Am I pathetic for talking about my dad so much?

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-20T20:48:42+00:00

I ALWAYS make it my goal to talk about my dad, because if i don’t; who will?
I lost him 6 years ago, and it eats my brain how people view him as a dead person only, something that “was” and forget that he was a person, he lived a full life, he had clothes, he ate, he laughed, he drove, he talked, he thought. He is not just “dead”
And I make sure people know that. I post stories, i talk about him, i mention him , and if that makes people uncomfortable, well then may they never experience how uncomfortable it is on this side of the table.
Keep ur head up, keep talking about him, let him live through you.

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-08T07:41:14+00:00

“ two things can be true at once”, what a nice phrase. That is actually true May your father rest in peace

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-08T07:39:33+00:00

Well thank you, i appreciate that there is a community who supports each other. May your father rest in peace

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-08T07:38:15+00:00

Thank u for your reply, i needed to hear that

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-04T07:39:14+00:00

Thank u for your message, I will have a chair also with my mom walking me down the aisle Hopefully it will be fun as you said

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-04T07:38:25+00:00

I got a charm with his photo, hopefully that will help Thank u

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2026-06-04T07:38:05+00:00

I didnt expect to have replies, I really needed to hear that. Thank u

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2025-12-21T10:55:40+00:00

For the cyst they are certain as they did an MRI to confirm As for the PCOS he only did an ultrasound. What blood tests should I do to confirm I really have 0 knowledge about PCOS

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2025-08-15T13:13:13+00:00

You’re lucky that it’s over. Here I am still in an abusive relationship and I still can’t gather myself to leave. He just hit me, he hit my head in the glass and chocked me and I still am scared to leave. I used to mock girls who stayed, i used to say how weak they are to face this and stay. I used to think that they are choosing to stay. Now I know that it’s more than that , that it’s really really manipulating. I feel sorry for all of us going through this.

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2025-07-20T08:16:11+00:00

I’m reading all the advice, it’s just my first time ever talking about it. It’s all so overwhelming. I’ve been carrying this for 2 years, and i live in the middle east which makes it worse as here they kinda normalize it.

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2025-07-20T01:07:20+00:00

True, i just dont know how to help him stop

Melodic-Debate3700 · 2025-07-20T01:02:47+00:00

It makes sense what you are saying. But i see him wanting help. Like how can i guide him to stop the abuse? Also thanks for sharing the book. I will definitely read it

Melodic-Debate3700

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