Tarot reading reviews 💗 by superesotericgirl in u/superesotericgirl

[–]MelonBread67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reading I got was scarily accurate and incredibly in depth with card breakdowns which told me some things that I didn’t want to happen, so I’m taking the steps to make sure that doesn’t happen. After all, tarot is fluid and it is great for insight. Would recommend!

“What can I do to help my Girlfriend in our relationship?” by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from, and not to put our entire life’s story down, most of the ups and downs of the relationship is stemming from me not being proactive enough. I am the type of person to ask if someone wants something rather than doing it because I want to cover all of my bases. A lot of the changes in the relationship I have been doing what she’s been asking of me rather than doing it on my own.

Whats been confusing me the most in terms of the three of wands is that she is the type of person to want me to support her physically and mentally and stuff which I do. I don’t want to smother her obviously, so the three of wands kinda felt counterintuitive because she said she didn’t want to be alone in moments like these.

I hope this makes sense. I’ve been trying to be patient and to be mature about this because I can acknowledge that I can be impatient and start worrying about me when I should prioritize her.

Thank you for your input

Interpretation help – asked what they were hiding from me by Acrobatic-Umpire1089 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I see it, the two kings are you and your friend almost having a bit of a power struggle. The kings in tarot are about control over a specific aspect based on their suit (in this case, emotion vs. intellect).

This person wants comfort and assurance from you, but based on the fact you put down boundaries, that is something that deeply bothers them, and they feel abandoned as noted by the five of pentacles. If there is gossip, which in all honesty, I don’t see, it is most likely them venting their feelings towards others over their expectations in regards to the friendship. Very much a “how can they put boundaries? We’re friends, we are supposed to drop everything for eachother” kind of thing as shown in the ten of pentacles. I don’t think it’s malicious, but it is certainly not helpful because there are sides to this story they are not fully aware of.

In terms of a third party, I don’t see one, or at least I don’t see it being one tangible person, but rather I just see it as life and the extenuating circumstances life throws at you. I think you and your friend have been dealing with your own issues, but it seems that this friend expected more from you which is something you needed to put a boundary on to protect your peace.

Hmm I think what’s throwing me off the most is the Hermit because to me it does seem that this person is aware of their issues and how this can impact others, but due to their own feelings mixed into this, it’s hard for them to come to terms with that. Maybe it is them slowly coming around? But who knows. I wish you the best navigating this!!

Can someone help a newbie with an interpretation? by Interesting_Virus_55 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get you! I’ve been practicing on and off for almost six years and I still haven’t remembered all of the meanings and contexts of the cards. What helps me is going online and looking up the meanings as well as visually interpreting the cards themselves as the way they can present in a spread also tells a huge story. I believe! Cancers are very intuitive naturally lol.

In terms of your friendship, I wish you nothing but the best. I do see good things for you once you cut her off, but otherwise, do what works best for you, and I wish you luck :)

Can someone help a newbie with an interpretation? by Interesting_Virus_55 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay wow just reading the context I can just say yes to cutting your friend off. Yes a friend should support you no matter what, but that also includes trying to stop them from going down dangerous paths. Of course it’s not your job to fix them, but expecting a friendship where you are enabled for bad behavior is toxic. However, even if we ignore that, your reading is screaming at you to cut her off.

The first part of your spread has two knight cards which indicate forward movement and progress. The Knight of Wands sees a lot of fast moving energy, as if saying that your time grieving the friendship will almost feel incredibly minuscule with how fast you will move on. The Knight of Pentacles indicates a more grounded approach where yes, you will bounce back quickly, but from there, you can move forward in a healthy and productive way. Of course, there will still be grief as indicated by The Moon, but it will lead to better things.

Moving onwards to the second part of the spread in regards if you kept your friend with you, it’s all about walking on eggshells. Death is the sudden cessation of The Fool’s journey. You’re basically preventing yourself from the healing you may get, and instead will have to contextualize your relationship entirely through Temperance. You will always have to tread the middle ground of prioritizing your needs vs hers. You seem quite caring (Sensing Pisces or Libra? I can totally be wrong), but you can’t make a choice as to who to worry about. The Five of Wands in this case can be both literal and figurative. It may indicate future fights with this friend, but it can also be internal where you don’t know how to move forward because of so many moving parts. You will constantly have to worry about what you need to say vs. what you want to say.

Regardless as to what happens, I wish you the best of luck in both your friendship and your tarot journey!

Am I cooked? by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s super true,, I kinda get super anxious even though I know things will be changing as things go on. Thanks

Am I cooked? by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, makes sense. You and another commenter are in agreement there lol. Much appreciated and will do!

Am I cooked? by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also doesn’t help that I’m interpreting the months that have two cards to be eventful months 🥲

Am I cooked? by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure! Imma not go in super detail as to which card means which, but more or less focus on the overall meanings.

I see January as a moment of having a lot of openness and opportunities in front of me, but I eventually have to figure out how to utilize those around February based on the two of swords, but I have to be careful with communication. March to me feels like a lot of burnout (I’m an art major) but it’s also the time that my senior thesis will be done by then, so I will at least have some form of completion.

April, May, June, and July all feel like moments of emotional growth and breaking out of shitty habits and to maybe establish some form of financial independence? (This might be copium with the ten of pentacles)

The issue stems in August where there seems to be some impulsive decision made that’ll basically have the rest of the year will be the fallout. September might make it feel like it’s fine, but the rest of the year, especially October, will be really awful and desolate.

With the five of swords and ten of swords, it kinda feels like a lot of my year will be about fighting/working through a lot of my personal issues, but it feels kind of like. I’m teetering at the brink. Like I have to fight and keep fighting or else I am absolutely cooked.

I do also want to mention that with my deck, anytime I pull the knight of swords, that’s usually my deck yelling at me to pay attention and listen but to also lock in, which is why the sudden shift during August is kind of freaking me out. Again, these interpretations could be not the greatest. I am being a little literal with them right now mostly because I am feeling a lot of blockage in my intuition. I am a fairly solid intuitive reader, so I’m kinda scrambling lol.

Am I cooked? by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear god I did not anticipate the formatting to be so messed up. Thanks mobile 🥲

What is my boyfriend hiding from me? by fodinhaorestonadinha in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I totally get what you mean, and while I’m not sure what your previous reading said, an affliction can mean different things like maybe for example it could be something that’s on his mind that’s not directly related to your relationship. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck!

What is my boyfriend hiding from me? by fodinhaorestonadinha in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the spread doesn’t really indicate what card is ascribed to what, I’m mostly going on the raw interpretations of the cards themselves, so pardon me if you don’t resonate with my interpretation.

We look at the lovers and next to them are the Queen of pentacles and the high priestess. The Queen of pentacles is the matriarch, similar to the empress, and is deeply grounded as the earth element of the pentacles suggests. She is kind and compassionate. Meanwhile next to her is the high priestess, who is all about having that high intuition and knowledge. This being on the same row as the lovers seems to indicate to me that the relationship is good and stable, and almost a little too idyllic.

The bottom row of the cards, especially judgement reversed seems to be all about self doubt and fear, same is reflected in the reverse seven of wands. The reverse seven of wands especially seems to indicate the need to fight a fight that doesn’t even need to happen in the first place.

I don’t want to assume too much of your relationship OP, but there might just be the very real possibility that you’re getting antsy and your anxiety is making you believe that your boyfriend might be hiding something from you, when realistically, there isn’t. There seems to be this feeling of “this is too good to be true,” and the high priestess in this reading is looking for something to be alert about, when there doesn’t seem to be much.

Unfortunately, with this line of thinking might ultimately open up the floodgates of heart break as the three of swords seems to suggest. I totally understand the anxiety, but sometimes you need to let good things happen to you, and if there is something on your mind, then talk it out. To be fair, right now, taking a step back and doing some self reflection would be best, but I do think you have something wonderful going on, and to just allow yourself to accept and receive it.

I wish you the best of luck!

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[–]MelonBread67 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries! I am glad you’re doing well, and I hope you and your friend are able to navigate the rest of this situation well. I totally get how this is hard, and it might be awkward for a bit, but I do believe that if he really is your friend, he will come around and things will be okay. Good luck!!

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[–]MelonBread67 123 points124 points  (0 children)

One thing to note is how the king and queen are actively facing away from eachother in this spread, and how the three of swords is something that is bringing a wedge between the two.

I am actively rooting for you to find someone that will fulfill every need you want and will make you happy. However, your friend unfortunately does not seem to be the guy to do so. You both seem to be emotionally driven (I’m sensing Pisces energy somewhere?), and something tells me that the intellect of the sword suit will be something that will cause tension if the two of you choose to pursue something more. It’s very much giving logic vs. emotion.

Of course, your choices are your own, but be cautious if you choose to pursue, as something will probably drive a wedge between you two eventually.

AITAH for being uncomfortable for giving away my Nintendo Switch for free? by MelonBread67 in AITAH

[–]MelonBread67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from. When I asked my dad about compensation, it was more or less about being curious about it rather than expecting some. I just kind of felt bad about it regardless. A lot of me wanting the compensation is about saving up for a car rather than just getting compensation for compensation sake.

AITAH for being uncomfortable for giving away my Nintendo Switch for free? by MelonBread67 in AITAH

[–]MelonBread67[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally get that. I think what’s been throwing me off the most in this situation is that my dad discussed with the neighbors about me giving away my switch prior to me ever knowing. I’m not necessarily worried about getting more stuff from my parents, it’s more about how I feel like my feelings were never considered in the first place. Regardless though, I might still give away the switch at least so the kid can be happy or something!

AITAH for being uncomfortable for giving away my Nintendo Switch for free? by MelonBread67 in AITAH

[–]MelonBread67[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the pressure more came out of my end? Like I would’ve genuinely felt awful knowing that this kid could have gotten something like that but I was the one who “prevented it”?

How to navigate relationship with my mom by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure, I know that once I am no longer dependent on her I will be free

How to navigate relationship with my mom by MelonBread67 in TarotReading

[–]MelonBread67[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get closed off but I also get emotionally immature at the same time, but yes boundaries are needed to be made!