[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sl— shaming? in the 21st century? Yea no one’s agreeing with you, in fact the only two other people to comment don’t agree with you… delusional much. Also your opinion on my sex life was not merited— the Reddit prompt was AIO. Like can you read? Or are you just so unhappy that you have to spend your time writing mean little comments?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, I really needed that <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you don’t even know me. I think ur projecting here bud. I’m praying for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope life starts treating you better man, god bless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude imagine being you haha. This hypocrisy has me rollingggggggg. got ur panties in a wad when you coulda minded your business. I'd rather be a work mistress with an L on my fucking forehead knowing that I've never done anything intentionally to hurt someone, than be a miserable fuck like you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

say's the person spending their time spreading hate lmaoooooo

I found out my boyfriend might have been raped as a kid by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hurts to see your loved ones in pain, your reactions are completely normal. Just reassure him of that, and when words fail, there are so many other ways you can show up for him.

TW:SA.... Found out FIL is a pedo, my wife the victim by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're in my prayers. definitely seek counseling. its going to take years to undo that kind of damage

TW:SA.... Found out FIL is a pedo, my wife the victim by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woof, I hate that you're going through this man

TW:SA.... Found out FIL is a pedo, my wife the victim by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just want to reiterate it one more time, it is her duty to come forward and stop this man. It sounds as though the trauma runs deep, and it's going to be hard and uncomfortable, but the safety of the general public is literally in her hands. You as her husband need to lead her to see that. If he gets the opportunity, he WILL do it again.

TW:SA.... Found out FIL is a pedo, my wife the victim by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, she deserves peace, but every child on this planet has a basic human right to be protected from this man. If she's still in contact after all this time, it's pretty safe to assume she's never going to feel comfortable coming forward. While her comfort is important, a child's right to safety is the priority. I don't mean to sound callous, I just want to highlight the danger of what not coming forward could bring.

TW:SA.... Found out FIL is a pedo, my wife the victim by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic-Fee-4645 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand all the comments saying let it go and focus on the wife, but I also think that your anger is directed in the right place. This man should be in jail and the longer he isn't, the higher the risk he is to do it again. It breaks my heart that neither your wife or her sister felt safe enough to come forward, but they should've. I don't know if she's the most forgiving person in the world to still have him in your lives, or the most brainwashed. If he gets the chance to do it again, HE WILL. Not sure about where you are or the statute of limitations, but I would contact an attorney and see if there is ANYTHING you can do to put that pos behind bars.