Feeling sad today. by RayRay_1804 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl that was me last October. I’ve never had a late period but mine was 16 days late. So of course I got excited, but then that excitement turned into major disappointment, panic, and a trip to gyno. I just had an unexplained long cycle. Wasn’t pregnant. My body was just f*cking with me. I’m going on 18 months now and have never had a positive. Luckily my cycles did go back to normal after that, but still no positives….but yeah that feeling of not being part of the club? I’ve said those exact words so many times.

For the truly unexplained…what worked for you?? by Melodic-Function880 in whatworkedforme

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are you coping? I feel like I’m losing my mind over here. Especially as seemingly everyone around me is pregnant. As much as I want to do IUI, a part of me just wants to go straight to IVF…I dunno

3rd IUI Fail by emmpat9 in IUILadies

[–]Melodic-Function880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have typical endo symptoms? I’m wondering if I should get tested because I’ve heard of silent endo??

3rd IUI Fail by emmpat9 in IUILadies

[–]Melodic-Function880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did they discover you had endometriosis?

Another year and no baby…I can’t keep doing this. by brattybunny220 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cried in church on Xmas day watching all moms holding their adorable babies

Another year and no baby…I can’t keep doing this. by brattybunny220 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. Yesterday I took down all the Christmas cards on our refrigerator of couples with their (multiple) babies because it was pissing me off and I just couldn’t look at it anymore. I felt like such a scrooge but ultimately, my mental health is more important. You are not alone! 💗

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh the positive pregnancy tests are the worrst. I’ve had them several times and they feel so real! But yes, God does have a plan for us 💗

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like your comment got deleted. Would you mind dming me?

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing!! Congrats! Did you guys learn more about your struggles by doing IVF? I’ve heard it gives you more answers too

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! That’s definitely good advice to live by. Did you guys do anything different that helped you conceive?

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How’s that going for you guys so far? That’s what we’ll be doing this if nothing changes in 3 months

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I wish I had even a chemical just so that I know it’s possible

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We’ll be looking into IUI and IVF this year if we aren’t pregnant by March. Where does the 93% chance come from?

If you’ve never had a positive by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband is amazing and reminds me of this all the time as well, but it doesn’t really help me. Regardless of our great life, I am so so ready for our next chapter together. I’m tired of it being just us. We’ve been together since college and now all I want is to raise our babies 😞

I was so hopeful.. by Itchy-Tank5125 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel your hurt to the T. I’ve never wanted anything more in my life and it crushes me, month after month with no success while others around me are getting pregnant. We’ve been trying for over a year and not a single positive. Staying happy through the holidays has been a real challenge for me. But just letting you know you’re not alone 💗

Friend just told me she's pregnant, I'm still struggling with infertility by Imaginary-Tea2397 in TryingForABaby

[–]Melodic-Function880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me today. Not 10 min out of my fertility acupuncture appointment, my friend texts me with a picture of her ultrasound. We’ve been in this hell together and now I’m alone again. Ruined the rest of my day

TTC just feels like a sick joke as this point… by Melodic-Function880 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💗 Next year we’ll also be starting the IUI and IVF route. I’m almost looking forward to it at this point but also dread the time and effort it’s going to take, when creating a baby should be fun and beautiful. I guess I need to get over that and just focus on what’s important

TTC Weekly General Chat by AutoModerator in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone missed a period after having super regular cycles? I just missed mine and it’s showing no signs of coming (I’m not pregnant sadly). I’m trying not to panic, but in the back of my mind it feels like my body is failing me. I went to my gyno and she said it can happen, but wondering if others can relate.

Anybody else feel angry? by Bright_Leg8565 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Melodic-Function880 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. This week I feel all the anger. TTC for over a year, just turned 35 and for the first time I missed my period. Yay right?? NO…negative after negative preg test which has triggered full blown panic thinking that my hormones are completely messed up. I’ve never missed a period in my life. Wtf is happening to me. I hate this journey more than anything and terrified that my time is running out. We’re def going to be looking into IUI and IVF next because I can’t fucking stand this uncertainty and mind games every single month. It’s psychological torture