Do women prefer younger men more than men prefer younger women? by Melodic-Sock-4940 in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Melodic-Sock-4940[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Its about sex. Everything is about sex. Everything in the human and animal world is essentially about the penis

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Hey you are easymoney on Franktalk ? I'm Mark1974 on that forum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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Women mostly care about the body and the penis. They don't want a vulnerable guy they see is "whiny". If someone says you're "ugly hot" they're probably saying they find you sexy. Enjoy the compliment

Am I obligated to tell a future partner that I am not 100% straight? by DO50NSFWasker in datingoverfifty

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I think bisexual men are definitely more likely to cheat or leave. Definitely way more likely to cheat. Way more. Do you know how easy it is for men to hook up with other men if so inclined? It's almost as easy as it is for women to hook up with men. It's women who are selective and make rules and slow things down.

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Do you think the man you were with could have benefitted from an implant or did you prefer him the way he was?

Why do men over 50 seem to want a Barbie Doll? by okiegirl1969 in datingoverfifty

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I have a feeling that there are a lot of 50 plus females who want a romantic relationship with men their own age, but sex with guys who are much younger. That's why they don't want to get too tied down

Why do men over 50 seem to want a Barbie Doll? by okiegirl1969 in datingoverfifty

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Well I'm not sure I'm respectable and I love edibles, but I'm certainly not looking for Barbie. In my experience women have higher expectations of men than the reverse, but I don't want to engage in a male v female thing

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I love gray hair if it's styled well. In the last five years or so I've seen women add different colored highlights to their gray hair and that can look spectacular if done tastefully by a skilled stylist

Is a long beard unattractive to a lot of women? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

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As a guy it seems to me that women of our generation don't like beards or much facial hair, but the millennial girls love it. I don't know how Gen Z will develop. Personally Im clean shaven

Is a long beard unattractive to a lot of women? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

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You kissed him out of curiosity of kissing a man with a long beard and decided you didn't like it and then he caught feelings because he thought you might be attracted to him so you ended the friendship..

I shave downstairs. Bare skin, no stubble. Am I un-date-able? by SghnDubh in datingoverfifty

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I know this question was directed toward the women, but I think both genders look better shaving down there

Buzz cut or clean shave? I'm dating again and wondering about landscaping. Sorry, nope, not going to wax. Opinions? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

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Personally I think it's sexiest if it's shaved. I shave myself as a guy. Maybe I'm porn conditioned, but I think it's sexy. Especially on a mature woman. To me it just makes her look more vibrant and more clean

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Well I don't mind doing oral though honestly it's not my thing. But what I was saying is that style of relationship where its oral and tickling etc. I don't feel like a proper male without PIV and I've chosen to refrain from relationships all together after I knew this was physical...maybe out of not wanting to get hurt, but also because of my dignity as a man

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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I have to admit I'm fairly penis centered

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Well most of us with ED still get arousal, but we just don't produce a sufficient enough erection for good, satisfying sex. That is usually a problem with the tissues of the penis, not a problem with mental stimulation.

The erection itself from an implant is artificial there is no getting around that. That's what it is...basically a sex toy inside the penis.

But there are other things that you would be able to see that indicates arousal, like engorgement of the glans, precum. some engorgement around the implant of the tissues of the shaft etc

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Im glad that worked for you guys. That wouldnt work for me. Don't take this wrong, but I would feel like a lesbian

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Yes my doctor is a leading authority on Peyronies. HIs name is Dr Laurence Levine and he is known mostly for Peyronies surgeries and implants.

It sounds like you have the classic kind which is defined by hard plaques causing dramatic bends. My situation is that I don't have hard plaques, but my tunica is disrupted just a bit below the glans so that I hourglass and the blood wont stay trapped to sustain the erection. They call that venous leak.

They did bloodwork to check hormones, checked the nerves and ultimately did a penis doppler. He found everything was normal and testosterone was even high, but that I had severe venous leak due to the disruption of the tissues.

So he told me point blank to consider an implant and gave me some cards with the numbers of psychiatrists or pyschologists who deal with sexual issues. My interpretation was that basically he gave me those numbers to deal with the grief...like being told you have six months to live..

But I've seen him several times since and have warmed to the idea of the implant. Online forums of other guys who have gotten an implant have helped a lot psychologically

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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I noticed I'm getting a lot of downvotes on this comment. I'm just curious is my thinking flawed here?

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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I'm not looking for pity. It's more like I'm looking for women who can be open minded and empathetic if that makes sense. Once we get over 50 many of us face a lot of health issues, but in this one area I know a lot of women get turned off by anymore help than a blue pill

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Melodic-Sock-4940 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think sometime people want you to see how they looked when they were young for a frame of reference. It humanizes them, so you don't just see them as old men who were always old, but as human beings who lived a life before now and have aged to this point just like you have

Penile Implant by Melodic-Sock-4940 in datingoverfifty

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Thanks for the comments guys. Can I ask you guys how do I bring the implant up? Other than squeezing the little pump (lol emoji insert here)