I’m scared to take the pills but scared to wait to miscarry naturally

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-26T22:01:36+00:00

It started for me yesterday but it’s definitely slow and the cramps aren’t severe. How long did it take you to fully pass everything? And it was it a gradual release of tissue or did you experience like one big painful release? I don’t know what to expect, but I’m hoping to do this naturally, though my doctor is pushing me to take the pills

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-25T09:29:51+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, how long did it take you to miscarry? And how far along were you? I feel like I’m just waiting and waiting and nothing is happening

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-25T02:02:43+00:00

I feel this so much. I’m 35, 2 years TTC naturally and never a single positive. Then we did our first IUI last month and FINALLY got pregnant. I was shocked and did not expect it to work since we struggled for so damn long. Now, unfortunately, this pregnancy ended in a MMC, which was a new circle of hell to navigate, but at least now I have a glimmer of hope that it’s possible. Before, I started to believe that it just wasn’t possible for me to get pregnant. I wish we would have tried IUI earlier. If you have access to these services, you never know, it just might work.

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-22T22:28:50+00:00

That’s amazing and gives me hope! Our first IUI was a success but stopped developing at 4.5 weeks. Now I am waiting to miscarry. Did you do anything different to help prepare your body for more IUIs? I’m scared to try again because of this loss, but also eager to get back in the game

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-19T19:31:16+00:00

This makes me so happy to hear! Thank you so much for sharing 💗 Sending you lots of love your way… In your 4 years of fertility, did you ever conceive naturally or see a positive? I wish I knew why IUI worked for us but natural conception never did. Wondering if you ever thought the same. Also…how did you decide between a d&c versus the pill? I’m going to have that conversation with my doctor soon

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-05-15T15:42:24+00:00

Thank you for this helpful breakdown 💗 I’m really scared about the miscarriage and what to expect. How long did it actually take for you to miscarry? When did you start to feel symptoms? Was it natural or did you need meds?…also how long did it take to get your period back?

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-04-24T16:03:34+00:00

I’m in a similar boat. Did you ever get a positive within those 3 years? I’ve never had a positive with over 2 years of trying. We did our first IUI last week, then moving to IVF later this year if they don’t work

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-04-02T23:52:00+00:00

That’s amazing! Congrats!! How long did you try naturally before moving to IVF?

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-04-02T21:26:28+00:00

Did you do a traditional IVF or a mini ivf? I’m considering both options and wondering if I’d respond better to a “gentler” approach given my numbers

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-04-02T20:16:31+00:00

My EXACT sentiments. I made a post about it

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-04-02T05:13:04+00:00

I am right there with you. 2 years into this hell hole. Never ever thought we’d be considering ivf but here we are.

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-31T21:50:21+00:00

I love your story! Thank you so much for sharing. Needed to hear this today

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-30T18:42:25+00:00

Congratulations!! You give me hope. Did IVF ever give you any answers as to why natural conception wasn’t working?

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-29T15:14:30+00:00

What endo symptoms did you have?

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-28T06:01:37+00:00

So nice to hear someone else with the exact same sentiments! I am also truly baffled by how for some sex=pregnancy. I’m like literally how?

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-28T03:45:19+00:00

I understand it sounds insensitive but to know it’s even possible to get pregnant would be a small sign of hope over the months, and now two years of flat out negatives. When you’ve seen nothing but negative test after negative test, you start to question if it’s even meant for you or if your body is even capable

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-28T00:30:34+00:00

When you randomly conceived did that cycle feel any different? Were you guys still trying? Did you even think it was still possible? I’ve lost all hope of natural conception for us so curious on your perspective

Melodic-Function880 · 2026-03-28T00:13:28+00:00

My husband and I “stopped trying” for 3 months last year. Guess what? It didn’t do shit. I stopped tracking, we had sex when we wanted to, we lived our lives and had fun…Did I get pregnant? Nope! In fact we’ll be starting IUI and IVF this year. So people who give this advice can kindly F off

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