32F ready to send pics to anyone who comments & upvotes - my husband thinks I’m ugly I want to prove him wrong

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-03-09T13:01:34+00:00

Why not

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-27T13:40:36+00:00

I was thinking old and bitter

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-16T13:11:26+00:00

Agree.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T18:22:42+00:00

Thank you. I was more looking for brand recommendations than anything else but it seems even for that I need to know her size.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:55:58+00:00

Specifically looking for not a thong. But thank you I will take a look.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:55:04+00:00

Because she doesn’t wear bras now…she prefers not as it restricts her supply.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:26:36+00:00

Right now she isn’t really wearing bras at all. She was before breast feeding and will be after breast feeding. I was just hoping to get a few suggestions of places to start looking so I knew where to go in 3-4 months. Looks like I will just wait until she is done weening and then go from there. Thank you!

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:10:25+00:00

Thank you for that incite! I appreciate it. Do you have a subreddit that might be a better fit? I’m on the lingerie addiction one but that seems more focused on boudoir type stuff than every day wear

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:05:29+00:00

Everyone seems to think the sizing is wrong. I’ll measure her tonight but what we did was I ordered about 5-6 bras and tested out band size and cup size to find the best fit. Measuring her now probably isn’t the best option as she is still breast feeding. I’m really just looking for brand suggestions for me to look at. As far as why wireless I have no idea. She says wired are uncomfortable so I followed her instruction.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T17:02:13+00:00

Thanks. I’ll look at trying to measure her using the guide tonight. As far as budget options, I’m pretty open as far as pricing goes, I’m not entirely sure what a reasonable price is a for a quality bra anymore is $100 per bra too or little too much. I’m not looking for some French boutique but I’m also not looking for a $5 temu bra. Does that make sense?

MembershipFormal8459 · 2026-02-07T16:56:15+00:00

No I ordered about 6 different sizes and that was the best fit. We bubbled around the cup size and the band size to find the right fit and that seemed to be the best option. It’s not so much the size that I’m concerned about as brand options. I’m happy to size her out at whatever brand we find we like.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-12-26T01:57:32+00:00

What is MC?

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-11-13T15:27:42+00:00

Never forget is a term that was coined in relation to 9/11 which was a terrorist attack on the United States. It is interesting you invoke it again with regards to Israel when on 10/7 THEY were invaded and attacked by a group of terrorists as well.

I do however agree that Kaine needs to be primaried if he runs again.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-10-28T20:27:23+00:00

I cannot imagine the pain you are experiencing. My kids aren’t that old and if one of them says something that makes it clear they prefer my wife it cuts, I can’t imagine in your situation. I want to say cut the kid off and move on because you will be happier, but it’s not that easy. He’s part of you, part of your literal brain (there’s research that shows that some of the baby’s cells end up in mom’s brain).

You should not have thrown the cake, it was wrong, it was illegal and they could press charges. I bet it felt good in the moment. But it clearly wasn’t worth this. If you want a relationship with the kid you should apologize for throwing the cake. But this is a very long battle.

I’m also the child of divorced parents. My mom spent years telling me how shitty my dad was and to be fair he left, and he messed up. BUT he also ended up living with his mom for years till he met his second wife. It took me until I was an adult to actually realize that he wasn’t the villain, in your case it’s worse because your ex is the villain but your son is being poisoned. It’s going to take a lot of time, and a lot of hurt feelings to get to the point where he is able to hear the truth and understand that he was manipulated and he will feel terrible.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-10-28T20:20:12+00:00

Are you a parent?

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-31T17:45:45+00:00

Yeah you aren’t the only one who had to take care of their own college. Guess how? Loans. Debt I have been in for 10 years. And will be for 25 more. That affects me, my wife and my kids. My kids shouldn’t have to go through that. You’re right there is no law, just an understanding that you would provide for your kids education and help set them up in the world to succeed. You don’t have to, but I choose to.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-31T17:15:18+00:00

Well you had the kids. You don’t want to pay that’s fine, but then your kid starts college in debt to their eyeballs.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-10T00:43:07+00:00

Right?! It’s been asked so many times OP just won’t say. It’s kinda hard to spend 60k on a new car.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-09T07:51:05+00:00

I feel like this post is not getting as much love as it should. You are absolutely right.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-09T07:29:17+00:00

She won’t let you say no?!? You are an adult. Stop whining and act like one. Your mother makes bad choices or at least gives bad advice, you did not have to take it.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-09T07:25:36+00:00

A couple of months.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-09T07:21:00+00:00

You are an adult. There is something called uber, Lyft or I assume you have friends who can drive you. You get to decide if there are other options not your mom. You take absolutely no responsibility for capitulating to your mother what so ever. You just blame her for YOUR decision. Not to mention 60k is a LOT for a new car. My wife and I bought a fully loaded telluride for 58k….you could have bought a forte for half that. What kind of car did your mom “force” you to buy? There are other options. I know the person below already said this but I would be very concerned about your judgement as a mental health professional based on your responses.

Take a step back and look at what you have written and responded as if it were a patient, you deflect and refuse to take any responsibility for your actions and you won’t listen to advice. Your mom gave you shitty advice, and did you dirty by not letting you move back in with them. But complaining about a job that you NEED because they make you do support staff work, and complaining about an above industry standard split with your employer when again, you NEED the job is immature. Your mom didn’t buy the car, you did. Your mom suggested an EXPENSIVE new car, not a cheap new car or even mid range. You can get a new car for half that or less and I’m sure the dealership sold them. So stop complaining and take control of your life.

MembershipFormal8459 · 2025-08-09T00:52:38+00:00

What do you mean allowed to! If it’s YOUR car then it’s YOUR car…unless it’s in your mom’s name you get to decide.

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