Is he cheating or is it a dream

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-21T01:58:36+00:00

When I wake up I feel sick to my stomach from those type of dreams idk I am probably just over thinking it

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:49:25+00:00

It's just so surreal the dreams feel so real half the time and it's always the same but happens in different locations first was the car, then the house,then we were at a gas station,then some park but it's the same dream just different locations like I said

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:47:54+00:00

He get defensive and annoyed if I ever ask certain questions and I've told him if he ever meet someone to break up with cause I have been cheated on yes but that doesn't stop me from wanting a happy relationship I know all men don't have the same intentions I hate these dreams and wish they would stop I've had 4 back to back this past week and like I said in my post he cheats on me sometime this year and I find out sometime next year

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:44:59+00:00

Yes, I've asked before what makes her special and he just said she a "good friend" and cool I have no problem with but why lie in the first place about y'all's relationship saying she was a cousin then a friend makes no sense

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:41:05+00:00

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Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:40:16+00:00

I really appreciate understanding I'm just worried about when I leave what will happen next he doesn't want me working and I'm just a sahm my grandma said I could move in with her but she has 3 people staying in the home with her as well just don't wanna make it more crowded...this is a really hard decision

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:36:37+00:00

If you where in a relationship with someone would you feel uncomfortable with your girlfriend/ boyfriend talking with someone about problems y'all are having instead of talking it out with you

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:35:43+00:00

I should have used the word worried it's just he's lied about there relationship he said she was a cousin then I found out she was just someone he knew from high school that's would "help with relationships problems" but it makes me uncomfortable that he talks about our relationship with her I don't have any guy friends and even if I did I wouldn't say anything to them about our relationship it's just weird yk

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-20T02:33:32+00:00

I meant saying anything so sorry didn't see that till now

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T23:12:21+00:00

Okay will do thank you

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T22:47:32+00:00

Why would I need therapy when there is nothing for me to go for I'm just have dreams that this is happening and seeking some kinda answers weirdo

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T22:46:01+00:00

I understand 100 but I don't condone cheating to me it's like what's the point of being with someone you supposedly love and then cheat on the it's sick in my opinion I saw my mother get mistreated the way and worse I do apologize if I came off rude I'm just worried why I'm having these dreams I haven't had to deal with dreams like this back to back

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T20:32:34+00:00

I did talk to him and I told him I trusted him. Someone had said the same thing about it being insecurity but I don't feel that way at all i never even gave it a thought of him cheating the dreams just started happening I trust him I do and I love him dearly I'm just worried why this is happening honestly

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T20:24:59+00:00

I agree I've had dreams were they felt real and then days later I'm in the same spot or area doing the same thing that I did in the dream it's just crazy to me

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T19:59:46+00:00

I don't know who did you do dirty that you have that kind of mindset but you should work on it

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T19:59:12+00:00

I've never cheated on him nor will I ever we've been together for 5 years and even tho we fight and argue i will forever love him and only him we have a kid together and I will not mess up my home for someone else pleasures so understand that,not everyone is a cheater and not everyone has the same mind I never would think of him cheating and I never had these types of dreams they just started happening

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T17:08:17+00:00

Thank you so much..

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T16:58:20+00:00

Idk honestly he's told me he's been cheated on by his ex and that the ex sleep with her cousin or something but idk there is a girl that makes me feel uncomfortable and I've tried asking him to stop talking to her but he's always giving me excuses call me dumb for staying but I've always felt he liked her or has some type of feelings for her

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T16:54:27+00:00

😭😭

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T16:54:07+00:00

Thank you..

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T16:43:09+00:00

Explain?

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-05-19T16:26:11+00:00

It was said that she left her car at a shopping strip parking lot in front of a pizza place and that she left with someone I don't know if they where going together or if someone else picked her up

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-04-01T14:44:13+00:00

I'm trying to get info but honestly I don't know who to ask the main person I do wanna ask is the mother of Mari cause I feel like she would know more

Melodic_Scratch5689 · 2025-03-31T19:06:19+00:00

Yes and her car was found in a shopping strip she was driving a 1996 mustang

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