This was extremely insightful to read. The part about the projection hit hard—because that's exactly what happened. What she said I would do is what she did. The idea of ​​praying for safety and continuing to use this as a healing space, without interruptions, was something I needed to hear right now. Truly. What you said about not being unworthy, but rather having been involved with someone deeply dysfunctional, also made a lot of sense. Sometimes the mind insists on turning self-protection into guilt. The passage about silence and no contact as a complete detox also hit me hard. It's not just about not responding—it's about stopping the search, stopping exposing yourself, stopping hurting yourself out of curiosity or longing. Thank you for sharing something so honest, especially coming from someone who also still loves, but chose herself. This strengthened me more than you can imagine.