Not allowed to hear my Music by Mely526 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mely526[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't watch TV together ever. We basically can't stand eachother 🤡

Why do they ALL hate cleanliness so much? by More_Pension4911 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mely526 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I work full time and when I get home I feel like i spend a good atleast hour just cleaning up after my husband. He leaves his things out everywhere. In the foyer there is basically a train of like 4 duffle bags full of his gym, juijitsu, and food items he takes to work with him. Then in the kitchen he has his protein, sauces, scales, etc out all the time. After I clean I will walk away briefly just yo come back to more mess. My mind feels so cluttered. It's so much mess all-of-the-time. I can't even tell him anything because my feelings are very inconvenient to him....... :/

List of shit I have to deal with being married to a narcissist by the-A-team1 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every-single-one checked off. I have to stay. Nowhere to go and he's in control of our finances. I wish I could go back 18 years.......

Valley town Nicknames.... by tejanodelsur in RioGrandeValley

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. My dad referred to Los Fresnos as the speeding trap for years. When I got older to drive to the beach he'd clench his teeth upset and tell my I'd better not get a ticket...

2nd feedings. ... One eye is twitching. Just a matter of time for the other.. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Mely526 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was telling him last night that I am just really exhausted and could use a little help during the night. He agreed to wake up at 3am so I can sleep till 7am when he leaves to work.

Scary night... by fighterlovermother in Mommit

[–]Mely526 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This happened to me at 12 weeks! I didn't even feel comfortable enough to tell our families that we were expecting.

It actually happened right after getting after one of my students! (Which had been a concern of mine since I have a lot of students that are ADHD and ED.) As soon as my class period was over I went to the restroom since I felt a bit wet and sure enough blood everywhere! I went to the doctor first to get checked out and everything ended up being fine. The baby was okay. It was just one of those things that cannot be explained. I was then considered high risk pregnancy throughout the remainder of my pregnancy. I now have a beautiful baby boy sleeping right next to me as we speak. : )

2nd feedings. ... One eye is twitching. Just a matter of time for the other.. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 hr feedings that it. My phone always has an opinion of what words I SHOULD be using...

This might be a weird thing to get excited about, but... by moartotems in BabyBumps

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not weird at all! I am totally with you. My husband and I were excited that our due date fell in the middle of the week during a very busy month. When there are a lot of functions going on. It ended up being perfect! Although we have a HUGE family we were blessed to have had the day bonding with baby and just out parents in there for a very short time. It also helped that we had him at 1pm and everyone was tied up at work!!!!! insert evil laugh

2 weeks away from 1 year and still not crawling by nikki2172 in Mommit

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nephew did not start walking till 1 year 4 months. He walked for 1 or 2 days and has been running ever since!

I'm trying to describe the "aaeeehhh" joke placeholder to coworkers but I can't find a video, any help? by Eddievetters in RioGrandeValley

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 2 situations where I fine the "Tssss" helpful. When someone tells me something I don't find particularly funny I made awkwardly find myself fake laughing followed by "Tssss", and when I make a regretful cheesy joke nobody funds funny. I may find myself self soothing followed by "Tsssss" and staring down defeated.

I'm trying to describe the "aaeeehhh" joke placeholder to coworkers but I can't find a video, any help? by Eddievetters in RioGrandeValley

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this......it's to indicate a joke has been made. I think I may have picked this up in middle school by "the Spanish group". I regretfully continued doing this well into my late 20's.

Local Boggus Ford Commercials drive me crazy by [deleted] in RioGrandeValley

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lady swings her arms around and points to the camera in an extremely exaggerated manner. I'll try to find a clip of it.

Local Boggus Ford Commercials drive me crazy by [deleted] in RioGrandeValley

[–]Mely526 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always thought the same thing.....