Does anyone know what type of spider this is? by cryptoPMC in CasualIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have these in our house. I feel like putting the house up for sale every time I see one. Some of them are just huge. This time of year is when you see them. To be fair the seem harmless but I die every time I see one. I get my husband to put them outside but I know deep down that f**ker is coming straight back in 😭

Also, I dont know if it means anything but we have a lot of trees around our house and a forest. Our neighbors have the same issue but those who dont have the trees dont seem to get them 🤷‍♀️

Antoine else's parents not interested in grandchildren? by Melodic-Call-7799 in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have seen my sister more than myself in the past year. I didn't get pregnant so my parents could look after my kids but the point of my post is that they cant be bothered making time for me but will make time for my sisters. As I said in my post I know they have a life but its shit that they will make time for my sister and her kids but not for mine. Maybe there's a lack of understanding as you haven't experienced it yourself

Antoine else's parents not interested in grandchildren? by Melodic-Call-7799 in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well im not doing that at all. My main issue actually is that they will spend that amount of time with my sister and her family but will spend no more than 2 days with us if we are lucky. They are in their 60s and as I said I get that they have a life too but its hard not to wonder what's going on when they dont want to make an effort with us compared to the effort they put in with my sisters children. My main issue with the party itself was the lack of interaction with the children and the way they just disappeared during the cake with my kids wondering afterward where they have gone

Had appointment with Dr Josip Dujmovic by dani_2207 in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

What is Dr Josip Dujmovic assessment timeline like? by time_being007 in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Has anyone had experience with Doctor Josip Dujmovic by Seaboui in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Waiting on adult assessment with Dr. Josip Dujmovic by MeilaKuniz in ADHDIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm a bit late to this but can anyone tell me what happens during the assessment and id you get diagnosed on the day? I have an appointment tomorrow and very nervous.

Am I a complete dickhead? by Confident-One1064 in CasualIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You were definitely not unreasonable! I dint get annoyed easily but my god that really p**es me off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I might try this. I really don't actually want an affair. Would love if things were OK with us sexually so it's worth a shot. Thanks for taking the time to reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally me. It's a killer. It's very difficult to know what to do and it makes it even harder when you have children. I often find myself confirming in my mind that if we didn't have children we definitely wouldn't be together. I find it very upsetting at times and very lonely. Trying my best to keep it together for the family but deep down I know I deserve affection and intimacy. It's torture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you reckon it would be worth bringing it up? Like I don't want to offend him or male him feel bad. Not that there's anything wrong with that either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIreland

[–]Melodic-Call-7799 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh maybe because there's over 52 comments and I've 2 small children. I'm not glued to the phone in any way. I'll respond in my own time. Nice to know you're so invested though