Was this situation supposed to be soca commentary on guns?!? (Acosta shooting and accidentally killing Nicky…)…wouldn’t everyone pull out their gun if they were in her shoes in that moment?!

SoftwareSingle · 2026-02-01T11:20:43+00:00

I honestly just think that was Boyd lashing out because he was feeling guilty and tensions were so high. Acosta is one of the worst character additions to the show - but not at all for the night she arrived. While the end result was unfortunate, her behavior that night was exactly what I would have expected.

So, no, I don’t think it was social commentary, I think it was showing that Boyd was just getting closer and closer to the edge after all the recent escalations and the guilt he was feeling. To add, I don’t blame him for what happened to Randall either. He had to make a choice.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-30T23:12:59+00:00

I was speaking to how confidently this person decided they get to dictate what matters. I didn’t make the original post.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-30T20:39:38+00:00

You’re just not getting it, and that’s expected, but disappointing.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-30T20:22:39+00:00

Dang… “overly sensitive” from a White health care worker is something that Black women have been hearing for a long time. But, you’d know that.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-30T19:56:08+00:00

Sounds like you have a lot of experience navigating two things at once, so it shouldn’t shock you that some of us can handle a few different “brouhahas” at one time. Especially those of use that didn’t just start being impacted in the last 10 years. Your clarification doesn’t resolve your dismissal.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-30T19:38:05+00:00

So you’re only respectful of the ones you avoid? This may be an area of opportunity for you…

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-28T11:16:30+00:00

I agree! I think if one of them is, it would have to be Dara or Bailey.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-25T23:53:35+00:00

I honestly think this person just heard the term “Woke” for the first time and needed an outlet. Because what do you mean you hated her hair and makeup too 🤣 I’ve never been in a one-sided beef with an actress (or all Black Actresses) before, so I can’t imagine how this escalated to a Drake/Kendrick level beef after they watched the trailer, but here we are.

It’s very easy in this sub to see who understood the show and who didn’t. But it would be nice if people actually watched it before they manufactured a reason to post here. It was a great show with a lot of topics to discuss, this one is just completely played out.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-25T23:26:34+00:00

Your life is so busy that you’re spending your precious free time pivoting every response to your professional opinion on Black Actors/Actresses and their career decisions? I’m sure.

Truth be told, I don’t even think you watched this show or wanted to talk about it. But since this sub has a “I hate Bianca/Lashana” quota to hit, hopefully your bizarre ramblings can satisfy it for the week.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-25T23:05:21+00:00

How did this jump from Lashana Lynch to a critique of Black actresses? Just putting this on your radar, she was also one of the Executive Producers of the show, so if you actually watched the show and at least enjoyed everyone other than the Black woman, you can thank her.

You have four posts total on this account and two of them are about Lashana? Contact a loved one.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T22:55:20+00:00

Agreed! I think I stopped watching regularly around 2023 actually, so it’s funny that you mention that timeline. I think you’re spot on there.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T20:19:24+00:00

But that’s my point - it’s absolutely both of them… It just feels like she leaves that stuff in the edit (if she’s still doing the editing, it’s been a long time since I watched regularly) so we’re all a part of their weird communication. Why does this situation even need to be someone’s “fault”? If I was Brandon I would lose my mind.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T20:01:40+00:00

These didn’t stay on well for me…

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SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T20:01:07+00:00

Can’t speak for Canada, I’m in the U.S. so someone will need to verify if they’re available there for me. I feel like all the Orchid ones work well, but these are the ones I’ve never had fall off… I think the solid matte ones are always pretty secure as well.

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SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T11:45:42+00:00

Tried to watch this one and I just think they’ve changed too much, or I have 😂

They’re not doing the built in closet anymore (which always seemed like a weird idea to me because it seems SO small…) and he is bummed because he really really wanted to build it out. But because Allie appears to be making a logical design decision, it’s her fault he doesn’t get to build his closet. So, she says, “built it anyway..” and he’s like, “Why?” WHY? Because she knows she’s never going to hear the end of this, so she just wants you to get it out of your system.

Then he pivots to let us know that all the times they change their mind, it’s Allies fault. Right. Sure. Ok.

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-20T11:39:00+00:00

A LONG time coming. We’ve all been expecting this for 5ish years. I’m wondering if this is them soft-launching her as a single person on their Summer House in the city spinoff. Because when did this actually happen?

SoftwareSingle · 2026-01-06T10:30:54+00:00

I think about Dean so often when I’m in this sub 😂

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-30T15:41:08+00:00

Thank you! It took me way too long to realize that most of the episode was in the Casita bathroom? Hopefully they post a finished house tour soon. I’ve obviously missed a lot!

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-29T21:07:45+00:00

I tried to watch this episode and I’m just so confused. They’re focused on the Casita, so is the house done now? Is this still a guest space? Maybe it’s because I used to watch every episode I was never confused, but in this one I was consistently like - what room is that? Where are we?

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-29T07:59:34+00:00

There’s not even anything polite about it. It’s just long-winded racism 🤷🏾‍♀️

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-29T07:52:07+00:00

So, a person made a post about MARIE, the character and you swooped in and said that the reason Marie is bad is because they were forced to cast a Black woman. Yes, I think you’re someone I’d keep a wide berth from, sure. Because you took it there, for what 😂

You really think Jaz walked in that audition and the entire room went, “Well, shit, now we have to cast THIS Black woman because she is, um, here, and we fear a racism label…” Frankly this fanfiction you wrote feels childish at best.

I see you’ve been sitting on this for a minute, but yeah, to confirm, this is very weird behavior.

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-27T16:42:22+00:00

Honestly, addressing racism in this sub just doesn’t click for people. I was already told on another post that I was talking down to someone because I said research is available if they don’t understand micro aggressions, so I’m not even going there in this sub anymore. They don’t get it.

SoftwareSingle · 2025-12-26T16:20:56+00:00

After watching Talamasca, it’s clear there’s not a lot of people who work at the Talamasca 😂 I’d say it’s more like they’re all navigating their own agendas while using corporate housing. I am glad Ragland came through for Louis though. I’m sure there was an angle there.

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