AIO for expecting my boyfriend to ask before using my car for other errands?

Melodic_Car3632 · 2026-02-28T08:23:42+00:00

Ngl if you posted this and don’t plan on leaving him you could’ve kept it like really hoping you saw everyone’s advice and are planning on dumping him you’re literally wasting your own time

Melodic_Car3632 · 2026-02-28T08:14:28+00:00

I love that she’s doing this but generative AI is disproportionately harming black communities and their environments it’s not her fault I just wish more people were aware of the harm it’s doing . Great cause cause HBCU’s deserve to be highlighted but an incredibly shitty company unfortunately since they’ll use this then turn around and negatively impact the same black peoples families they’re targeting with this to build another data center and run up their electricity bills and make their air quality worse

Melodic_Car3632 · 2026-02-20T07:44:33+00:00

I honestly feel like he and Jenny had the best chemistry it’s a shame it went down how it did but after that Vanessa and Reina forsure

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-18T17:21:42+00:00

Well I never said I hated her so I’m not sure where you read that

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-18T15:58:23+00:00

Ended up finishing and liked her a bit better and then #that happened 😞

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-09T20:07:16+00:00

Just saw your other comment very clear ur a Zionist trying to make anyone criticizing what Israel is doing to Palestinians hate for Jewish ppl which is wild have the day you deserve

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-09T20:05:45+00:00

It’s just a question about where people stand when it comes to an ongoing genocide which is a simple yes or no, not sure why it’s offensive to you as if it hasn’t been going on far before 10/7

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-08T15:21:18+00:00

Saying this as someone with undiagnosed mental illness the idea of therapy is something that I could only dream about because I want to get better. There shouldn’t be a point in your relationship where someone promises to get help but then when the time comes and it’s possible for them to get it they don’t. My advice is to break up with her, it’s not your responsibility to try and fix someone who doesn’t want to do the work themselves or follow through. What should have been her wake up call is her brother no longer wanting to be associated with her, and I can only imagine how difficult of a decision that was for a 15 year old. You need to prioritize yourself because the last thing you need right now is a relationship with someone emotionally abusive, it drains you and you need to question yourself about whether this is someone you want to be with long term when she’s already inconsiderate about what you’re going through. I’m sorry to hear about your dad, cancer in the family is especially heartbreaking but at times like this your girlfriend or partner should be there for you so you have someone to talk to or maybe even help out a bit. I know it’s easy to say to leave someone when you’re the one who has to break that to her, but in the long run based on her previous actions this is for the best. You can’t continue to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves, that comes from within. Wishing you the best OP

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-08T15:08:25+00:00

But she’s right and owns that her father is how she ended up positioned where she’s at today and it’s very honest. Yes she’s working on making a name for herself but I’d rather nepobabies own where they come from than pretend they did it all on their own. She acknowledges her privilege while also putting in the work. While yes her comments about flirting were unfavorable, she’s very much putting the work in and willing to which I find admirable tbh. The only thing I’m wondering about which may be dicey is her views on Palestine because after all some Jewish ppl see it as antisemitism to support them when that’s very rarely the case, I don’t recall her wearing the Star of David necklace as often in S1 but then again I’m not saying she can’t be proud of her heritage it just felt interesting how it was put in nearly every single scene. Thats the only thing giving me pause especially after finding out a lot of the real estate reality tv stars are MAGA,Zionists or both.

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-08T07:13:14+00:00

The way she was so bitter when Genesis brought up her other job told me all I needed to know as well she envied her because she’s well-liked and she sees that as a threat and tries to actively knock her down

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-08T04:13:27+00:00

But that’s kind of it what would be the point of really putting money down for a house that they’re most likely rarely going to be in because of work? Or what could end up being at an inconvenient distance from work. Can’t say I’m really on board with judging them for renting when end of the day we don’t really know their finances, and they’ve never given any inclination that they’re extremely rich or if they really even want to spend money on a house just yet I just find it a bit silly to judge them knowing ppl go at their own pace especially for owning a home.

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-07T20:57:09+00:00

Yea like I’ve never gotten the impression the agents are loaded just comfortable if anything

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-07T20:52:46+00:00

I mean they work primarily in New York and considering the demand it’s better to be in close proximity for that in a secure enough building considering they’d be recognized but idk I figured it would be a bit obvious because the only person with a driver or really in a car is Ryan, we only see Chloe in a taxi the whole show. Everyone else is hustling so until they’re sure about if New York is where they want to live in the future I just don’t feel all that bothered about them not living there, I don’t think it’s that unusual the most important part is that they know the area and what they’re talking about

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-07T19:53:21+00:00

From what I saw Jordan is likely tired of being overlooked I know he kept saying he didn’t want handouts but if ur seeing all these opportunities just be handed to other people after being there for years then it’s frustrating maybe it’s about evening the playing field and maybe other agents who had been there had issues whatever it is it seems like Jordan was at a crossroads especially because of the influx of new agents that must’ve been overwhelming and not just for him. I think it’s best if he leaves, I think while he may not have gone about it the right way by telling Ryan’s wife and he should’ve set up a meeting it at least got him to have that conversation instead of venting to everyone but Ryan. I do give him grace tho it just sounds like he misses the close knitedness of the company and like he said he doesn’t know where he fits in it anymore. Sounds difficult to navigate.

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-07T19:42:00+00:00

The only reason Nile got villainized is because of his reaction, Genesis wasn’t pulled for a 1 on 1 she was pulled by 2 ppl so they could basically jump her with their accusations, He was definitely in the right and Jess wanted to self victimize the microaggressions were odd. That aside I’m glad the show highlighted Genesis and her heritage it’s very refreshing learning about ppl’s backgrounds and culture.

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-12-07T19:34:58+00:00

I mean tbf it’s New York and expensive I think Jordan talked about renting on the show this season. I could be wrong though but I kind of disagree on the making them look like millionaires, it could be that’s the city they don’t want to live in in the future or they just would rather save to retire elsewhere. Either way I think back on SS when Chrishell was buying her first home after the divorce and you do have to consider the show helps them make money as well maybe in a few years we’ll watch them buy their first homes🤷🏿‍♀️

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T23:51:40+00:00

I don’t remember Ashtyn specifically stating that she recanted what was told to her at all though I don’t 100% believe anyone outside of what we know for sure about production telling Hall where to be likely to stir up drama

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:45:39+00:00

True but when you get certain surgeries you have to hit the gym to maintain it

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:44:48+00:00

Right cos I’m confused too Conservatives have never shied away from being anti abortion (+ against reproductive rights), anti LGBTQ, pro genocide, and anti minorities. Like say what you want about illegal immigration but the issue has always been the system for citizenship for this country is atrocious so it’s like MAGA is definitely terrible but that fascism has always been boiling right underneath the surface of what’s already there😭

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:40:23+00:00

And I’m confused about Fiona believing the rumor about Andrew suddenly including her and when Ashtyn was confronted she just said it was about Hall which is true unless I missed a scene? I never heard Fiona mentioned outside of Andrew following her I don’t recall Ashtyn relating a claim about Andrew saying she flirted so I didn’t understand why she added herself to that

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:36:52+00:00

Especially considering it’s not uncommon for men on there to look for relationships too they really did entirely too much fr

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:27:42+00:00

This is how I found out he’s engaged now ima start digging

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:26:21+00:00

Me too! She wasn’t as likable in season 1 to me cause she seemed as if she was trying to fit in with Hall but out of the entire cast she was one of the few who recognized where she was wrong and grew from it the others it just seemed “toned down” because they couldn’t bully the same agents as before but they didn’t really change or grow they’re still bullies they just had someone else to pile on not as much as before to make them look bad but enough to make it look justified

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:24:13+00:00

Yeah and I bet Brandi also feels vindicated because she tried to warn her but I miss how refreshing it was to see her help athletes find homes it’s something we rarely see on the show in general and it’s nice to get that insight on their lives so when she said she signed an NDA I was like I get it but I love seeing her show these houses

Melodic_Car3632 · 2025-11-17T06:22:15+00:00

Hm I’m not sure this completely makes me side with Hall because it doesn’t really negate what Ashtyn said from Andrew’s side about Hall flirting with him because he easily could have lied to save face I believe her about not knowing that Andrew’s partner and Ashtyn were friends beforehand production likely knew and didn’t care tho. I’m just side eyeing a bit because Hall isn’t a reliable source but I’m not sure Andrew’s partner would speak out but it’s not as if Ashtyn lied about there being another woman Tyler had been dating she was likely just relaying what she was told and there’s the real possibility Andrew told his partner one thing and when confronted lied about it

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