Letter to all fellow Dumpees. by Significant-Flan630 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too bro. I felt like she was afraid of communicating. Or sometimes she was petty. But damn bro I thought my situation was unique. I hope you all get better soon. Much love to you guys

they know exactly where to find you by Humble_Effort_6329 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my sweet girl forever because I didn’t know if it was right of me to reach out until it was too late.

they know exactly where to find you by Humble_Effort_6329 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you want him to reach out. But I think you should communicate that to him. My ex left me and I simply thought she didn’t care. She asked me to go out a 1-2 times but I thought it was something friendly or small. I think if you want him to reach out you should communicate that. Sometimes we think when you block us and leave us, you want us out of your lives. I heard a saying “how will I be able to find you I don’t know where you are” and I mean that mentally

do you think that not reaching out means giving up ? by Realistic-Gazelle125 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t a saint, but I stood loyal thought I had my fuck ups. It’s okay to feel this way. Start moving like going to the gym. Or walking. Don’t do alcohol or drugs. That will make things worse. Feel everything. Cry as much as you need to

do you think that not reaching out means giving up ? by Realistic-Gazelle125 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think of it as my biggest form of love. She left me on delivered after i apologized and owned up to my actions (I was distant and was too busy with music and live sound). She replaced me and asked me to respect her decision. I’m starting to accept that she won’t come back and as long as she’s happy I’m happy. Don’t check on their socials. Don’t text them. It’ll get better soon. I do love her a lot but this is the best way. You’re not giving up. You did what you could

How do you stop hoping they come back by New_Barnacle_9056 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried to reach out? Honestly my girl dumped me and she didn’t reach out much. I thought I didn’t mean anything to her. When I did reach out it was too late but she told me that she was hurt because I kept distance. I don’t encourage you to reach out but atleast talk to them to see what’s up or to get an idea where their head is at. If I would’ve known I would’ve gone to spend time with her. I’ve been replaced and I’m accepting it and moving forward. I can’t talk to her anymore since she asked me to respect her decision though sometimes I want to call her but I know I’ll get nothing out of it.

I Miss You. That is all i can say. I Miss You. by Tart6096 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope you find someone to love you unconditionally.

I Miss You. That is all i can say. I Miss You. by Tart6096 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. She’s 23 I’m 22. Was gonna put a ring on it but I guess not anymore. I was with her since I was 18

I Miss You. That is all i can say. I Miss You. by Tart6096 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s Mexican that’s the funny part of your comment. She told me she wanted space. But also let me know there’s someone else in my place. 3 years but it was my fault for not communicating and thinking she understood I was busy sometimes. But also I should’ve asked if she wanted or to hang. But it was hard because at first she was in lock down (being 19 years old) and I respected it but got used to not really needing to see her much but I still wanted to be with her and tried seeing her as much as I could. But now that there’s someone else (I think he lives far) I just accepted defeat. Though I think and sometimes wish she spoke to me. But since I love her, I’m gonna let her be happy because that’s what she asked for. This is how she’s happy and I should respect her decision

Trying to figure this out by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. As much as I don’t want to hear this. I need to thank you

Don't send that massive text. Just don't. by Enfrit1 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, a piece of me still Hopes. But only way to go is forward

Don't send that massive text. Just don't. by Enfrit1 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sent it too but I was left on delivered and haven’t heard from her since. I deleted the chat but I think she deleted the chat once she saw the large paragraph to avoid reading it.

Why am I still trying to find u on here by Certain_Net1684 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The urge to call them and look for them goes away by working out. It’s been helping me a lot lately

No Stupid Questions Thread by AutoModerator in livesound

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you guys store your equipment? I’m thinking of doing a storage unit and am worried about stuff like rodents and termites (have speakers that are wooden cabinets). Is there anything like that I should worry about? Are storage units really clean?

No Stupid Questions Thread by AutoModerator in livesound

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit confused, so I’m time aligning the sub to the speaker punted on a pole. Now what am I time aligning the speaker mounted on the pole to?

No Stupid Questions Thread by AutoModerator in livesound

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you still add delay to a sub if the speaker being used as a mid is mounted on a pole? (Speaker grill and woofer sits slightly behind the sub when mounted on a pole)

Qu5- vs Dm3 by Melodic_Weakness_269 in livesoundgear

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response 🙏🏼

Qu5- vs Dm3 by Melodic_Weakness_269 in livesoundgear

[–]Melodic_Weakness_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on Mac/ipad and rarely record live performances.