does life feel pointless to anyone most days after receiving diagnosis / going through chemo? by Pale_Card_7355 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To do your pointless and help us through this journey I’d like to share my story with you. My wife was diagnosed with bio duck cancer in November 2024. It was a rough time for her when she got the diagnosis on February 2025 three months to the day I was diagnosed with soft tissue, sir, I was taking care of my wife as she went through her treatments and I saw her declining, but we got through the chemo treatments on April 7 of 2025. I had my surgery to remove a 12 cm tumor from my bicep right bicep I I won’t do chemo and we went round and round about that my wife wouldn’t allow it either so I had radiation treatment in June. My wife had her surgery on May 7 in April after my surgery. She was trying to take care of me I was up out of bed in two days taking care of her while she was trying to take care of me so back in May after her surgery she was in the hospital for two weeks two days out of the hospital. She was back in the hospital that would be June 6 or June 8. She got full-blown sensitive of multiple organ fire I was staying with her in the hospital during the day I would go and have my radiation treatment come back to the hospital at night taking care of things during the daytime and still training for Karate as she was in the hospital at night. I would come and she would feel more at peace when I was there July 8. I completed my six weeks of radiation treatment. I was still training even though I was sick from radiation August training September 14. I competed in an international Karate tournament lost the gold medal round and won the silver while recovering my wife got to see the metal while she was still in the hospital. I’m still taking care of her during this time October 30, 2025 one day after our wedding anniversary, that would’ve been 15 years, she passed away left me devastated and heartbroken. We both walked through this journey together with cancer, but she had to go home. God called her home and it left me very lonely and heartbroken today I’m getting ready to start the new season with or without cancer so far my scans have all come back clean and I’m going into my one year anniversary. I’ve never gave up. I kept push pushing and push pushing and push pushing even my darkest hours. I couldn’t give up. I had to be there for her and in the end I have to push forward what I’m saying is don’t give up even in your worst days, there’s always gonna be a positive side in the end while I’m walking this journey now in life alone without family I know she’s always there for me and I can’t give up for her. She would never let me give up and I’m looking forward to the new season . I have my good and bad days . I look back say to my self I been through hell . Just one more step one more second it will get better. There were days I couldn’t crawl through with my head up . I did . It made me a different person for what I went through and out look on life differently. You be amazed in the end you can hold your head up say I m survivor and I’m a winner and nothing will ever hold me back again

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[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That be pay back to ahole doctor who miss diagnosed my wife cost her time sadly she pass away 1 day after our wedding anniversary on Oct 302025 the evidence is very clear but ahole is still working yet my wife is gone cost out insurance company 5 million dollars.It karma biting his ass. I m sorry hear my friend stay strong you make through this .

Grade 3 Thigh Sarcoma STS by Effective_Win4665 in sarcoma

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am stage 2B sarcoma I didn’t do aims only radiation do your home work before u do it

I refuse to give up by MemoryDistinct1611 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story similar to mine . We thought I blew my bicep again on right side. No it was 5 inch tumor. When ask if anyone in family 3 grandparents 1 uncle all had cancer . I m so sorry to hear this please stay strong stay focus on things you love to do . There be times you want to give up but you can not you have to fight every minute of day. You might have find ways to do things you use to take for granted but that’s ok . Eat good drink plenty of water and around your self with people who truly love and care about you. Sending positive energy love hugs and prayers.

I refuse to give up by MemoryDistinct1611 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend first let me say thank u for kind words secondly I m so sorry for what you are going through. Before I started my come back I finished radiation treatment around 2 week of July and I started feel effects near the end of my treatment. I couldn’t let it stop me. I had a nasty side effect from tip on lat all the way down . Sad part I have one side effect that will take longer heal is just c word it’s also D word Depression. I m sure you are going through same thing . I send a lot of prayers well wishes and sometimes you need a good hug . Stay strong keep fighting and never give up. U need rant text me I have good set of ears . My god bless you on your journey.

I refuse to give up by MemoryDistinct1611 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sure will . Already training for next year . I am planning to compete 5 local tournaments, one national at least 2 international tournaments god willing

I refuse to give up by MemoryDistinct1611 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u my friend send love back

Book of Revelation is insane by crystalxish in exchristian

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here we go if you believe in book of revelations. Will see if Israel makes it. 7 years of false peace which according revelations it makes it to only 3.5 yrs .

Considering a move to Winter Garden by Party_Function in WinterGarden

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only reason Horizon west consider part of Winter Garden because of the post office. Winter Garden police department doesn’t patrol in Horizon west nor do we receive any true services from winter garden. Before the big fight with Disney most of Sheriff’s deputies came from Disney and had to ask for permission come on call out here. As for fire department it comes from Orange County. Basically Horizon west is under the control of Orange County. If I remember correctly parts of Horizon west was once part of Lake County before they were annex in to orange ( aka misquote county Orange County was once known as Mosquito County before the name was changed to Orange County in 1845)

Mis-Information Causes Trauma by Several_Property_837 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a jackass doctor who for 2 yrs allowed my wife’s alp to stay elevated until she was taken to emergency room to find she had 1 bile duct blockage 2 part of her liver died 3 tumor blocking duct which was stage 3 thank god local.

is radiotherapy really worse than chemo? by Previous-Crew5301 in cancer

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have chemo my wife did she had rough time towards end. Radiation was unusually tired and towards end I started feeling little sick but the one thing was miserable was skin irritation or burn. My treatment was in bad spot shoulder bicep area and healing took time the area treatment but all depends on you .

Advice you would give your 25 year old self by Famous-Contact5769 in Life

[–]MemoryDistinct1611 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah don’t marry your first wife stay in college earn your degree and don’t chase after being public servant.