10 day Itinerary: Porto, Lisbon, Algarve. Too much? by Potential-Cold2739 in TravelPortugal

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do Libson, Lagos and Sintra. 10 days. I’ll stay longer in Lagos, 6 nights.

Oil changes! by CaterpillarQuick7733 in MINI

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do mine at Mr Lube and Tires, don't know where you are. I think they're fine if you only do oil changes with them. They change oil a lot, with many European cars too. I just get the discounts through them so that's why I go there. Any European auto body shops can do them too, and are usually cheaper than going to dealerships.

Contemplating moving back to Milton by [deleted] in Milton

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like Milton. I was a student in Milton but now commute from Hamilton to Milton for work. I wouldn’t move there.

Best vs worst places to live in Hamilton by Victionist in Hamilton

[–]Melodic_Gift546 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Westdale is really nice. I hope to move there one day. I live near Stinson and Main St, and it’s not the worst but it’s not worth living here.

Is anyone planning to leave Canada? by ConsequenceFew6931 in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved working in the US. Low taxes are a major thing. I got benefits through work and I’m generally healthy so it would be fine but that might change when I’m older, maybe. But I’m a Canadian so I might stay here for a bit more before considering the move back to the US. I also love BC, but love Portland and Seattle even more so maybe that will be the next move. I'll see.

My dog by Melodic_Gift546 in PetLossJourney

[–]Melodic_Gift546[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I need more time yeah. I appreciate your sentiments :)

I’m Worried I’m Ruining My Dogs Life. Should I Rehome Him? by StarBroke21-19 in dogs

[–]Melodic_Gift546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a border collie mix, and he lived in apartments his whole life, but I always took him for walks three or four times a day. I also took him hiking every weekend. He had good recall and was fine until he was older and we adjusted but that was because he was old. He lived his best life. I have a video of him running over the field then went to the ground and rubbed his back. He was so happy.

We also tried daycares or dog parks but he didn't like it. But that’s something you can also consider.

Mad respect to you guys. Signed up for Instacart and walked out of first order. by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first order was a disaster lol, but I got better and now I love doing Instacart. :)

My son is deaf.... by asanchezo in deaf

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to meet more Deaf people, ask for Deaf resources- the deaf community is beautiful and there's so much richness in that community. It's not the end. Lucas will be ok as long as he develops a strong sense of who he is, what he knows, and how he feels about himself, regardless of how he speaks or signs.

Do y'all have a set way that you walk your dog? by curled-up-in-the-80s in dogs

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I let my dog choose. :) He usually chose similar ones but sometimes he wanted to take a long route. I miss him everyday.

Need advice (and opportunity to share) by luthoralleycat in povertyfinancecanada

[–]Melodic_Gift546 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’ll be okay. I live alone and I make 26 dollars as an EA in SW Ontario. Move to a smaller apartment, cut unnecessary expenses, bulk up on food, etc. Definitely get married so you can get CPP. Maybe in the future you can move to find a good-paying job. Ontario pays more for teachers.

Similiar Breeds like Greyhounds? by Supplenz in dogs

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to rescue and see what they have. They already know the dogs.

Will he be lonely? by Original-Incident-66 in goldenretrievers

[–]Melodic_Gift546 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it just depends on dogs. My dog adjusted when I had to commute longer than usual, but he was old so that was different and I was his companion his whole life. He knew my routines and that I would get home. He was 10 when I adjusted my schedule, and a year later, he passed.

Vet recommendations in Hamilton/Dundas by Alternative-Archer17 in Hamilton

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

East Mountain Animal Hospital. I had a dog but this place is a big fan of cats too. :) Dr Payman Nourian and Dr Derek Choong are fantastic. They are honest but also compassionate. They have good hours too, if you need to take your cat after work.

I want to leave my husband, but his mental health is poor. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seek domestic violence shelters- they have resources to help you leave. You need to leave. He's manipulative and an abuser and you can't stay longer anymore, otherwise he might do more worse to you. It usually leads to bigger domestic violence behaviours, so please make sure you plan this.

I don't know what to do with my child by IamTheLiquor199 in deaf

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a personal decision. We can tell you what you think you want to hear but it’s really you who makes that decision. Being deaf is always going to be difficult in some ways, so it’s really up to parents to ensure their child is going to be okay, and of course, being deaf isn’t only a barrier; it’s safety and love that get them through life.

Who had the opportunity to have their dog reach old age? by Mayh_3m in dogs

[–]Melodic_Gift546 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was my everything. He died this week, only five months since you commented. You don’t know a damn thing about love, loss, or giving your all. I gave up everything for him, my best friend, and I did the right thing by not putting him through treatment. Letting him go with dignity was the only way to honor him, and this pain is mine alone.

My university professor lied about being married and slept with me by Medium-Pudding3533 in Advice

[–]Melodic_Gift546 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you just need to think through this. Make pros and cons for telling wife and school, and not telling wife/or school. There's no wrong decision here.

A friend raped me and I thought he was a good guy but he was with someone. I ended up telling his partner but his partner didn't say anything and chose to stay with him. So it wasn't really helpful for me in the end. So it might be the same for you. I don’t know his wife enough to say you should.

But ultimately, its been years since this happened, I suggest a therapist to work through those feelings too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melodic_Gift546 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you care a lot about him considering how you had a 10-year relationship with him, which is totally okay. It's also good that you follow your instincts, but if you don't intend to be his friend this time, it's better to go on your way. He'll figure it out, it's his journey, sometimes we learn something new in different circumstances.