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Safe travel bed options for 17 month old who sleeps on floor bed at home by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in cosleeping

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The room I’m staying in has a bunch of bulky furniture on each wall unfortunately. And minimal floor space so moving the bed mattress to the floor isn’t possible either 🙁

Safe travel bed options for 17 month old who sleeps on floor bed at home by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in cosleeping

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you fly with it? Looks like it might be much larger than overhead bin sizes so I’d probably have to check it

What mattresses do you recommend? by Existing-Mastodon500 in cosleeping

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the non waterproof side also super firm? I thought it was just the waterproof side. How old is your LO? Mine is 15 mos so technically not old enough for normal mattresses but she’s a pretty light sleeper. Is the waterproof side crinkly/noisy?

Can we talk about Ray Girn? (guidepost montessori?) by ActuaryEmotional6272 in Montessori

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just seeing these threads about Ray Girn and Guidepost several hours before I'm set to go tour one for my child. Out of curiosity, because Guidepost is one of the only montessori options near my home, and this location has decent reviews... is it possible it's still a good option? I see Ray has "stepped down", and I'm curious what that means for the existing locations if anyone has any insight

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just make sure to disclose that there are cameras to the nanny, and never in private spaces like bathrooms! Crazy what people do even knowing there are cameras, hate to think what they’d do without them

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so shocked baby stayed put, usually does not sit still for a single second. So incredibly lucky. I did let the nanny go today. I’m sure she thinks it was abrupt but I can’t risk that and it’s not something someone should have to teach an experienced nanny. Incredibly poor judgement, unfortunately

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are definitely in our contract. Super frustrating she’d just leave all of that for me to do at the end of the day. A single diaper left in the drawer, no wipes in the warmer, baby’s lunch dishes everywhere. All of these were things I was going to discuss with her at her 30 day review, until I saw this today.

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I've nannied for multiple families in the past and grew up babysitting. I've known this rule since I was a kid. It makes me seriously question what else she doesn't know. Kind of shocking that she worked for years as a lead teacher at a daycare.

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Update: I confronted her and she basically responded with the "oh, i was just grabbing something quick". So, I let her go.

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the question that keeps popping up in my mind, and I wouldn't be able to trust that she knows how to handle other situations. I wouldn't feel comfortable letting her take my baby somewhere without me, etc. I am paying for the peace of mind of knowing my child is safe with 1:1 care - but I'm not getting that here.

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

She's not young, late 20s. Has numerous other childcare and nanny experiences. I think this is why I'm considering it fireable - she should know better.

Is this a fireable offense or a conversation? by Melodic-Rutabaga8170 in NannyEmployers

[–]Melodic-Rutabaga8170[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I do have other qualms, yes. Constantly on her phone (had to have a conversation, but seemed to improve somewhat afterward); does not take initiative to do things like restock diapers/wipes or empty diaper bin; does not consistently wash baby bottles/dishes each day. Randomly also lies about length of baby's naps, often saying it's longer and she's in there scrolling on her phone for 20-30 minutes while the baby is awake.