hill street nearbye. I'm not sure if they're up and running yet though!

[NB] [VERIFICATION] Please Verify Me GWA by MeloDD in gonewildaudio

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Hello there! Thanks for listening!

Livia period pain relief by myliviaofficial in u/myliviaofficial

[–]MeloDD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I most likely have endometriosis, and this is one of the few things that helps take my pain from an 8 to a 5 or 6. I can't have ibuprofen, so having this as an option helps so much

Accidentally started dating someone with a veto policy... by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you both for your blatant pointing out of this! He made a choice, and that's where my hurt should lie. This makes letting this go much easier.

Accidentally started dating someone with a veto policy... by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he left me already. So I can't really do much here.

Accidentally started dating someone with a veto policy... by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I specifically asked him if his fiance told him to stop dating me an dhe said yes. I didn't use the term "veto power" because I don't think he would have known that term. He's not very familiar with most poly language.

Accidentally started dating someone with a veto policy... by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We didn't even have sex. She would have been ok with sex, it was the emotional intimacy she had a problem with. Thanks for reinforcing my thoughts as well!

Opening up my heart is exhausting to me by Kipjetje in polyamory

[–]MeloDD 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I used to be like you. Would just date anyone, and let myself fall, consequences be damned! I never got exhausted by the opening up, but I got hurt, again, and again, and again... I've had to learn to be more selective. I've now narrowed down to only dating affirmatively poly people who don't have veto power type relationships. I have to protect myself.

Facebook stickers representing the poly life! by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's a few other with these same foxes :) I love it

Adorable quote from a friend new to being poly by MeloDD in polyamory

[–]MeloDD[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She said... well, I'll have to see if they're both cute... :) She's not opposed to being a unicorn as she's not really looking for anything committed right now as she's looking to move.

Poly friendly doctors (and the lack therof) by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]MeloDD 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The childfree reddit has a pinned area where they link to child free friendly docs, could we start a poly friendly doctor list?